Choyamba, ndi chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira zolinga ndi zomwe iwo ali. Cholingacho chingakhale chinthu chosamveka kapena chowoneka, koma pakali pano sitingamvetsetse. Zimadziwika ndikuti mukuzifuna ndipo mukuzifuna, kotero zimakuchititsani kuchita zinazake. Kuchokera pa izi zikutsatila kuti cholinga ndicho chinthu chodziwika kapena chosowa cha chinthucho, zotsatira zake zomwe ndondomekoyo ikuwongolera. Ngati cholinga chanu chifika pamwamba pa phiri, ndiye kuti mudzakhalapo kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo n'zovuta kukwera mpaka mutayandikira. Chotsatira chake ndi chakuti mutakhala pamwamba, mudzalandira malingaliro chifukwa cha ichi - ichi chinali cholinga, chifukwa cha ntchito zina. Tili ndi chiyani kuchokera ku tanthauzoli? Yophweka ndipo, panthawi imodzimodzi, lamulo lofunika kwambiri: kukwaniritsira cholinga chomwe simukuyenera kuchita.
Ngati mukuyembekeza kuti ngati mumakhulupirira kwambiri cholinga, ndiye kuti adzabwera kwa inu nokha, ndiye kuti mukulakwitsa. Mfumukaziyi sidzakumana ndi kalonga pokhapokha atachoka pa nsanja yake, kapena kutumiza makalata kwa onse akunena za pempho lomasulidwa, kotero kuti anthu adziwe kuti alipo. Palibe chilengedwe, ziribe kanthu momwe chilili champhamvu, sichidzakankhira phirilo kwa iwe ndi mphamvu ya lingaliro lako ndi chikhulupiriro chako. Chikhulupiriro chimatithandiza kukwaniritsa cholinga, kuthana ndi mavuto. Koma, monga momwe Baibulo limanenera, chikhulupiriro chopanda kanthu chiri chakufa. Tenga kalata.
Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, munthu sayenera kuiwala za kudzidalira ndi chikhulupiriro mwa mphamvu zake ndi zikhumbo zake. Ichi chidzakhala lamulo lachiwiri. Mavuto ambiri amapezeka chifukwa cha kusowa kwa chikhulupiriro kapena mphamvu. Kuyambira pachiyambi, muyenera kutsimikiza kuti cholinga chanu ndi ichi, ndipo mudzachikwaniritsa, kuti muthe kukhudza maloto omwe mwasankha, ndipo mudzamenyana nawo mpaka womaliza. Mukufuna kukhudzidwa, mukusowa chokhumba. Ngati mulibe mphamvu zokwanira - dziyeseni nokha pafupi ndi cholinga chomwe mukuchipeza, ndiye kuti mumasangalala bwanji ndi zotsatira zake. Malingaliro oterowo angakupatseni mphamvu panthawi ya nkhondo yanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli kutali ndi kwawo ndipo mulibe mphamvu kuti mufike pakhomo, mumakayikira ngati mungathe kupulumuka, kumbukirani amene akuyembekezera, chomwe chidzachitike mukabwerera, nkhope za okondedwa anu. Ndiyeno, ndikuganiza zabwino - pita kumapeto.
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri kukwaniritsa zofuna zawo, kukhazikitsa zolinga ndi kuzikwaniritsa zingakhale zochepa. Posakhalitsa mukhoza kumvanso kuti mukusowa chinachake. Kapena kukayikira kuti ndizo zomwe munkafuna. Ndipo malingaliro oterowo ponena za kukwaniritsa kwake sangawononge chenicheni ndipo zonse zikhoza kukhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe mukuyembekeza. Choncho ganizirani za zotsatira zake, ngati mukufunadi kapena ayi. Osati kusokoneza malotowo ndi cholinga ndi kulakalaka. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwakhumudwitsidwa kale, musabwezere chilango lero, mwinamwake iwo ndi anthu osiyana kwambiri ndi omwe anali aunyamata wawo. Kapena mungathe kukhala ndi maloto aunyamata ndi ubwana wokongola m'dera lomwe mwakhala mukukondana kale. Koma ngati iye wagwirana kale, ganizirani ngati kuli koyenera kuthetsa moyo wa wina ndi cholinga chofunafuna? Kodi cholinga chimenechi chidzakubweretsani chimwemwe? Kodi ndizomveka? Choncho, lamulo lachitatu ndilokuti zolinga ziyenera kusankhidwa ndi nzeru.
Ulamuliro wachinayi ndiwo njira yokwaniritsira cholinga. Icho chiyenera kulingalira mosamala, chikhoza kukhala chinsinsi cha kupambana. Pofotokoza bwino cholinga, yambani kuganizira ngati n'zotheka kukwaniritsa, ngati ndi choncho. Zomwe maluso anu angagwiritsidwe ntchito pa nkhaniyi, zomwe mukufunikira pa izi, muli ndi zonse zomwe mukusowa, ngati mulibe, momwe mungapezere. Ganizilani zonsezi, ganizirani bwino dongosolo lonse. Zowonjezereka bwino, zili bwino, koma ziyeneranso kuganiziridwa kuti nthawi zina silingaganizidwe, ganizirani njira zabwino ndi zina. Pali vesi yabwino pa mutu uwu - kupambana kumafuna kukonzekera. Ndipo payekha ndi cholinga, chiri chowonadi. Ganizirani bwino momwe zingakhalire komanso zomwe zili zoyenera kwambiri kwa inu. Chotsani njira zonyansa zonse, komanso zomwe zimayambitsa wina kuvutika. Musati muike pangozi, kapena kuika moyo wanu kapena okondedwa anu pangozi. Palibe cholinga cha izi ndi zoyenera.
Musawope chilichonse - palibe mavuto omwe angabwere. Ngati mumakhulupirira nokha pachiyambi cha ulendo, ndiye kuti palibe chifukwa chokayika. Musakayikire ngakhale pamene zikuwoneka kuti mukuchoka kutali ndi cholinga, ndipo nthawi ikutha. Kwa nthawi yanu yonse. Chinthu chachikulu - chitani zonse kuti cholinga chichitike. Fufuzani njira zatsopano zomwe mungakwaniritsire.
Chinthu china chochititsa chidwi - musaiwale kudzilimbikitsa pa njira yopita ku cholinga. Ngati mudasamukira pafupi ndi iye, mwapeza njira yatsopano, mutha kupambana chovuta chachikulu - dzipangeni nokha mphatso, chitani chinachake chomwe sichiloledwa kale kapena chopanda pake. Chilimbikitso chidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi chidwi ndi chidwi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti cholinga chiyenera kukwaniritsidwa, ngakhale sitikufuna. Choncho, musatope, yesetsani kuti mupindule ndi cholinga - koma mosamala. Kumbukirani kuti palibe zolinga zomwe zimapindulitsa thanzi lanu.