Mmene mungachitire pambuyo pa kugulitsidwa kwa mwamuna wake? Amayi ambiri amafunsa funso ili. Sungani sutikesi ndikuyiyika kunja kwa chitseko? Mukudziyerekezera kuti simukuzindikira chilichonse? Pezani nokondedwa wanu kuti mubwezerere mwamuna wosakhulupirikayo? Ndi mafunso angati omwe amayamba kuyankha, koma ndi kovuta kupeza mayankho kwa iwo.
Mukhoza kuganizira njira yosonkhanitsira sutikesi ndikuitumiza kwa mdani wanu. Ndipo icho, osati lingaliro loipa, ngakhale tsopano iye akuvutika. Usiku, kumvetsera zowonongeka bwino izi, kusonkhanitsa masokosi akuda m'zipinda. Amakhala pambali pake pamene akudwala. Iye akuganiza. kuti iye adzakhala nthawizonse wokoma, wachikondi, wofatsa. kuti iye sali ngati wakale wake, iye ali bwinoko, chifukwa iye anaganiza kuti abwere kwa iye ndi zinthu. koma iye sakudziwa kuti wabwera chifukwa chakuti alibe malo oti apite. Patatha sabata imodzi amayamba kukumbukira borscht, pies. Chikondi ndi chitonthozo cha nyumba yake, kumene ana ake akuyembekezera.
Chinthu chinanso sikuti uzindikire chigololo chake. Poyerekezera kuti ziyenera kukhala choncho, kudziletsa nokha ndi valerian tsiku lililonse ndikuganiza kuti tsiku lina lidzatha, ndipo anyamata onse akuyenda. Ndipo zaka zikupita, ndipo mwamsanga kupita, ataperekedwa ndi mwamuna wake, iwe umangodzidzudzula wekha pa khalidwe lotero. Mukhoza kugwiritsira ntchito ulusi wosaoneka womwe uli pakati pa inu ndi ana. Mungathe kukhala ndi moyo chifukwa cha ana, ndikudzilimbitsa nokha kuti ana amafunikira bambo. Ndipo kodi adzati akayamika akamakula? Inde, wina ayenera kuyembekezera kuti mwamuna adzalandira zobwereranso ndikubwerera kubanja, ndipo sadzachitanso kanthu kotere.
Koma chifukwa cha ichi, ndikofunika kuyesetsa, yesetsani kuchita kotero kuti analibe nthawi yoti apite kwa mbuye wake. Mwachikondi, osapempha kuti mufunse thandizo pakhomo, kapena kupita kwa achibale kumapeto kwa sabata kapena madzulo. Pambuyo pa kugulitsidwa kwa mwamuna wake, mukufunikira ngati mfumukazi. Sinthani chithunzi chanu, yang'anani zomwe mukuyenda panyumba. Chovala chovala, zovala zopanda zovala komanso osapangidwira? Ndipo taganizirani (ndithudi izi ndi zosasangalatsa) monga zimakumana ndi mbuye wake. Wodzikongoletsera, mu chovala chokongola cha silika ndi kumamuimbira iye zosiyana zosiyana ndi momwe iye ali munthu wabwino, ndi nyani iye ali pa kama. Kodi mwamuuza mawu oterewa kwa nthawi yaitali? Muloleni iye ali pabedi akalulu, ndipo mu moyo munthu wamba akuphunzitsidwa ndi zigoba zake adatayika kosatha pa TV. Taganizirani izi, munthu samakonda kudya, komanso kuyang'ana ndi kumvetsera.
Ndipo chotsatira, kuchokera ku zomwe angakonde kuchita, ataperekedwa ndi mwamuna wake amapeza wokonda kubwezera mwamuna wake. Taganizirani izi mwamsanga, ngati ndinu mayi wabwino, ndiye kuti simungathe kuchita popanda zotsatira za dongosolo lanu la mitsempha. Chiwonongeko sichili ngati mapira monga momwe zimawonekera poyamba, zimafuna kukonzekera bwino. Simungasinthe mwamuna ndi munthu woyamba amene akugwidwa, izi ndi zachiwerewere. Ndipo sizidzakhala zophweka kwa inu, khulupirirani ine. Kubwezera si kokoma monga kumawonekera poyamba.
Momwe mungakhalire mutatha kugulitsidwa kwa mwamuna wake, ziri kwa inu ndipo palibe wina amene angasankhe. Palibe bwenzi akukulangizani chisankho choyenera, mvetserani mtima wanu, dziwone nokha pagalasi ndipo yankho lidzabwera palokha!