Onan sanafune kuti iye akhale ndi pakati, popeza mwana yemwe anabadwa ndiye wolowa nyumba ya mbaleyo, choncho adatsanulira mbeu pansi. Pogwiritsa ntchito chikhalidwe ichi, panabuka lingaliro la "maliseche", lomwe limatchedwa kuti maliseche.
Chofunika cha izi, momwe angapeweretse kugonana, ndi kuti kuti mbeu isalowe mkati, kapena kuti umuna mukazi wa mzimayi, zomwe zingayambitse mimba yosafuna, mwamuna amasiya kugonana musanatuluke umuna, kuchotsa chiwalo cha abambo.
Njira yothetsera kugonana imafuna chidwi chapadera kwa munthuyo kumverera kwake. Mwamuna yemwe ali ndi njirayi ayenera kutenga zizindikiro zoyamba za kuyamba kwa mphukira ndi kuyamba kwa kuphulika kwa mbewu.
Ndi njira iyi yothetsera mimba zosafuna, mitsempha ya mitsempha imafooka kwambiri mwa amuna. Mu ubongo wake, pali chomwe chimatchedwa "skibe". Nthawi imodzi, pakugonana, pamakhala chisangalalo ndipo ubongo umapangitsa kukwera kwa chisangalalo ndikuyesa kuonjezera nthawi yaitali, ndipo kumbali ina, munthu wokhala ndi chisangalalo chonchi ayenera nthawi kuti adziwe momwe angayendetsere ndi kuchotsa mbolo kuchokera kumaliseche a mkazi pakapita nthawi. umuna sunalowe mukazi.
Kawirikawiri, kusokoneza kugonana kumakhudza mavuto ambiri pazimayi, komabe, ndi mkhalidwe wa munthu. Koma chikoka ichi ndi chayekha ndipo chimadalira pa zosowa za kugonana kwa amayi. Pankhaniyi, zotsatirazi zikutheka:
1) Mzimayi ndi wozizira, samasowa kokha kukhutira ndi kugonana, komanso kugonana komweko. Iye alibe kuwonjezeka kwa kukwatira kwa kugonana, ndipo alibe mpweya wamagazi kumaliseche ndi kutupa kwawo. Mkazi wotereyo sasamala konse pamene kugonana kumasokonezedwa. Pankhaniyi, kugonana sikokusokoneza chikhalidwe cha mkazi.
2) Mzimayi ndi wovuta kwambiri komanso amatha kuwonongeka asanawononge kugonana. Pachifukwa ichi, kugonana kosokoneza sikukhudzanso chikhalidwe cha mkazi.
3) Mlandu wochuluka kwambiri, pamene chilakolako chogonana cha mkazi ndi mwamuna chimakula pafupifupi, koma chiwonongeko cha mkazi chimachitika patapita nthawi kuposa munthu. Kugonjetsedwa koyambirira kwa kugonana mu nkhaniyi ndi kuchotsa mbolo kuchokera mukazi kumabweretsa mfundo yakuti mkazi sakhutira ndi kugonana. Mimba yake imakhalabe yotupa, magazi samatuluka pomwepo, mkazi nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi zowawa, nthawi zina amamva ululu pamimba ndi mimba, mpaka kudzazidwa ndi magazi a ziwalo zake sizidzatha. Chimachitika nthawi zina nthawi yaitali.
Kusokoneza kugonana, monga mwachizoloŵezi, kumayamba ndi kulumikiza kwa mbolo m'mimba, ndiyeno kuchokera kosalala, poyamba kumangokhalira kusokonezeka (kuyenda kwa mbolo). Pankhaniyi, mayiyo amayembekeza kulowa mkati. Njira iyi ya kuyenda kwa mbolo mukazi wa mkazi amamuukitsa kwambiri, imamupangitsa kuchita zogonana. Chiwerengero cha kayendetsedwe ka mbolo kangasinthe mofulumira, ndi kulowa mkati mwakuya komanso kubwerera kumbuyo. Pakati pa kugonana, mlingo wa kusinthana kwa mbolo umakhala wofulumira, kukula kwa mbolo kumakula, kusuntha kwake kumakhala kozama, ndi kusinthasintha mu umaliseche. Gawo lomaliza la kugonana, kusokonezeka kumachitidwa mofulumira, komabe n'kotheka kuchepetsa kukhumudwa, komwe kumawonjezera ntchito ya mkazi, kumawonjezera kusaleza mtima ndi chisangalalo, ngati izi sizikusokoneza chiwonongeko chomwe chayamba mwa mkazi. Amakhala ndi vuto ngati mbolo imakhalabe m'mimba mwake. Njira iyi yogonana ndi yotheka ngati munthu samva ululu wosamuka msanga ndipo amatha kuyambitsa chiwonongeko.
Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi sanakhudzidwe ndi kugonana pamene adasokoneza kugonana, akhoza kutero m'njira ina yomwe amavomereza. Mwachitsanzo, mothandizidwa ndi pakamwa kapena pamtima. Amayi nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo am'mimba - kumapeto kwa kugonana pofuna kupewa mimba yosafuna, pamene munthu amatsanulira umuna wake pakamwa pake.
Mwamuna amatha kupereka chisangalalo cha kugonana kwa mkazi atatha kugonana ndi pakamwa ndi zovuta zina za ziwalo zake ngati sakudziwapo zifukwa zina. Malo okondweretsa kwambiri oterewa mwa mkazi ndi clitoris. Amuna odziwa bwino amapatsa mkazi mwayi wokhala ndi chilakolako chokhumudwitsa clitoris ndi dzanja lake kapena pakamwa pake (kumpsompsona, kumangirira ndi kuyamwa clitoris).
Umboni wolemba mabuku umasonyeza kuti kusokoneza kugonana, monga njira yothetsera mimba zosafuna, sizothandiza chifukwa chiopsezo chokhala ndi mimba chosafuna ndi chachikulu. Izi ndi chifukwa cha zinthu zambiri. Makamaka, ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kuti athetse kutsegula. Choncho, si koyenera kuti muyambe kumwa msanga.
Zoipa za kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa kugonana pakati pa awiri ndi awiri zimatchulidwanso. Zina mwa izi: Kugonjetsa m'mimba ndi ziwalo zazing'ono zazing'ono ngati sangathe kukhutira kugonana, zomwe zingayambitse matenda opweteka a ziwalo zoberekera zamkati mwa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Kufotokozera mwachidule zotsatira za momwe amatetezedwera ndi kugonana kosokoneza, tinganene kuti njira iyi si njira yodalirika yothetsera mimba zosafuna. Kugwiritsira ntchito kowonongeka kungayambitse matenda a mchitidwe wogonana, onse azimayi ndi amuna.