Zinali zochitika, ndithudi, kuti ena mwa anzanu asakhutidwe ndi ntchito, chinachake sichinakwaniritse iwo, chinachake chimene inu mumafuna kusintha mu malamulo omwe nthawi zambiri mumakampani, ndipo inu mumamvetsera zonsezi. Ena a iwo sanaganize za momwe angapezere mphamvu kuti asinthe ntchito yawo yosakondedwa, ndipo molimba mtima anapita kwa iwo kapena mafunso ena. Koma sikuti aliyense adatha kusintha malo ogwira ntchito.
Nchifukwa chiyani ntchitoyo sinakondedwe?
Inde, mudzakhala ndi zifukwa zosinthira ntchito yanu, koma mkati mwa mtima wanu mukuyamba kudziletsa nokha, mukuganiza kuti ndibwino kuyembekezera kapena kuyembekezera, kuti mulibe ntchito yosakondedwa, mwakhala mukupita kuntchito kwa nthawi yaitali tsiku lililonse. Kuti kale, mwinamwake, osati zaka zingapo, kuti pafupifupi mabungwe onse amafuna ana a zaka 25 zokha ndi zodziwa, ndipo palibe mphamvu iliyonse pofufuza chinachake chatsopano.
Komabe, mwinamwake ndibwino kuti mudziyese nokha kuti muyang'ane zinthu zonse mozungulira chinthucho mwanzeru. Mwinamwake ndi bwino kuyang'anitsitsa kuti palibe chiyembekezo china choti inu muyesetse kulimbikitsa ndi kukweza makwerero a ntchito, kuti ofesi yanu ilibe pafupi ndi zofunikira pa chitukuko chanu, kuti mtundu wa ntchito yomwe mwakhala mukugwira patapita nthawi , pang'ono pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo chimachitika chiani pambuyo pake, chimafunabe kuti ndikuchitireni chiyani chitachitika izi? Mwina, panthawi imeneyi ya moyo wanu mutha kusintha ntchito, monga momwe mudzakulira pazaka zambiri, ndipo izi ndi nthawi yochepa chabe kuti mupeze ntchito zina zomwe sizikukondedwa.
Kodi ndingatani kuti ndikhale ndi malo osangalatsa koma osangalatsa?
Pali malingaliro a momwe mungapezere malo omwe mukuyembekezera kwambiri kuntchito ndi momwe mungasinthire osakondedwa ku ntchito yanu yomwe mumaikonda.
Choyamba, munasankha pa dera liti, mumalingaliro anu, lidzakupatsani mwayi wakudziwonetsera nokha ndikukwaniritsa bwino. Mwinanso mukhoza kusankha pa ntchitoyi, sankhani makampani omwe mukufuna. Koma pa zonsezi, simukusowa kusiya zomwe mwakonzekera chifukwa mwadzidzidzi munachita mantha, kusiya mphamvu zambiri kuti mukwaniritse bwino. Ndipo mulimonsemo, musalankhule za ntchito yomwe mungathe, makamaka panthawi yomwe mukufunsidwa, kuti mumangofuna kusintha gawo losavomerezeka la ntchito. Izi zingaoneke ngati kulemekeza abambo akale, zomwe zidzakayikira abwana awa.
Chachiwiri, yesetsani kumvetsa chomwe ntchito yomwe ndasankha inandikhudza kwambiri. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri: malipiro okongola; ndipo ankakonda abwana, mwaulemu ndi nthawi zomwe zimakhudza inu pokhapokha pakuyankhulana; ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, ndemanga zabwino kuchokera kwa anthu akale omwe ali ndi udindo wofuna, ndi anthu ena onse ogwira ntchito pano; ndi machitidwe abwino ndi odalirika a ntchito; ndi maola oyenera ogwira ntchito; ndi malo abwino a malonda, ndi zina zambiri.
Chachitatu, ganizirani mozama ndikuyesa mphamvu zanu, muli ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti muthane ndi ntchitoyi, mosamala mosamala zonse zomwe mukufuna. Ngati muli ndi mafunso okhudza maudindo, chonde pitirizani kuwongolera nthawi yomweyo pa zokambirana. Funsani mafunso onse ofunikira ndi ofunikira ponena za maudindo ofunikira awa.
Chachinayi, yesani kuyankha moona mtima funso loti mungathe kusiya china chake kuti mukwaniritse ntchito yatsopanoyi, ngati pali chifukwa. Pambuyo pake, zimachitika kuti mutha kupereka mapeto a sabata yomwe mumakonda, ngati kampaniyi ili ndi masiku ake okha, izi zikhoza kuchitika ndi tchati chotsalira. Kapena ayi apa pali malamulo awo ndi malamulo omwe simukuzoloŵera. Koma, ngati malowa ndi ofunikira kwambiri, mukhoza kudutsa pa vagaries anu ndi kudziyanjanitsa nokha.
Chachisanu, ngati simunapatsidwe mwayi koma simunayitanidwe ku zokambirana, kambiranani achibale anu ndi abwenzi kuti apeze. Auzeni ntchito kapena maudindo omwe mukufuna kuti mukhale nawo pang'ono kapena ochepa ndikufotokozerani zifukwa za chikhumbo chanu chochokapo. Pambuyo pake, awa ndiwo anthu anu apamtima omwe adzakumvetsetsani, ndipo, mwinamwake, iwo adzatha kukuthandizani, mwadzidzidzi pa mabungwe awo padzakhala malo enieni omwe mukufunikira.
Chachisanu ndi chimodzi, musakhale pansi, kulembetsani kachiwiri, kutumiza ku maulendo osiyanasiyana a makampani omwe ali ngati malo. Chidule, ndithudi, chiyenera kukhazikitsidwa molingana ndi malamulo onse, musawope kutumiza ku kampani imodzi, ngakhale zitatumizidwa nthawi yoyamba.
Chachisanu ndi chiwiri, yesetsani kufufuza zambiri zokhudzana ndi malo omwe mungakhale nawo, kuzipeza pa intaneti, muzitukuko zosiyanasiyana za akatswiri. Ndipotu, zingathe kusewera bwino mmanja mwanu kuyankhulana, motero kumatsimikizira kuti ndinu munthu wanzeru, wophunzira komanso wokondweretsedwa.
Chachisanu ndi chitatu, pakuyankhulana muyenera kupanga maganizo a munthu wodzidalira, ziribe kanthu, mwinamwake kuvomereza panthaŵi imodzimodzi ndi mitundu yonse ya zosankha za "kumiza mu ntchito." Chidaliro chiyenera kuchokera kwa inu, ngakhale mtima wanu suli wabwino kwambiri.
Chachisanu ndi chinayi, musapite kumene mudayitanira, osayang'ana ndi kulingalira zomwe mukufuna. Mwinamwake dzina lanu liripo pa kulakwitsa kolakwika kutumizidwa. Onani zonse molondola komanso mosamala.
Kapena mwinamwake mumangoyamba kulankhula ndi anthu abwino, kuyang'ana ndi kumvetsera, mutha kutenga malingaliro awo pa moyo, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthetsa mantha anu onse. Yesetsani kuphunzira momwe mungatetezere malingaliro anu, ngakhale kuti pokhala pakati pa achibale anu, mutenge njira yoyamba mu bizinesi iliyonse kuntchito, musamachite mantha kumenyana ndi anzako ngati muli ndi chodabwitsa choterocho.
Musakhale wamanyazi ndi mantha, chifukwa inu, mwinamwake, katswiri wodziwa bwino ntchito yawo, ndipo msika wa wapadera wotere udzafunika nthawi zonse. Pambuyo pake, ambiri omwe angagwiritse ntchito ntchito angakhale bwino poti ayambe kale kupanga, kusiyana ndi kudzipereka kwa munthu wophunzirayo popanda kudziŵa nthawi yake ya mtengo wapatali, komanso kuwonjezera pa njira yokonzekera.
Kotero, chofunika kwambiri, musachite mantha kusintha moyo wanu, makamaka kusintha ntchito yanu yosakondedwa!