Kubereka ndi ntchito yovuta. Palibe amene amatsutsa, koma sizophweka. Makamaka kwambiri zaka zitatu zoyambirira, pamene amayi, zikuwoneka, palibe nthawi yachiwiri ya nthawi yaulere. Ambiri pa nthawiyi "amathamanga" okha, amaiwala kugwira ntchito zapakhomo komanso kukhala ndi chidwi ndi mwamuna wawo. M'mabanja ambiri kubadwa kwa mwana kumaphatikizapo mavuto aakulu, chifukwa moyo umasintha mwadzidzidzi. Koma mkazi amaiwala kuti iye si Mayi yekha, komanso Mkazi ndi Mkazi chabe - simungathe konse.
Choncho chomaliza chodziwikiratu - kuphunzira kupeza nthawi ya chirichonse pang'onopang'ono tsiku ndi tsiku! Kodi izi zingatheke bwanji kwa amayi, pamene kuli kofunikira ndi kusamba, ndikudya kuti aziphika, ndi kuyenda ndi mwana, kusuta, ndi kukonza Masika yemwe amamukonda, nthawi zina kugona? Nthawi iyenera kugawidwa pasadakhale, zonse ziyenera kuganiziridwa bwino (bwino ngakhale mwana asanabadwe) zonse mu magawo. Ichi ndi chomwe chimatchedwa "nthawi yosamalira" kwa mayi yemwe ali ndi mwana wamng'ono m'manja mwake.
Popanda thandizo n'zosatheka
Chinthu chachikulu choti muchite ndikulankhula ndi mwamuna wanu. Musaganize kuti iye mwini adzalingalira kuti kuli kovuta bwanji kugona usiku, kuthamanga kuchoka ku bedi kupita ku chitofu ndi bafa masana ndikukhalabe ndi mwayi wokhala ndi iye wokondedwa. Amuna (ngakhale achikondi kwambiri) ayang'anani wina ndi mnzake mosiyana. Ponena za kusowa tulo kwa usiku, adzanena kuti nthawi zonse n'zotheka kugona masana, komanso kuti simunasiye masewera a ana kwa chaka chimodzi, adzalankhula - ndibwino kwambiri. Monga, iwe umakhala, umapumula, sumagwiritsa ntchito bajeti ya banja lanu, simukulankhulana ndi akunja (simunganene, mudzalingalira kwambiri).
Ndizapanda phokoso kuti ndifuule kwa mwamuna wanga kuti sangathandize kunyumba. Kumbukirani kuti kwa achinyamata ambiri a Papocene ndi ochepa - nkhawa zofanana ndi zanu, ngati sizinanso. Mkaziyo panthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba amamva mwana wake, zimakhala zosavuta kuti amangenso. Anastomosis m'nthawi ino mwadzidzidzi imagwa maudindo atatu, omwe sanagwirizane nawo. Odziwa bwino, akatswiri a zamaganizo amati banja silinayambe ndi chilolezo choperekedwa ku ofesi yolembera, koma ndi maonekedwe a mwanayo.
Choncho, muzhe. Ndiuzeni kuti mukumvetsa kuti zimakhala zovuta kuti azizoloŵera, kuti simulinso awiri koma mungakonde kukhala wokongola ndi wokoma kwa iye monga kale komanso popanda inu simungathe kukwaniritsa izi. Ngati athandizira pang'ono, mungapereke nthawi yochulukirapo, yomwe pamapeto pake mungapambane. Kulankhulana zambiri zokhudza mwanayo, ndibwino kuti iye akhale ndi chitetezo m'manja mwa papa. Onetsani kufunika koyambitsa kulumikizana ndi mwana kuyambira ali aang'ono. Awatumizeni kuyenda maola angapo ndikudziyang'anira nokha. Pangani chinthu chabwino kwa mwamuna wanu (kuphika casserole yomwe amamukonda), kotero kuti awone zipatso za ntchito yake monga momwe akuthandizirani.
Musanyalanyaze thandizo la agogo aakazi. Kawirikawiri, amayi achichepere safuna kukhulupirira mwana wawo. Musati muzichita zopusa chotero. Pambuyo pake, pamapeto, mkazi uyu wakula mwamuna wako wathanzi komanso wanzeru. Palibe chomwe chimachitika kwa masikiti anu kwa maola angapo. Ngati inu ndi agogo anu muli ndi kusagwirizana kwenikweni pa chisamaliro cha ana, yesetsani kukambirana nkhaniyi mofatsa. Mwinamwake, chidziwitso chanu chimachokera kuzinthu zamakono, werengani m'magazini. Komabe, mapewa a apongozi ake amakhala ndi moyo weniweni. Ndipo makolo athu, atatha zaka masauzande ambiri akupeza izi, sadali opusa. Taganizirani momwe Asilavs akale omwe anali osauka adathera mosavuta kwambiri popanda "sayansi yamakono", akukhalabe mumkhalidwe wovuta! Koma ife ndi zochitika zatsopano ndi zochitika zowonjezereka zikufa. Musanyalanyaze sayansi, ndithudi, koma sikuli koyenera kuiwala za zovuta pamoyo.
Choncho, kuthandizidwa ndi amayi anu kapena apongozi anu (mwina onse - wina ndi mzake), mumakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yaufulu. Koma akuyenera kutaya molondola. Popanda ndondomeko yoyenera, inu, ngakhale mutakhala ndi theka la tsiku, simungathe kuchita chilichonse. Kukonzekera pa nkhaniyi n'kofunika.
Kumanga ndondomeko ya kunyumba
Kuphika
Kuphika kumatenga nthawi yaitali, choncho ndi bwino kuchita izi pamene mwana wagona. Ngati palibe mphamvu iliyonse (izi zimachitika nthawi zonse mums young), nthawi zonse zimakhala zofunikira kuti muzikhala ndi zinthu zosiyana-siyana mumfiriji. Angathe kukonzekera mwamsanga komanso popanda vuto lililonse. Koma, musaiwale kudya zomwe mumaphika, nanunso. Mukufunikira mphamvu, yomwe iyenso imasowa mwana.
Kusamba singano
Iwo akuyesera kuyesera kuphatikiza ndi zinthu zina. Lero, mwachitsanzo, mutha kusamba ndi kugaya nthawi imene nyama imaswedwa pamsuzi. Mawa zovala zitha kubwerera madzulo, pamene mwamuna abwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito kapena wina kuchokera kwa achibale adzatha kukhala ndi mwanayo.
Ntchito yosamba
Zitha kuchitidwa ndi mwanayo. Ikani (kapena kuyika) mbali imodzi kumalo otetezera, kusamba pansi kapena kupukuta fumbi, kuimba nyimbo za ana. Musamagwiritse ntchito tsiku lililonse kuyeretsa kwa ora - mphindi zokwana khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu kuti mukhale oyera pang'ono m'nyumba. Kuyeretsa kwakukulu kumachitika kumapeto kwa sabata - ndiye mwamuna kapena achibale ena ali pakhomo.
Nthawi ya nab
Inde, sitiyenera kudziiwala tokha. Imani mphindi khumi pasanafike mwanayo, kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yokonzekera. Pamene mwanayo watengedwera ndi chinachake, mukhoza kudzipangitsa kukhala ndi thanzi labwino, madzulo abambo anu ali panyumba - mutenge bata. Yesetsani kudzikongoletsa ndi zinthu zosangalatsa.
Nthawi ya Akazi Okwatirana
Osakumbukira nthawi iliyonse za mwamuna wake. Lankhulani naye mokoma mtima, nthawi zambiri mum'kumbatireni, muuzeni momwe mumamukondera. Musamangoyamba mutu kumayambiriro, mwinamwake mwamunayo adzasankha kuti palibe nthawi yake pa nthawi yanu. Ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa choti mupite ndi kupeza imodzi mu ndandanda yomwe nthawi ino idzapezeka. Inu simukufuna izi, sichoncho inu? Ndiye, kuyesetsa pang'ono kuti mukhalebe ndi ubale wofunda uyenera kugwiritsira ntchito. Koma adzakhala wonyada kunena kwa aliyense: "Mkazi wanga amatha kuchita zonse - ndipo nthawi zonse ndizokongola! Ndipo amachiyang'anira bwanji? "