Mayi wosangalala kwambiri ali ndi zaka zingati?

Mayi wosangalala kwambiri ali ndi zaka zingati? Choyamba, tifunika kusankha tanthauzo la mawu akuti "chisangalalo cha amai". Chimwemwe ndikumverera ndi chikhalidwe cha kukhutira kwathunthu kwathunthu, kupambana, mwayi (kuchokera kumasulira ofotokozera). Akazi amafuna kukhala okongola, olemera, okondedwa, kukhala ndi ntchito, banja, ana, thanzi, malo ogona, kotero ndi kovuta kufotokoza molondola zaka, chifukwa zonse zimachitika nthawi zosiyanasiyana. Chimwemwe ... ndi chachikulu komanso chochuluka: osataya mwayi wokhala osangalala mwa mmodzi, adzapeza chimwemwe chake mwa wina. Zili ngati nkhani yamatsenga. Kumanzere iwe udzapita - iwe udzapeza, iwe udzapita kumanja, iwe udzataya. Tsogolo la wina lidalitsa aliyense, koma limachepetsa moyo, ndipo amafalikira ngati nyenyezi zowala pofika pamapeto a chiwonongeko, ndipo wina mwakachetechete, amakhala moyo wamtendere kwa nthawi yayitali, mosamvetseka, ndi za izo ndipo wina akhoza kunena kuti ndi mkazi wokondwa kwambiri. Chimwemwe ndizofupika. Chimwemwe chosatha sichipezeka, monga ayezi osamanga. Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe mukwaniritsa cholinga. Chimwemwe chiri pachiyambi cha chimwemwe. Iwe umakwatirana.

Nthawi ya chimwemwe ndi ukwati wa mitima iwiri yachikondi. Chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe ndi ana achikondi, koma chikondi chenicheni ndi chipiriro ndi chisoni. Chisangalalo chachikulu sichikudziyesa wekha wapadera, koma kukhala ngati anthu onse. Kusudzulana ndi mphindi yokondwera. Potsirizira pake, mumaphwanya kugwirizana komwe kunakupangitsani kusasangalala. Inu mumafuna mwana. Kubadwa - chimwemwe kwa makolo, maonekedwe a wolandira cholowa choyembekezera. Mzimayi amadzaza ndi chimwemwe pamene abweretsedwa kwa mwana kuchipatala, amakakamiza mwana amene amayembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali kuti adye. Kuyankhulana ndi ana kumapangitsa anthu kukhala osangalala, amayi omwe sadziwa chisangalalo cha amayi amakhala okonzeka kutenga ndalama zambiri kuti abereke mwana. Amayi ndi chimwemwe. Inu munachiritsidwa kwa mtundu wina wa matenda. Kubwezera ndi chisangalalo. Zaka zina m'moyo zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi mapeto a nthawi iliyonse zingatchedwe kuti chimwemwe, izi ndi kusintha kuchokera ku khalidwe limodzi kupita ku wina: kuchokera kuchipatala kupita kuchipatala, kuchokera ku sukulu ya sukulu kupita ku sukulu, kuchoka ku sukulu kupita ku sukulu yophunzitsira nthawi zonse. Ndili ndi ntchito yabwino - yokondwa kwambiri. Watha msinkhu wopuma pantchito - pomaliza. Chisangalalo pa nkhope za akazi omwe amakumana ndi ana awo kuchokera ku ankhondo amoyo ndi wathanzi. Akazi okondwa kumapeto kwa mikangano iliyonse yamasewera, chifukwa mkazi ali ndi cholinga chokhalitsa moyo, osati kutha moyo wake, choncho amayi nthawi zonse amatsutsana ndi nkhondo zomwe zimabweretsa njala, matenda, ndi kuwonongeka kwa anthu. "O, mkazi, akumva chisoni kuti galasilo lake limakula."

Mapepala amadzaza zithunzi ndi mitu yonena za kupambana kokondweretsa kwa amayi pa kulemera kwake. Chimwemwe ndi mphindi yakugonjetsa. Kuseka ndi kulira kuchokera ku chisangalalo cha atsikana ndi atsikana, othamanga omwe apindula zotsatira pambuyo pa kuphunzitsidwa kwa nthawi yaitali. Ophunzira osangalala pambuyo pa gawo lapambano. Thandizo la Lucky mu mphoto ya loti ndi lottery. Mutha kuyitana mkazi wachimwemwe amene anamva chiwonetsero cha chikondi kuchokera kwa wokondedwa. Mwapatsidwa makiyi a nyumba yatsopano kapena nyumba. Kukondweretsa nyumba ndi nthawi yosangalatsa ya moyo.

Kotero, ali ndi zaka zingati akazi okondwa kwambiri? N'zovuta kunena. Moyo umakhala ndi nthawi zosangalatsa za moyo ndi nthawi pakati pawo, ndipo zonsezi zimachitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Chimwemwe ndi mpira umene, mwa chifuniro cha chuma, ukukwera lero pansi pa imodzi, mawa pansi pa mzake, ndi tsiku lotsatira pansi pa lachitatu, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mukufuna kukhala osangalala, khalani. Chimwemwe ... ndi chachikulu komanso chochuluka; osataya mwayi wokhala osangalala mwa mmodzi, kupeza chimwemwe chake mwa wina. Ndipo kwa iwo omwe amakhulupirira mu zizindikiro - tenga kangaude woyera, idyani chisa pa bedi lanu, ndipo inu mudzakhala okondwa. Sikuti mkazi aliyense akhoza kugona kumene akangaude amavala zikhomo, koma chifukwa cha chimwemwe chomwe munthu angavutike.