Sakanizani pafunidwa
O, bwerani, tiyeni tipite! Pamwamba pamphuno! Kwa inu mu moyo zonse ziri zabwino kapena zosiyana: ntchito ndi, nyumba, thanzi! Inde, pali mzere mpaka ku Dnieper kuti mutenge malo anu. Malangizo osangalatsa a mnzako sizinali zopanda phindu ayi - adapatsa chinachake choipa, mwinamwake, chithunzithunzi chachinsinsi cha ndalama zanga, kapena chimwemwe chachinsinsi pa zomwe ndinapeza pamtendere. Zonsezi ndizokhalira ndikudandaula, koma kuyambira nthawi imeneyo sindinamuimbire foni - chifukwa siye yekhayo wokhala pafupi. Ngati uphungu woti ulavulire ndi kupumula uli woona mtima, uli ndi tanthawuzo lalikulu ngati chilakolako chokondweretsa munthu amene amadyetsedwa shuga kudzera mu chubu.
Chitsanzo china cha mndandanda womwewo ndi mwinamwake kuvutika maganizo kwa moyo wa mkazi wamakono.
Mu chilakolako cha Chisilova pali chinthu chimodzi chowopsya: mwachisoni komanso mokondwera timafuna kuti ena ayankhule nawo. Ndi zokangana zokhudzana ndi ndale mu trolleybus, ndi kuledzera koledzeretsa, ndi maganizo okayikira anthu omwe samamwa pa tebulo - zonsezi chifukwa cholephera kulemekeza munthu wina. Koma m'zaka khumi zapitazi, chikhalidwe cha Western Europe - chitsimikizo chabwino - chakhala chikudziwika pa chikhalidwe ichi. Zosakanizazo zinakhala zowonongeka.
Mbiri zaka ziwiri
"Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri," akunena zakuya, wodabwitsa kwambiri wa Murav'eva, kutsata malingaliro amphamvu a bwenzi lake la maganizo. Kubwereza mokweza mawu "zitsimikizo zabwino" (zofotokozera) ndi imodzi mwa njira zazikulu za maganizo abwino. "Ndidzapambana"; "Ndikudzidalira kwambiri"; "Ndikumva bwino komanso bwino" ... Dr. Emil Kue, yemwe ndi dokotala wa ku France, adapanga thanzi labwino pa moyo wa mkazi wamakono komanso odwala ake kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 1900, koma kuyambira pamenepo maganizo ake apangidwa ndi kutsimikiziridwa mu mazana a mabuku olemba osiyana: Louise Hay, Liz Burbo, Mirzakarima Norbekova, Valery Sinelnikov, Natalia Pravdina, Alexander Sviyash. Zonsezi ndi zosiyana kwambiri, ndi maphunziro osiyanasiyana ndi zochitika pamoyo, koma amavomereza pa chinthu chimodzi: dziko lapansi mu ntchito zawo likuwoneka ngati malo osungira omwe munthu aliyense angathe kukwaniritsa zosowa zake za chikondi, thanzi, chuma, kutchuka, mu foni yatsopano, yaikulu nyumba ndi holide ku Canary. Zokwanira kupanga bwino pempho lanu ku Zonse, ndipo lidzayankha. "Zimene mukuganiza ndi kukhulupirira, zidzakwaniritsidwa kwa inu. Malingaliro anu amalenga moyo wanu. Ndi zophweka! "Akudandaula Louise Hay. Iye mwiniyo, malinga ndi mbiri ya boma, adachiritsidwa ndi khansa m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, pogwiritsa ntchito zakudya zokha, kuwombera thupi, komanso chofunikira kwambiri, malingaliro abwino, kapena zovomerezeka. Komabe, palibe amene angatsimikizire kuti chithandizo cha khansa ndi chotheka. Odwala amadziŵa amadziŵa zambiri pamene chotupacho sichinathe kukhalapo kapena "kutengeka". Izi zimatchedwa "kusakhululukidwa kosadziwika." Ngati anthu onse ochiritsidwa adagwiritsa ntchito njira ya Louise Hay, izi zidziwika kale ndi dziko lapansi, ndipo adzalandira mphoto ya Nobel. Koma - tsoka. Chilichonse ndi chovuta kwambiri. Sitikutsutsa kuti kansa ndi chikhalidwe cha chilengedwe, ndipo zitha kutheka kuti wodwalayo ali ndi chiyembekezo chochita zozizwitsa. Kukhala wokhazikika mwa dongosolo ndi kosatheka.
Chizindikiro chofunika cha umunthu wathanzi ndi wokhwima maganizo ndi kupsinjika maganizo m'moyo wa mkazi wamakono ndikumatha kumva chisoni, osadandaula komanso osagwidwa ndi matenda. Koma luso limeneli, mwatsoka, silikula ndi chithandizo cha maganizo. Iyi ndi ndondomeko yovuta kwambiri kuposa yomwe ikuwoneka mu maganizo abwino, ndipo mawuwo akuwonetsera dziko lamkati m'malo molipanga. Inde, kukhala ndi maganizo abwino n'kofunika. Ochita masewerawa amatha kupambana mpikisanowo asanapange mpikisanowo. Koma nthawi zambiri timawona kuti izi sizigwira ntchito, ndipo malonjezano a "kuthetsa mdani padera" satsimikiziranso kupambana. Ndipo malingaliro abwino amapereka chinyengo chakuti chirichonse mu dziko chikhoza kulamuliridwa mwanjira yamphamvu, ndipo izi sizikulongosola momveka bwino momwe zenizeni zikuwonetsera mantha amantha ndi nkhawa.
Mania of Delight
Kafukufuku wogwira mtima nthawi zambiri amakopa anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto aakulu pamoyo wawo. Mwachitsanzo, ndi thanzi kapena ndi ndalama. Pa malonjezano opindula mofulumira pa zachuma, mgwirizano wamakono wamakono umangidwa. Pamisonkhano yambiri, ogulitsa malonda amalankhulana wina ndi mzake momwe amakwaniritsira zolinga zomwe zimawoneka zosatheka; chifukwa chaka chomwe adalandira nyumba ya maloto awo; monga pogwiritsa ntchito zokolola zawo, iwo ameta tsitsi pamatumbo awo, ali ndi chifuwa, ndi zina zotero. Amayimba nyimbo, kufuula mawu - zitsimikizo zomwezo. Chotsatira ndicho kukhazikitsa kwa zikwi za anthu mu chifaniziro cha galimoto, kapena chisangalalo chachinyengo. "Poganizira za maganizo, matendawa amadziwika - manic-depressive psychosis. Gawo lachisokonezo limadziwika ndikumverera kuti palibe tsogolo, manic - kumverera kuti palibe kale, chirichonse chiri patsogolo, chirichonse chiri chotheka. Mdziko lino, munthu ndi wosakayikira, wokondwa, sangathe kugona, osadya ... Koma posakhalitsa zowonjezera zatha, ndi kuvutika maganizo, kuwonongeka kwamanjenje, matenda opweteka amayamba. Chikhalidwe cha ogulitsa malonda ndi opindulitsa kwa akuluakulu awo, kotero chimakhala chosasungidwa - mothandizidwa ndi mabuku, malamulo a bungwe, misonkhano, misonkhano.
Ntchito ya atsogoleri ndi kuika pansi pansi ndikupeza phindu.
Chitsanzo china chokopa chidwi chabwino cha maganizo pofuna kukwaniritsa bwino ndalama: "Ndiwe wosawuka, chifukwa simukukhulupirira kuti ndiwe woyenera kwambiri. Khulupirirani kuti kwinakwake kuli malipiro a madola zikwi khumi, zomwe mukufunira inu -ndipo mudzazipeza. " Mawu ofananawa ali m'mabuku ambiri omwe ali ndi maudindo monga "Momwe angakhalire mamilioni, osati makamaka kuwononga."
Kulimbikitsa kulimbitsa mtima koteroko ndi kosatheka panthawi yachisoni mu moyo wa mkazi wamakono. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, zotsatira zake zimakhala zovuta: kukhazikitsa cholinga chopanda nzeru kumadetsa kudzidalira. "Ngati ndapeza kasanu kawiri kuposa momwe ndikuyenerera, ndiye kuti ndine wolakwa, ndipo sindidzakonda ndekha mpaka nditachipeza. Ndipo ngati sindikupeza, ndikukhumudwa kwambiri. Nayi nkhani yochokera kwanga. Wopereka chithandizo, mtsikana, panthawi ina adaganiza kuti akufuna kupeza ndalama zatsopano mwamsanga ndikupanga bizinesi. Kodi mungapeze bwanji ndalama? Kunyenga. Anawerenga kuti m'zaka zitatu amatha kusonkhanitsa ndalama zoyenera, ndikuiwala za chirichonse, kukwatira ndi kuyamba moyo watsopano. Maganizo abwino kwambiri: tsogolo ndi losatha, pali ukwati ndi ana, ndipo zaka zikubwera si ine, si moyo wanga, njira yokwaniritsira zomwe mukufuna. Anatero, adayesa ndalama zonse zomwe analandira - natentha, ndipo adali ndi zambiri zoti achite. Ndipo mukuganiza kuti iye anachita chiyani? Ndinaganiza zobwerera kuntchito yanga kachiwiri. Ndiyeno chirichonse chidzakhala chabwino ... Koma zoona ndizo kuti mbali zamthunzi za moyo zimakonzekera ndi kuwombera pa mphindi yosavuta kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, pali wofuna bwino yemwe angamuuze mwamuna wake chirichonse. Ndipo hule wakale sali munthu yemweyo yemwe analipo kale. Kusintha kosasinthika kumachitika. "
Kuchokera kawirikawiri kupita kuzinthu
Chigawo chofunikira cha maganizo abwino ndikuwonetsera, "dongosolo" la zomwe mukufuna, zomwe Zonsezi ziyenera kukupatsani nthawi yomweyo. Nthawi zina "dongosolo" likuphedwa, mwinamwake olemba otchulidwa pamwambapa sakanakhala nacho cholemba. Koma mabuku samanena kuti malemba angati sanaphedwe.
Chinsinsi cha kupambana sizowona mwachangu komanso mopepuka kwa ntchitoyi, koma mosiyana - mukutseguka kwapafupi. Ngati mumadziuza nokha kuti: Pa tchuthi, ndikufuna kuti ndikhale usiku pa chilumba chakum'mwera chakum'mwera, kumbali ya nyanja, kumanja kwanga pali mitengo itatu ya kanjedza, ndipo kumanzere kumakhala mamita asanu mmwamba, chikhumbo chimenechi sichitha kukwaniritsidwa - malo padziko lapansi sangakhalepo konse. Ndi nkhani yosiyana ngati mutakhala ndi cholinga: Ndikufuna kukhala ndi tchuthi zosangalatsa, monga sindinayambe ndachitira; Ndikufuna ulendo! Kukonzekera uku kumapangitsa kuti thupi liziyang'aniridwa mwanjira inayake: timayambira mosadziŵa tcheru ndi mwayi umene sitinawonepo kale.
Wojambula wotchuka wa Kiev , Natalia Isupova, adaganiza mu 1998 kugula nyumba ndikupeza zomwe adalota. Mitengo panthawi imeneyo inagwa kwambiri, koma ndalama zake zokwana madola 15,000 zinali ndalama zambiri. Ndiye iye, wokonda mitundu yonse ya esotericism, anatembenukira ku dziko lapansi ndi pempho kuti "atumize" ndalama zake. "Ndinayamba kulandira malamulo, ndinapeza ndalama zokwana madola zikwi zisanu mwamsanga, ndipo mwanayo anandipatsa ndalama zambiri zomwe anasowa," wojambulayo akukumbukira, akutsimikiza kuti iyi ndi "yankho" la chilengedwe chonse. Ndipotu ichi ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha momwe kufufuza mwayi wapitilira. Mwachiwonekere, poyamba Natalia anakana kuchita ntchito yowonjezera, ndipo mwana wake sanafune kulemedwa ndi zopempha. Koma chikhumbo chogula nyumba chinali chachikulu kwambiri moti chinamukakamiza kuti alekerere - ndipo motero anapeza zomwe ankafuna.
Chikhulupiriro chake mu "malingaliro abwino" sichinapweteke aliyense. Isupova wakhala nthawi yokhumba kwambiri, moyo wokonda moyo komanso wokhutira, ndipo mabuku ochokera ku mndandanda wakuti "Thandizani nokha" amamuthandiza kudziwa za momwe moyo umakhalira. Koma nkhaniyi ndi yakuti maganizo abwino amapezeka nthawi zambiri ndi omwe ali ndi vuto "I"!
Mnzanga wina anakumana ndi mavuto osudzulana. Anapweteka kwambiri chifukwa makolo ake amapambana kwambiri omwe amakhala m'banja losangalala, ndipo mwanayo nthawi zonse amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zoyembekezera zake, kuti akhale "wotsitsi" muzinthu zonse. Atatha kusudzulana, adakhala wogulitsa malonda a kampani ina yokonzeratu. Pachimake ichi panali katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe amaphunzitsa amayi kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino a dziko lapansi ndipo anafotokozera kuti ngati chingwe chake chikagwedeza cilia ndipo ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kirimu, ndiye kuti moyo udzasintha. Bwenzi langa anachita zonsezi, anayamba kumverera bwino ndikuwoneka, iye adakhulupirira mwa iye yekha ndipo anakwatira kachiwiri. Koma posakhalitsa banja latsopanoli linali ndi mavuto ofanana ndi omwe analipo kale. Ndizochilengedwe - pambuyo pa zonse, zokhala ndi chiyembekezo chokhazikika ndi chikhulupiliro chakuti zonse ndizotheka - kupanga chabe kumene kumabisa chisokonezo chakukhumudwitsa. Ngati muli ndi chiwindi chakudwala, maziko, ndithudi, adzabisa khungu loipa, koma mkati mwake lidzapita kuwonongeka!
Pitani pansi pano
Kotero, kuwerenga maganizo abwino - pshik, chinyengo, mwano? Ayi ndithu. Ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Popeza m'mabungwe athu kwa zaka zambiri zatsimikiziridwa kusamutsira udindo kwa Mulungu, boma, boma, anthu oyandikana nawo, ndiye mafanizidwe a maganizo abwino amayesetsa kupereka moyo wawo pazochita zawo, angelo, chilengedwe. M'madera a American, kumene malangizo awa a maganizo anabadwira, anthu amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti adziyese okha, kotero kuti malingaliro awo amayamba kukhala kuyesetsa kwenikweni kuti akwaniritse cholinga. Yesani kuyankha funso losavuta: Kodi chingachitike n'chiyani ngati malipiro anu akuwonjezeka? Kodi malingaliro anu ndi maloto anu amakhala zenizeni? Kodi mumayesetsa kuchita zotani? Zikuwoneka - chikhalidwe. Koma kugona ndi lingaliro la ndalama zapamwamba ndi chinthu chimodzi, koma ndi lingaliro lakuti lero mudachita zonse zomwe mungathe, chifukwa cha maloto anu - ndizosiyana. Ndipo zabwino mu yachiwiri ndi zambiri.
Ndikukuitanani kuti mubwere kumwamba kuchokera kudziko lapansi ndikuyang'ana pozungulira. Mudzawona ziyembekezo zowonongeka, maloto otsala, zilakolako zatsala pang'ono, ndipo, ndithudi, zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe anthu amakumana nazo pa njira yopita ku cholinga. Tsoka, moyo suli pansi pa ulamuliro wathunthu, ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwake komwe timafuna kuchita izi. Ngati mukufuna kumuseka Mulungu, muuzeni za zolinga zanu. Kotero kodi ndizofunikira kuti tipeze zolinga, ngati sizinthu zonse m'manja mwathu, ngati chirichonse chingathe kukhala chopanda pake? Inde! Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mukhale olimba mtima ndikuganizira zolakalaka zanu, ndikuwatsitsire kukhala zolinga zogwiritsira ntchito moyo wanu pa kukhazikitsidwa kwawo ndi kupindula. Luso la kukhala ndi moyo ndi luso lokhalabe bwino, pamene zolinga zaumunthu ndi kufunitsitsa kuvomereza chirichonse chomwe chimatipatsa moyo chikuphatikizidwa. Kupeza chiyeso ichi, osati chikhumbo chofuna kupanga chirichonse mu moyo wangwiro, ndicho chinsinsi cha kuunika komanso kugwirizana ndi dziko lapansi.