Kugonana
Mu maloto, mumalowa mu chiwerewere ndi anthu awiri kamodzi, mwinamwake zikutanthawuza kuti kwenikweni mulibe "mpweya" wokwanira, mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi ena, mukukuletsani kuchita, mukukakamiza kumamatira ku dongosolo lina ndikupitirira , kuchotsa kwathunthu zilakolako zanu. Pali njira ziwiri zochotsera izi. Choyamba, yang'anani nokha ndikuganizira zomwe mukufuna, ndipo yesetsani kukwaniritsa zosowa zanu, osati alendo. Ndipo, dziyang'anire nokha. Khalani ndi maganizo abwino, khalani wotanganidwa ndi zomwe mukufunikira kupereka. Ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala chirichonse-kuchokera ku salon wokongola kuti muziyenda mu nkhalango mu mpweya wabwino.
Kugonana munthu wosadziwika
Ngati muloto mumalowa mu chibwenzi ndi munthu wosadziwika bwino, izi zikutanthawuza kuti maganizo anu osamvetsetseka akusanza, zomwe simukuziganizira ngakhale zenizeni. Taganizirani izi, zingakhale zotani? Musathamangire ndi yankho, sikuti limayenera kugwirizanitsa ndi kugonana, mwinamwake ndi chifukwa cha khalidwe lanu, limene mukufuna kuti musinthe, koma malinga ndi momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito chidziwitso chanu. Maloto a zinthu zowonjezereka angapezekanso kwa oimira machitidwe okondana okwatirana omwe adzipangira okha katundu wolemetsa, kukhulupirira kuti akudalira okha, ndipo palibe yemwe angakhoze kusokoneza, chifukwa ndi bwino kuposa wina aliyense. Ndipo, pakali pano, malotowa akuti ndi nthawi yoti muyime ndi kuganizira ngati kuli koyenera kudzipangitsa nokha, mungathe kugawana ndi ena, ndipo kufunika kwanu sikungatheke.
Kugonana ndi woimira za amuna anu
Maloto oterewa sakunena za zilakolako zanu kapena kwa wina kugonana mogwirizana ndi maubwenzi. N'zosakayikitsa kuti moyo wanu ulibe chikondi ndi chikondi, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zovuta. Kapena, mwinamwake, chirichonse chiri chokonzekera kwambiri mu moyo wanu, chirichonse chimapita molingana ndi ndondomeko, yomwe inu simukupunthwitsa mosayika konse. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti malotowo akuti ndiwothandiza kuganiziranso malingaliro anu ndikuwonjezera ufulu wanu.
Kugonana ndi zinthu za BDSM
Maloto omwe mumakhala nawo pa chibwenzi, pokhala ndi amayi omwe ali ndi zida zogonana ndi magulu apamtima, amasonyeza kuti mungatumizidwe ku gulu la anthu omwe nthawi zonse amadziwa zonse, ndikukulangizani poyamba, yesetsani kuziyang'anira nokha, komanso kuumiriza ena, zonse ziyenera kukhala zovuta kulamulira, koma, za zochita, izi siziri choncho. Simungathe kumasulira zilakolako zanu kukhala zenizeni pazifukwa zina. Ndiye, malotowa akunena kuti ndi bwino kulingalira ngati mukusowa zonse za nasamomzo ... kulamulira kolimba, chilango. Mwinamwake ndi bwino kuyang'ana pa dziko kuchokera ku mbali ina, kubweretsa kuwala kwa moyo.
Kugonana motsutsana ndi chifuniro
Pamene pali nkhanza mu maloto anu, zochitika za mnzanuyo motsutsana ndi chifuniro chanu, ndiye malotowo amanena kuti pachabe, wina akuphwanya malo anu, akukutsutsani, akutsutsa ufulu wonse wa zochita zanu. Izi zikhoza kugwirizana ndi maubwenzi anu onse, ndi ubale wanu kuntchito. Yesani kuzilingalira. Pali njira yachiwiri, yankho limasungidwa mkati mwanu. Mwina mukupondereza gawo lanu. Koma tsopano ganizirani, bwanji? Pambuyo pake, anthu angwiro salipo, ndipo khalidwe lomwe simukulikonda, siliyenera kuponderezedwa, liyenera kuyendetsedwa, ndi bwino kuchita.
Kugonana "pagulu"
Mu maloto ako, kodi iwe umalowa mu kugonana pamene uli pamalo, ndipo anthu amawona njira iyi? Mkhalidwe wa Snytakogo nthawi zambiri mumakhala otsekedwa, otsekedwa. Kachiwiri, apa sikutanthauza moyo wanu wapamtima, koma maganizo anu kumoyo wamba. Kugona kumati simungatseke akufa ndikusunga zinthu zonse. Ndikofunika kugawana zomwe mwakumana nazo ndikupewa kusungulumwa.