Kulumikizana kwakukulu?
Aliyense wa ife amadziwa chilakolako cholankhulana ndi omwe amamvera chisoni ndi omwe timamumvera chisoni. Izi ndi momwe kufunikira kwa nsomba zonse, zomwe timalumikizana nazo, kuti tipeze mgwirizano wapafupi, wotanthauzira, wotchedwa "kugwirizana" (kugwirizana), kumaonekera. Timafunikira iwo omwe amazindikira makhalidwe athu, chidziwitso ndi luso, zopindula ndi zoyenera. Kotero ndi zachilendo kuti ubwenzi umayamba kumene timagwira ntchito. Koma kodi ndi zabwino kuganizira ubwenzi weniweniwo? Kodi pali chikondi, chikondi, kuwona mtima, ubwenzi wauzimu - chirichonse chokhudzana ndi ubale pakati pathu?
Nthawi zina tonse timadya chakudya chamadzulo pamodzi ndi dipatimenti yonse, ndikuitana wina madzulo, koma sindingatchule wina kwa anzanga kukhala bwenzi lapamtima. Timagawana zinthu zambiri wina ndi mnzake, koma timakhalanso chete pazinthu zambiri. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti maubwenzi athu omwe timakhala nawo tsiku ndi tsiku amalankhulana, chifukwa amachititsa chidwi chokhudzana ndi ntchito, mpikisano kapena malamulo oyankhulana? Ayi, izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse. Pali malire omveka pakati pa "bwenzi" ndi "bwenzi": timamva tikamayandikira kwambiri moyo wa munthu wina. Ena a ife timapeza kuti kosavuta kuyandikira kwa anthu chifukwa cha umunthu wathu ndi kulera. Mwana akamayang'anitsitsa, zilakolako zake, malo ake enieni, malingaliro ake amalemekezedwa, choncho, pokhala achikulire, sadzachita mantha ku ubwenzi wabwino ndi ubwenzi wapamtima, womwe umatsimikizira osati kukhulupirika ndi kuthandizana, komanso kuyanjana, kukhulupilira. Sadzachita mantha.
Mavuto amabweretsa pamodzi ...
Ntchito, ndithudi, si gulu la zofuna, ndipo kudalira ubale nthawi zambiri kumakhala kutsutsana ndi malamulo a mgwirizano. Mu mkhalidwe uno, timakakamizidwa kukhalabe pakati paokha ndi akatswiri, koma nthawi zambiri timayenera kupereka nsembe. Pomwe ndikukhala, mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti, "osakhala ndi adani," avomereza mtsikana wina wa zaka 36, dzina lake Valery. Munthu wina akamvetsa chisoni ndimadzifunsa ndekha kuti: chifukwa chiyani amachita izi? Ndikofunika kuti ndisayanjane, koma kuti ndipitirize kugwira ntchito. Ubale pakati pa anzanu umatsimikiziridwa ndi kuphatikiza umunthu ndi nkhani. Kupititsa patsogolo ntchito, kukamenyana ndi mpikisano, ndi ubwenzi kuntchito sikugwirizana. Pambuyo pake, zochita zonse ndi zochita zawo zimagonjetsa cholinga chachikulu. Koma kaŵirikaŵiri awo omwe ali ndi cholinga cha ntchito, kufikira pamwamba, amapeza momwe aliri okha. Pafupi ndi iwo palibe amene mungakhale naye. Ndipo mosiyana, ngati ogwira nawo ntchito ali ndi cholinga chimodzi, ndiye kuti ubale wa munthu umatha, ndipo ambiri mwa iwo amakula kukhala mabwenzi. Mpikisano waumwini umalepheretsa ubale, ndi kukwaniritsa ntchito zowonongeka, monga kuthana ndi mavuto ambiri, m'malo mwake, zimathandizira. Ndi mzanga wamtima wapamtima tsopano tinkakumana naye kampani yeniyeni, kumene abwana mwa njira zosiyanasiyana amachotsa mabungwe onse, kupatulapo bizinesi. Ubwenzi wathu unayambira osati chifukwa cha, koma ngakhale zinali choncho. Ndipo zinakhala zolimba kwambiri, "anatero Anton, wazaka 33, Sales Manager. Mgwirizano wa mgwirizano ndi mabwenzi apamtima ndi apamwamba kuposa bungwe lamphamvu la anthu. Ubwenzi muzochitika zotero umakhala njira yopulumuka. Izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa kampani yaying'ono, ndi dziko lonse. Choncho, ku Soviet Union, komwe boma linkapanikiza anthu ndipo nthawi zonse linasokoneza maubwenzi, linawalamulira, ambiri anali mabwenzi apamtima. Ngati mutasintha udindo wanu kapena ntchito, ena a ife timasokoneza maubwenzi, omwe simunakayikire dzulo. Monga lamulo, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti timatenga ubwenzi monga ubwenzi, umene sichidalira momwe tilili, chuma, kapena nthawi ina iliyonse yoipa. Sichikukhudzidwa ndi mtunda ndi zaka, kuchuluka kwa misonkhano komanso (osati) mwadzidzidzi wa ndondomeko. Koma kodi mungadziteteze kukhumudwitsidwa? Mwina, inde. Ngati timvetsetsa malire a ubwenzi kuntchito, zidzatithandiza kuyamikira pamene zikukulirakulira, komanso osadandaula ngati, kwenikweni, siwamphamvu kwambiri.