Msonkhano woyamba ndi chikondi sungaiwalike. Monga kuyembekezera tsiku loyamba, chisanu pa khungu, mtima pa zidendene. Zoona, nthawi ndi kuyamba kwa chisangalalo chonse, mphepo yamkuntho ikudutsa. Ndipo mukufuna kuti mukhalebe ndi chikondi chanu kwamuyaya. Ndipo taganizirani, pali njira zochitira izo!
Chikondi cholingalira
Pamene tiyandikira kudziwana wina ndi mzake, chikondi chimapita mofulumira. Choncho, pofuna kusunga malingaliro, munthu ayenera kukumana mochepa monga momwe zingathere: kamodzi pachaka, zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi. Ndipo chinthu chabwino kwambiri sichikukomana nkomwe, koma kuti ukhale woyenera wa Kalonga Wokongola mu solo. Nthawi zina mukhoza kudyetsa fano lamtengo wapatali ndi zithunzi za mafilimu ndi mabuku. Inu mukhoza kudyetsa kumverera kulikonse kwa Prince wanu ndi kulingalira chirichonse chomwe inu mukufuna - fano lokongola silidzatilepheretsa ife mu izi. Mosiyana ndi zenizeni, zophimbidwa ndi khungu ndi tsitsi la munthu.
Komabe: Mmawu awa, amayi achichepere a zaka zapakati ndi apamwamba akukhala. Amakonda mwachikondi ndi ojambula kapena amaimboni. Kufikira munthu weniweni (kwa kanthawi ndithu) sakhala wotsutsa wa Kalonga woyenera wa maloto. Koma ngakhale izi zenizeni zikafika pakutha, zimatha kugonjetsedwa ndi malingaliro, nthawi zonse kuzifanizira ndi Wosankhidwa Womwe. Palibe munthu padziko lapansi amene angakhoze kulimbana ndi mpikisano wotere: posachedwa iye adzasonkhanitsa zinthu zake ndi kubisala kumbuyo kwa mzere wokhalapo.
Chikondi ndi magalimoto amodzi
Okondedwa ndi okondedwa akupitiriza kukunyalanyazani inu-osalemba - kodi ichi si chifukwa cha chimwemwe? Izi zimatetezeranso chikondi chonse! Zosavomerezeka, imodzi, osati chikondi chimodzi chingathe kusungidwa kwa zaka zambiri monga utumiki wa tchuthi. Zili ngati kukonda Prince wongoganizira. Kufufuza kwenikweni sikungasokoneze chiyanjano chanu: ndi mawu otani amene akunena, kugunda chala ndi nyundo; kodi amamwa usiku; Ndi kangati zaka khumi amapereka maluwa? - zinsinsi izi zidzafa limodzi ndi iye.
Komabe: Ubale woterewu ndi wofanana ndi matenda a nthawi yaitali, akukakamiza kusiya zambiri zosangalatsa. Chikondi chenicheni chimodzi nthawi zina amawononga mwini wake kwambiri.
Kuthamanga ndi zopinga
Ngati njira zazing'onozi sizikugwirizana ndi inu, nthawi zonse mukhoza kusunga chikondi chanu popeza zovuta zomwe zingatheke. Monga mu Romeo ndi Juliet! Mwa njira, izo sizidziwika kwathunthu zomwe zikanati zichitike ngati okonda okondana awa anali ogwirizana pansi pa denga limodzi kuti azikhala limodzi mosangalala nthawi zonse. "Wokondedwa Romeo, ndatopa bwanji ndikusonkhanitsa masokosi ako m'makona!" "Juliet, koma iwe sukuchita kalikonse, ndipo ndatopa ngati galu.
"Nanga bwanji chakudya cham'mawa - osakonzeka?"
Komabe: Chikondi chimakhala choopsa nthawi zonse: bwanji ngati mutagonjetsa zopinga zonse? Mwadzidzidzi chipiriro chanu chidzapindula ndi kupambana kwathunthu? Nanga ndi chiyani chomwe chidzakhale chisangalalo chopatulika cha chikondi?
Chikondi M'kupita Kwanthawizonse
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amadziwa kuti pafupifupi theka la moyo wa chikondi pakati pa anthu awiri omwe amakhala pansi pa denga limodzi ndi masiku 90.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mu miyezi itatu malingaliro awo adzakhala ochepa kwambiri monga analiri pachiyambi. Ndipo mu chaka iwo adzatembenukira ku fumbi. Izi, zikuoneka kuti, zikuganiza kuti Don Juan ndi "woyenda". Ndipo m'zaka zaposachedwapa, khalidweli laleka kukhala mwayi wamwamuna. Ena amakhala monga chonchi, kusinthana pakati pa awiri akuti: "chikondi chafika" ndipo "chikondi chadutsa."
Komabe: ochepa amatha kukhala osasinthasintha m'miyoyo yawo yonse. Chifukwa kukhala osakhazikika kwa anthu akuluakulu ndikutopetsa kwambiri.
Thirani katatu
Inu, monga sitima yochokera m'buku la masamu, mumayenda nthawi zonse kuchokera pa tsamba A kufika pa B. Phunziro A muli ndi mwamuna, pamene mawu oti "chikondi" amamveka ngati osayenera. Pakati pa - wokonda ndi malingaliro onse a chikondi. Mwamuna amapatsa moyo kukhazikika ndi chitonthozo, ndipo wokonda - chisangalalo ndi chilakolako. Mwamuna amamuwona mkazi wake "m'nyumba yonse yokongola", ndipo pamaso pa wokondedwayo, potsutsana ndi zovuta, zoopsa ndi zovuta, iye akuwoneka kuti ali wokondana kwambiri.
Komabe: Tiyeni tinene kuti tsiku lina mwamuna wanu adzatopa nazo, ndipo adzati: "Pitani kwa wokondedwa wanu." Ndipo tsopano, zikuwoneka, mphindi yokondweretsa yogwirizana: okonda kale omwe anali achinsinsi amapanga awiri okhazikika. Koma chikondi chokhacho chimangomva msanga kuchokera kumbuyo kwa zochitikazi. Izi, mwa njira, zimatsimikizira kuwerengera: Pambuyo popuma ndi mwamuna wake chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika, mkazi amakhalabe ndi wokondedwa wake pa nthawi imodzi pa khumi, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi wina wachitatu.
Chikondi chapita? - Pitirirani
Kusunga chikondi, timatsegula akauntiyo kuti tipewe. Iwo ali a mitundu iwiri: mwina tiyenera kuchepetsa kwambiri kulankhulana ndi kuchita chiyanjano; kapena kubisa mutu wako mchenga ndikupita kumalingaliro. Kapena mwinamwake ndi bwino kusiya chakudya chamzitini ndikusintha kuzinthu zatsopano? Mwinamwake ndi bwino kukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikuwona: nchiyani chomwe chidzachitike kenako, kupitirira nthawi ya chikondi cha masiku 90? Kodi pali malo a chikondi? Mabanja ena apanga kale zinthu zomwezo. Chikondi ndi chovuta, ndipo chigawo chachikondi ndi chigawo chochepa chabe. Koma ndi iye amene amalemekezedwa ndi nyimbo, mafilimu ndi mabuku. Kotero zikuwoneka kuti ambiri alibe chikondi china. Ndipo ngati mukukhulupirira, ndiye chikondi "chidzadutsa" miyezi itatu iliyonse!
Pali njira ina yomwe chikondi chakutentha chimakhala ngati chisanachitike. Apo ayi, sitidayesa kuchita zoopsa izi: kuyamba kukhala pamodzi. Koma chomwe chidzachitike kenako chidzawonetsedwa kokha mwa kuchita!