Kodi ife, akazi, makamaka tikufunikira chiyani? Ana opeza bwino, nyumba yomwe munthu angakhalemo, makamaka osachepera atatu, galimoto yomwe ingatengeke, makamaka magalimoto achilendo, kukhala ndi anzathu ndi moyo, ndipo chofunika kwambiri ndi mwamuna yemwe atipatsa ife zonsezi. Nthawi zambiri timasankha anthu omwe sangatipatse chimodzi kapena china, koma amatha kupereka ana ... ndipo ana amafunika kuti azileredwa bwino. Chabwino, choti tichite, ngati ndife azimayi opusa. Ndipo tsopano tiyenera kukoka amuna athu, kuwaphunzitsa ndi kuwaphunzitsa momwe angapangire ndalama. Nanga bwanji ngati tilera munthu ndikumumasula ku ufulu? Nanga bwanji ngati wokonda kale angatipatse chirichonse, ndipo lero - palibe. Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikusowa wokondedwa wanga - mutu wa nkhani yathu.
Ndipo tsopano akuitanira ndi kunena kuti wapeza ntchito yabwino kwambiri, pomwe m'tsogolo adzawonekera kumwamba. Iko imatcha nthawi ina ndikuti iye akugula galimoto - galimoto yachilendo, ndipo osati zonyansa pamenepo. Iko imalira kachitatu ndipo imati akufuna kugula nyumba, osati nyumba ya chipinda chimodzi, koma chipinda chachitatu. Ndipo kodi maitanidwe awa amatanthauza chiyani? Mwinamwake izi ndizofuna kubwezeretsa chiyanjano, kenako funsani funso - Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikusowa yemwe kale anali wokondeka - chifukwa chakuti munamupangira munthu wopambana? Ndipo iwe udzamukonda iye kokha chifukwa cha izo? Ndipo adzakukondani ndi kukulemekezani? Kapena mwinamwake akungoganiza kuti ndiwe bwenzi, ndipo amamuitana ndikugawana naye chimwemwe, chifukwa pamene mudapatukana, munati, "Pepani, tiyeni tikhalebe mabwenzi" ndipo amatsatira zomwe mumakonda. Kapena mwinamwake akungofuna kukuwonetsani chomwe mwadula golide, ndipo mwinamwake akufuna kuti inu mumulume mphutsi zanu?
Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za zomwe mumamverera tsopano ndi momwe mungachitire. Inde, chigoba chachikazi chimati "Ndachita izi, ndipo zonse zomwe amachita, ayenera kundichitira," koma mumamverera bwanji? Palibe, kukwiya ndi umbombo zokha, chabwino, sitikufuna kupereka golide wotero kwa mkazi wina, simumverera kuti mumamva bwino, ndipo simukudziwa ngati maganizowa analipo kale. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?
Ndife akazi! Ngakhale kuti ndife opusa ndi naivete, ndife achinyengo ndipo nthawi zonse tingapeze njira yothetsera zovuta komanso zosatheka. Chinthu chofunikira kukumbukira ndi chakuti tonsefe tingathe. N'zotheka kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wamakono yemwe amakhala mu mtima mwanu, kuti apange choyenera, kuphunzitsa ndi kumvetsa zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa iye zomwe muyenera kukhala nazo m'tsogolomu naye mokondwera, ndipo makamaka chochuluka.
Pafupifupi anthu onse amakhulupirira kuti amayi ndi zolengedwa zonyenga zomwe amafuna kuchokera kwa iwo okha ndalama ndi chuma, magalimoto ndi diamondi, koma iwo samvetsa chifukwa chake timafunikira. Chikhalidwe chili kale mwa ife zonsezi, chifukwa ngati muyang'ana njira ya Animals Planet, amasonyeza chinthu chomwecho. Mwachitsanzo, mbawala yaikazi imasankha mwamuna ndi nyanga zazikulu, chifukwa nyanga zazikulu zimasonyeza ukulu ndi mphamvu ya mwamuna, nsomba zambiri zazimayi zimasankha amuna ndi miyeso yowala, mikango ndi ya mkango uli ndi manewa omwe amagwira gawo, ndipo akazi amasankha amuna ndi thumba lalikulu , ndi galimoto yayikulu komanso nyumba yaikulu, ndipo ndithudi ndi chikondi chachikulu kwa iye.
Anthu ambiri amanena kuti kugonana ndi chibadwa cha nyama, kapena kukamba za maonekedwe ena a zinyama, ndi akazi - tsogolo lathu labwino ndi chiwonetsero cha chibadwa cha zinyama, zomwe zili kale mwa amayi. Kotero, ngati amuna samvetsa izi, chifukwa sitingathe kulimbana ndi izi, ndipo sitidzatero, chifukwa tikuyenera kupatsidwa zonse zomwe zili zofunika kwa ife, chifukwa timapereka ana kwa iwo, ndizofala kwambiri kuti ana - uku ndiko kupitiriza kwawo, osati kwathu.
Ndipo kotero, kubwerera kumene ife tinayambira. Kubwereranso sikuli koyenera, ndipo kuyesa kubwezeretsa wokondedwa wanu sikoyenera, chifukwa ndi munthu wosasangalaka yemwe abwerera, ndipo amatero mtsogolo. Yang'anani mwachidwi ndipo musaphonye zomwe zingakupatseni zonsezi pakalipano. Khalani oleza mtima ndi wosankhidwa wanu, chifukwa kudzudzula kwanu kumangowonjezera mavuto anu. Ndikofunika kukankhira pang'onopang'ono ndi molondola pa tsogolo labwino, pakuti sizomwe akunena kuti "mwakachetechete mudzapitirira". Kondani panopo, ndipo muwasamalire, mupatseni mwamuna wanu chikondi chake chonse, ndipo adzaponya pamapazi anu zonse zomwe mukufuna, tsogolo labwino lomwe likuphatikizapo. Chifukwa chiyani mukusowa wokondedwa wanu pamene mukuwopsya komanso wamakono ?!