Kotero, mu gawo loyambirira, taphunzira kale zinayi zomwe tikuphunzira zokhudza kugonana kwa kugonana ndi maginito achikazi. Pamene mupitiliza maphunziro ena atatu ndikuphunzira njira zogonana, mukhoza kugonjetsa okongola mu masekondi angapo.
PHUNZIRO # 5. Sinthani gait yanu.
Ndikukulangizani kuti mumvetsetse zomwe zimachitika ndi amayi omwe akukhulupirira kuti ali okongola. Onaninso momwe amachitira zosayenera komanso zoyenera. Mapewa awo ali olunjika, ndipo mutu ukuleredwa, koma iwe umayenda bwanji? "Mabwana" oterewa ndi sitepe iliyonse ndi manja: "Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola. Ndikudziwa izi. " Ndi amayi awa omwe amachititsa munthuyo kumutsatira. Ndipo tsopano yang'anani pa malo anu, kodi ndi zofanana ndi zomwe tatchula pamwambapa? Imani ndikudalira khoma ndi spatula, ng'ombe, nape, zidendene ndi mabowo. Ndipo imani pamenepo kwa mphindi imodzi. Tsiku lililonse, chitani izi, pang'onopang'ono muwonjeze nthawiyo. Mukazindikira kuti mutha kale kukhala ndi mtengo wapatali, pitani ku phunziro lachidziwitso chatsopano.
Kumbukirani kuti kumbuyo kumakhala kosalala, monga ngati mutayima pafupi ndi khoma. Koma musapite patali, kapena simudzawoneka ngati mfumukazi, koma njoka yomwe inameza chitoliro chotalika. Gawoli likhoza kuyendetsa bwino kwambiri kugonana, liyenera kuyamba kuchokera pachiuno. Pa maphunziro oyambirira mungagwiritse ntchito malangizo a Verochka kuchokera mufilimu yanu yonse yomwe mumaikonda kwambiri "Office Romance."
Mwachibadwa, nthawi yoyamba simukuyenda ngati mfumukazi. Muyenera kutsatira nthawi zonse ndikuyendetsa bwino. Ndipotu sizinali zopanda phindu kuti mabanja olemekezeka a ana aphunzire izi kuyambira ali aang'ono. Nthawi zonse muzidziyang'ana pagalasi, izi sizidzakupatsani chidaliro, komanso zidzathe kusintha kusintha. Pakapita nthawi, muzolowera kusinthasintha kokongola, ndipo thupi lenilenilo lidzasokonezeka ndi kuyenda kosavuta komanso kosamvetsetseka.
PHUNZIRO №6. Kuphulika kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana mumathandiza.
Simunaganizepo, chifukwa chiyani kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo wanu kungakhale koyenera kusintha zovala zonse, kupangira tsitsi ndi kuyesa mitundu ina? Monga thupi lathu limafunikira mavitamini, ubongo umasowa kupanga "mtundu" nthawi zonse. Ndipo mtundu uliwonse umakhudza munthu mopanda malire.
Mtundu wofiira mosakayikira udzadzutsa kugonana kwanu. Sikuti imangowonjezera mphamvu zamkati, koma imapangitsanso libido. Inde, musadzaze zovala zonse ndi zinthu zamagazi. Anthu omwe akuzungulirani, izi siziyamikiridwa. Kuwonjezera apo, mtundu umenewu ukhoza kuyambitsa chiwawa ndi kuonjezera kugunda kwa mtima. Ndi bwino kudzichepetsera ku zipangizo zofiira, ndipo njira yabwino ndiyo kugula nsalu yofiira. Ngakhalenso lero si msonkhano wa mbiri yakale, mukhoza kukhala wotsimikiza komanso wokongola.
Komanso, yonjezereni pinki (ichi ndi chachikazi), lalanje (izo zidzakuthandizani kuchotsa manyazi, manyazi) ndi maluwa achikasu (adzakupatsani chimwemwe ndi mphamvu). Ndi tozenen yachikasu, yang'anani, chifukwa kukula kwake kwa mtundu uwu kungayambitse kuvutika maganizo ndi nkhawa. Mdima ndi mtundu waukulu, womwe mungayang'ane wodabwitsa ndi wodabwitsa.
Pofuna kupeza "mapiritsi" achikwama, chovala chimodzi sichitha kupirira. Ikani nyali pansi pa bedi kapena kugula nsalu yakuda (mtundu uwu umathandiza kuti mugone mokwanira). Kapena, kawirikawiri, waiwala kugula, ingodzipangitsani nokha gawo la mtundu wa mankhwala. Lembani pansi pa sofa, yang'anani maso anu, ndipo ganizirani kumwamba. Utawaleza unawonekera kumwamba. Samalirani kwambiri mtundu wofiira, taganizirani momwe zimagwirira ntchito, zimasiyanitsa ndi utawaleza ndipo zimapanga mtambo. Yang'anani - ikuyandikira pafupi ndi inu, imagawidwa ndi zibwenzi ndi mathithi pa mvula ya ruby. Mitambo yofiira inadyetsedwa pakhungu lanu. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito masewerowa nthawi zonse, zimakupatsani kulimbika, kugonana ndi mphamvu.
Musaope konse kuphunzira chinachake chatsopano ndi chosadziwika, kuyesera nthawizonse. Kuti mudziwe nokha, kuyesayesa kulikonse kulandiridwa. Komabe, kumbukirani kuti chinsinsi chofunika kwambiri cha kukongola kwa amayi chimakhala m'maso okonda. Yesetsani kukondana ndi mphunzitsi wokonda thupi labwino, wocheza naye, mwiniwake wa paki yamadzi kapena ... kachiwiri mwa mwamuna wanu, yemwe akhala akukhala kwa zaka 10. Ndiye inu nokha mudzawona momwe kuwala kowala, kanyumba kowoneka bwino, galimoto yachifumu, ndi kusekerera kosangalatsa pamilomo yanu.
PHUNZIRO # 17. Sangalalani!
Kugonana kwachikazi kumadalira mwachindunji chisangalalo chimene mtsikanayo amapeza akamagonana. Amuna mwamsanga samvetsera mkazi yemwe ali wokondwa mu moyo wapamtima. Zimakhudzidwa ndi kumverera kwa mkazi. Ndiponso kuyang'ana kwa "njala" kumawopsyeza olambira onse.
Kodi mukufuna kuoneka ngati wachimwemwe wokondwa? Njira yokhayo yowonekera ndiyo kukhala osamvetsetseka kwambiri! Musatenge ntchito yaukwati ngati "ntchito yausiku" kapena ntchito yovuta. Musati mufunse mafunso: "Kodi ndimamukonda iye ali pabedi?", Choyamba dzifunseni: "Kodi ndi bwino?". Ngati si choncho, chitani zonse zomwe zimadalira inu, kuti yankho lanu likhale lolimbikitsa.
Pakadali pano, kugonana kwa anthu ogonana kumanena kuti kukonza moyo wawo wapamtima ndi kotheka ndi vumbildinga, ndiko kuti, kuphunzitsidwa kwa minofu ya m'mimba. Izi sizothandiza kokha pa thanzi, koma zimakhazikitsa komanso zowononga chikhalidwe cha mkazi. Komabe, mukhoza kuyamba ndi malipiro osaneneka. Osakhala waulesi, kugula zolembera kuti mukhale wathanzi kapena ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Pamodzi ndi mphunzitsi, tenga zochitika zomwe zimakhala mkati mwa ntchafu. Pambuyo pa miyezi 2-3, mumamva bwino kusintha.
Ngati mukufuna kugwirizanitsa malonda ndi zosangalatsa, pitani ku kavalo. Kumtunda kumtunda kumakhudza kwambiri minofu ya ntchafu ndi mapako. Komanso, kuyankhulana ndi akavalo ndizosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo pamene muli ndi chidaliro chokhala mu sitima, nditengereni ku maphunziro a munthu wokondedwa wanga. Pahatchi, iwe udzawoneka kwambiri. Choncho, ngati mnzanu atangophunzitsidwa maso atadzazidwa ndi chilakolako, musadabwe!
Mchitidwe wa kugonana
Akatswiri a ku America amati timasankha tokha. Ndipo akatswiri okonda kugonana a ku Russia amadziwa ngakhale njira ya chiwerewere!
Ngati simunadziwe, ndiye kuti munthu aliyense amamasula mankhwala osokoneza bongo, omwe amamvetsa mosiyana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Izi ndi momwe chilakolako cha kugonana chimayambira. Choncho, pamene tikumva fungo, amuna ambiri amafuna ife. Komanso, ofufuza a ku America amati ma blondes ndi otchuka kwambiri chifukwa cha pheromone yawo yambiri: eni tsitsi amatha kununkhira mwamphamvu. Ndi moyo wapafupi, kumasulidwa kwa pheromones kumawonjezeka.
Komabe, ochita kafukufuku a ku Russia adapezapo peresenti yapadera yomwe imaonedwa kuti ndi yabwino kwambiri pa kubadwa kwa chiwerewere.
Apa ndi momwe zikuwonekera:
- kudzidalira - 5%. Muyenera kudziwa kuti kavalidwe kabwino kamakupatsani inu kugonana ndi chidaliro, komanso mumameta tsitsi lanu.
- udindo pakati pa anthu - 5%. Asayansi amanena kuti izi ndi "kugonana kosayenera." Mwamuna akaona mkazi wolemera ndi wopambana, amadzikonda yekha. Koma galimoto yokwera mtengo sichithandiza kupambana mwamuna, ngati ayi, ndithudi, ndi womanizer.
- zokopa kwenikweni ndi 5%. Inde, kukongola kwachilengedwe nthawi zonse kumakhala kuphatikizapo. Komabe, ofufuza a ku Russia amanena kuti izi si zofunika kwambiri.
- kudzikongoletsa - 5%. Ngati kukongola sikofunika kwambiri, ndiye kuti muzisamalira nokha. Muyenera kukhala ndi manicure atsopano, kupanga kuwala ndi tsitsi loyenera.
- kudzidalira - 80%. Asayansi amati izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. Ndi amayi omasuka, otseguka komanso osatsekedwa omwe ali oyenerera okha m'moyo, amawoneka okongola kwambiri, ndipo izi zikhoza kutsimikiziridwa ndi munthu aliyense.
Kodi mudadziwa kuti ...
Asayansi odziwika kwambiri atulukira njira yotereyi yomwe ingatheke kuwerengera bwino chiuno ndi chiuno: FROM / OB = 0,7Chem yang'anani zotsatira zanu ku chiwerengero ichi, makamaka kugonana ndipo mukukongola pamaso pa anthu. Nsonga "zabwino" kwambiri ndi chiuno pa KailiMinoug, zotsatira zake ndi - 0,702.