Moyo wachikondi popanda kuzindikira kuti izi si zophweka ndipo osati kuyamikira ntchito. Iyi ndi ndondomeko yovuta komanso yayitali ya kufufuza za moyo wanu ndi malingaliro anu. Ndipo njira ya moyo uliwonse idzakhala yapadera komanso yaumwini.
Aliyense wa ife amachokera ku zosadziwika ndipo amapita kumadzi osadziwika, ntchito yathu idzakhala yopanga ulendo waufupi wokongola komanso wodzaza ndi chikondi. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kuchita mantha ndi kukhala ndi chidaliro mu luso lanu, kutaya mantha, kuphuka mitundu yowala, osakhala pamtunda wodalirika komanso wopusa. Mukudabwa chifukwa chake zinthu zikuyenda bwino, ndalama sizikwanira chilichonse, chimfine chimachotsedwa ndi mutu, womwe suli waufupi, umapereka mankhwala kwa zilonda zam'mimba kapena kupweteka? Zikuoneka kuti zolephera zingapo sizidzatha. Iwe ndiwe mwamtheradi. Koma n'chifukwa chiyani ziyenera kutha pamene simukuchita kanthu? Ngakhale chinthu chophweka ndi kudzikonda nokha ndi moyo wanu momwemo.
Tiyeni tiganizire za kugwirizana kwa mfundo zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa kuti palibe chovuta komanso chovuta pakudzimvetsa nokha.
Za moyo ndi imfa
Taganizirani kawirikawiri za imfa. Kuti muyambe moyo wamba, ndithudi, komanso kuti musadzipangitse nokha kuvutika maganizo. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kukhala osakhala monga anakhalako kale, ndi netak, monga aliyense amachitira. Kukhala moyo weniweni, kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi wanu 100%.
Ndibwino kuti moyo sulipo popanda mnzake wokhulupirika wa imfa. Zikuwoneka kuti ife sitingathe kupirira, osagonjetsedwa, palibe imfa. Kodi ndikutanthawuza kotani ngati sikukanakhala imfa? Mogwirizanitsana wina ndi mzache, iwo ndi osiyana, oyenerana wina ndi mzake. Talingalirani mwachidwi kuti onikak ali m'mphepete mwawiri kapena mabanki aphompho, pokhala mwapadera kwambiri omwe angatanthauze kupeza chisangalalo chamuyaya.
Kodi chiri chanji kuphompho, nanga bwanji kuti musadzipangire nokha? Anthu ambiri ali mkati, ngakhale kuti amawoneka ngati abwino. Maso owopsya, maso opanda kanthu ndi nkhope zosadziwika ndi umboni wowongoka. Mwa iwo, moyo unatsekedwa, mphepo yomwe ikhoza kubwezeretsanso miyoyo imeneyi siingakhoze kudutsa mu chipolopolo cha chitsulo. Pamene mphepo ya chikondi silingakhoze kufika kwa inu, ndiye chirichonse chiri chamoyo ndi chokongola chimayamba kufa.
Monga momwe pali mgwirizano wamphamvu pakati pa moyo ndi imfa, ndipo osagawanika, nthawi zonse chikondi ndi moyo. Kuti tikhale ndi moyo osadziwa kuti chikondi chiri - kale-kufa kale, uwu ndi boma pamene wina sakufuna kudzuka m'mamawa ndipo safuna kugona madzulo, kukakumana ndi sunrises ndi kuwona dzuwa.
Pa mphindi yotereyi pali chisokonezo chonse ndipo nthawi yeniyeni imfa imabwera, kumene imfa yowopsa imakhala yoopsa kwambiri.
Ululu umapanga moyo ndi chikondi kwa iye.
Moyo ndi wosangalatsa. Pamene tabadwa, zimatipweteka tikamwalira, timakhalanso opweteka kwambiri, timakana kukonda, chifukwa tikuopa kumva ululu. Mwazochita zotero ife timangoopa kukhala ndi moyo. Pang'onopang'ono akudziphimba ndi koko kuchokera ku mavuto akuvutika, kukopa pa matenda, kulephera, chisoni, ndi chisoni.
Sitiyenera kukhala sootvosprinimat ponseponse, tifunika kuphunzira kukhala moyo panopa ndi kutenga zomwe zikuchitika ndi mtima watsekedwa komanso opanda mantha. Mmodzi ayenera kuphunzira kuti asamachite mantha. Moyo wonse ndikumverera, moyo wonse ndi chisokonezo, chisoni, chisoni, misonzi, zokhumudwitsa komanso zosangalatsa. Iwe umaseka, kotero iwe umakhala moyo, iwe ukulira - iwe uli moyo, iwe ukhoza kumverera, ndipo izi ndi zamtengo wapatali kuposa china chirichonse. Landirani chirichonse chomwe chimachitika ndi mutu wokwezeka kwambiri, mutenge moyo ndi manja ndi kuona kuti chizoloŵezi chosandutsa moyo kukhala vuto losatha chidzakusiyani inu kwamuyaya. Ndipo padzakhala masiku ambirimbiri odzazidwa ndi chimwemwe pamapeto.
Sitife aliyense mpaka titaphunzira kukonda moyo
Chabwino, tayeretsedwa pang'ono ndi mafunso opweteka, ndipo tidzapanga mfundo zomveka pamodzi ndikupindula ndi kudzikonda tokha ndi moyo wathu. Kwa okayikira kwambiri ndi anthu osakhwima, tiyeni tiyesere kusonyeza zitsanzo za ubwino wa chikondi chotero osati kwa ifeeni, koma kwa anthu onse.
Tiyeni tikumbukire kuchuluka kwa malingaliro omwe mayiyo anali nawo payekha, angati a iwo ali pakati pathu tsopano, ndi angati omwe ati adzabadwire. Moyo wawo ndi ntchito. Ntchitoyi ndikutithandiza nthawi zovuta ndi miyoyo yathu. Asayansi, amisiri, akatswiri a sayansi ya zamoyo, oimba, madokotala, injini, aphunzitsi, oyesa ndi oyambitsa. Onse a iwo ankakonda moyo ndendende, ndipo amamvetsetsa bwino momwe ena sanakondwere nazo, chifukwa zabwino zonse zinabweretsedwa mmenemo kuti ziwathandize anthu okayikira kwambiri. Madokotala akhala akupitirizabe kufunafuna mankhwala a kupsinjika ndi mavuto amanjenje, omwe timalandira chifukwa chosakonda moyo. Okonza amapanga chinthu chatsopano ndikukonza zomwe zilipo kuti tithe kusangalala ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono izi, chifukwa sitimvetsetsa zomwe tinapatsidwa kuchokera nthawi yomwe tidawona dziko lapansi.
Chikondi mu mtima
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti lonjezo lalikulu logwirizana ndi dziko lapansi ndilo kulongosola kwabwino mumtima mwanu. Fanizo lakale, muchitsanzo ichi, lidzakuthandizani kumvetsa mawu.
Atadutsa pafupi ndi kanyumba kakang'ono m'chipululu, mnyamatayo anaganiza kuyang'ana pamenepo ndikumwa madzi. Mwamuna wachikulire anali atakhala pamphepete mwa madzi, ndipo, atamwa mowa, mnyamatayo anayamba kufunsa za anthu omwe amakhala pano. Atafunsidwa ndi mnyamatayu, mkuluyo anayankha funsoli: "Kodi anthu akukhala kuti mumakhalako kale?". Popanda kuganiza, mnyamatayo adauza zonse za tehlyudyah, zomwe adachoka posachedwa. Anatanthauzira anthu awo owopsya ndi owopsya, akuwuza momwe akunama ndi nsanje. Ndiye bambo wachikulire anamuuza kuti angapeze anthu oterowo mumzindawu. Tsiku lomwelo, mnyamata wina yemwe akudutsa pa oasis anamulonjera ndipo adatembenukira kwa munthu wokalambayo ndi funso lomwelo, limene, monga kale, bambo wachikulire anayankha kuti: "Ndipo anthu okhala ndi mtundu wanji mumakhala?" Mnyamatayo yemwe anali ndi chisoni ndikumva chisoni m'maso mwake adalankhula za kukoma mtima kwa anthu omwe anakhalako kale, momwe adaliri alendo ndi anthu onse komanso osangalatsa. Akumwetulira, bambo wachikulire adatsimikiza kuti adzapeza anthu omwewo pano.
Mnyamata wina yemwe adamwa madzi tsiku lonse, atamva zokambirana ziwiri, adafunsa modabwa kuti angapereke mayankho osiyana bwanji ndi funso lomwelo. Tikaganiza, zakale - mtima wathu ndi cholengedwa chodabwitsa, timangowona zomwe timanyamula. Munthu sangapeze chilichonse chabwino paliponse, ngati sangapeze malo oterowo omwe adangoyendera kumene.
Nthawi zambiri timamva kumapeto kwa dziko. Anthu omwe amagawira izi, amaona mdima wokha womwe iwo eni amadzimira. Koma ngati mumakhulupirira munthu wina wolemekezeka, Einstein wodziwika bwino - palibe mdima ayi, mdima ulibe kuwala. Kwa ife, kuwala kumeneku ndiko chikondi. Zoseketsa, zopanda malire, zokoma ndi zazikulu.
Chikondi chokha mdziko lapansi ndichokha chosafa. Ndipo pamene ili pakati pathu, bola ngati liripo, pali moyo.