Chifukwa cha maganizo osagwedera, ali wokonzeka zambiri, kuphatikizapo ubwenzi wapamtima. Ndipo mwamuna kapena mkazi, monga momwe akuyenera, akusowa mosiyana - akuyang'ana zosangalatsa zakuthupi mu ubale ndi mkazi, zomwe ali wokonzeka kulipira ndi chikondi chodziwika. Pali, ndithudi, zosiyana, pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi amasintha malo: amatsatira zosangalatsa za kugonana, ndipo iye, atatopa ndi chiwerewere, amalakalaka kuumirira, kuyanjana kwa nthawi yaitali komanso kubwerera m'mbuyo. Amayi ambiri amalota kuti akhale ndi munthu woteroyo. Koma pofuna kuti anthu ambiri azikonda kugonana okha, muyenera kumvetsetsa momwe khalidwe la amuna likuwonera kufunika kokhala ndi chibwenzi.
Zosiyana, ngati mwamuna akufuna kugonana kokha.
Chinthu chovuta kwambiri kuchiwona ndi mkazi yemwe amasangalatsidwa naye. Koma, pokhala atasanthula khalidwe la mnzanuyo, pakutha nthawi amasiya chitukuko chakumverera kwa iye mu mtima mwake. Chinthu chachikulu cha munthu wokonda kugonana ndikumusangalatsa wokondedwa wake. Zochitika zake zokhudzana ndi kugonana kosagwirizana kwenikweni zimayika m'manja mwake ulusi wa kuyang'anira maganizo a amayi. Mwamuna wotereyo akuwoneka kuti wakhala akudziwiratu kwa nthawi yayitali mutatha kukambirana pang'ono. Ndipo amatha kukondweretsa osati amayi okha a msinkhu wake, komanso amuna omwe alipo mu kampani, ndi oimira akuluakulu, makamaka-ana.
Makhalidwe a mwamuna yemwe amafuna kugonana kokha, amatha kukhala wangwiro mu luso kunena wothandizira woyenera. Mkazi amakonda makutu ndipo awa ndi amuna omwe amafuna zosangalatsa zokhazokha usiku, amadziwa bwino. Monga ambiri amene akulota za ubale weniweni. Osiyana ndi omalizawo, okonda chisankho chosadziwika amadziwanso momwe angagwiritsire ntchito chidziwitso ichi. Kulumikizidwa kwa munthu wotero ndi kosavuta kusiyanitsa kuchokera ku mawu owona a mfundo yosangalatsa yokhudza mnzanu: mawu okondana adzakondweretsa chimodzimodzi konkire lero ndi omvera ake omwe alipo pafupi. Palibe mthandizi woterewu wothandizidwa ndi munthu woteroyo, wothandizira bwino. Zonsezi, koma zogwira mtima, zoganizira komanso zokongola.
Chizoloŵezi china.
Komanso, muzochita za mwamuna yemwe amafuna kugonana kokha, wina amatha kuona chinthu china chofunikira nthawi zonse: samamuuza mnzake za iye yekha ndi banja lake. Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo ndi womvetsera mwachidwi komanso womvetsera mwachidwi. Munthu woteroyo sangasokoneze nthawi yaitali yomwe yayesedwa ndi mavuto kuntchito, ku yunivesite kapena kuyanjana ndi makolo. Ndikumvetsera mwachifundo, amamvetsera nkhani yake, osasokonezedwa ngakhale kuitana kwa foni yake. Zoona, tsiku lotsatira tsiku lomwelo iye anali kuiŵala kale chirichonse chimene mnzanuyo amamuuza. Ngati kugonana naye sakukondedwa naye, akulakalaka kubwereza. Ndiye adzaonetsetsa kuti akumbukire nkhani yake ndikuyesera kuchotsa mwa iye zinthu zambiri zomwe zimamulimbikitsa mkaziyo.
Chizindikiro china chomveka cha mwamuna yemwe ali ndi chidwi chokhalira pa nthawi imodzi ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi malingaliro a nthawi yayitali mu ubale pakati pa iye ndi mnzake. Amuna amenewa amakonda kwambiri kuuza aliyense za chikhumbo chofuna kupeza mwana wamkazi yemwe angamuchotsere mantha ndi malingaliro ambiri omwe amati akuwombera mtima wake. Malingana ndi nkhani za munthu wotero, chithunzi chowawa cha zakale zovuta kwambiri chimangobwera: msungwana woyamba anam'pereka, chikondi cha moyo wake chinamupandukira, iye anayamba kumuchititsa manyazi pamaso pa aliyense, makolo ake anam'menya pamaso pa abwenzi ake. Nkhani zambiri zomvetsa chisoni zakonzeka kubwera ndi amuna oterowo kuti amvetse chisoni mayiyo ndi kumukakamiza kuti akhale naye pachibwenzi. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ndi chiyani kuchokera pa zomwe wanena kale, zenizeni kuti zenizeni kuti iye amagwiritsira ntchito zowawa zake kuti atenge zomwe iye akufuna ziyenera kuyang'anitsitsa mkaziyo.
Kusokonezeka kwazimayi.
Pali lingaliro lakuti mwamuna yemwe amafuna kuti kugonana asamufunse mtsikanayo za zolinga zake za sabata yotsatira kapena Chaka Chatsopano. Chifukwa chachinyengo ichi sichikusowa: ndithudi, wokondedwa wotereyo alibe chidwi ndi tsogolo la yemwe adzatha kunyenga kale madzulo. Komabe, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti munthu woteroyo ali ndi chidwi ndi kuti chilakolako chake cha lero cha kusowa kwa chidwichi sichikudziwikiratu. Iye sanabadwe ndi mtima wamtima, iye anakhala-pambuyo pa zochitika zingapo ndi zofooka zomwe zinakwiyidwa ndi iwo. Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu kwa munthu woteroyo, chifukwa chokhala ndi nthawi yaitali, yeniyeni, yokhudzana kugonana ndi momwe iye anachitira pakuyankhulana ndi mkazi pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, monga maphunziro. Kutulutsidwa kuchokera kumtima wamtima, utsi wochuluka wophimba chiyanjano pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, wokonda kugonana amatha kugwiritsa ntchito mwakhama maganizo a mnzake kufikira atakwaniritsa chiyanjano. Pambuyo pake iye adzakhala kwa iye yekha chigonjetso china - chiyeso chodutsa, chomwe chiri chosangalatsa chokumbukira, koma munthu wofunikira sakuwona kubwerera kwa iye.
Amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mwamuna yemwe akufuna kugonana ndi munthu aliyense yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana chomwe sichinachitikepo mofananamo - yekhayo amene amatha kumugonjetsa. Choncho, ngakhale kuona zizindikiro zooneka bwino za munthu wotere, mabwenzi awo ambiri amayanjana ndi iwo okha kuti akhale ofanana. Malinga ndi kuti mkazi woteroyo akhoza kukana maganizo, mantha ndi nsanje kuchokera kwa iyemwini, masewera pakati pa abwenzi amenewa akhoza kubweretsa chisangalalo chosaneneka kwa onse awiri. Zoona, izo zidzakhala zolemetsa ndi zovuta. Koma zosangalatsa kwambiri osati zosangalatsa. Koma pokhapokha panthawi yomwe munthu amamva kuti akumva kuti ali ndi zibwenzi, amatha kuthawa mwambo wake: kuthekera kwamuyaya ndi njira yosadziwika ndi imodzi mwa luso lapadera la smoothies.