Mmene mungasinthire chikhalidwe cha maganizo mu timu

Kodi mungatani kuti muthe kusintha maganizo anu mumagulu, momwe mungakwaniritsire kumvetsetsa? Kuntchito, ndimafuna kuchita chinthu chomwe ndimakonda ndikubweretsa kunyumba yabwino. Koma m'malo mogwira ntchito mwakhama, anzanu akuyamba kuona ubale wawo. Mmodzi amasonyeza zosiyana kwambiri ndi ena onse, ndipo palibe amene amalankhulapo, winayo amachititsa kuti anthu onse azikhala okhumudwa, lachitatu ndi loopsa, lovulazidwa ndi kuyang'ana kwa mtsogoleriyo, ndipo chachinayi chimasokoneza kwambiri nkhaniyo pamene aliyense amakangana. Ndipo onse, chifukwa pokhala opanda maganizo ndi zodziwa, kuyesetsa mwamphamvu kuli ngati kuphulika kwa nyukiliya. Zotsatira zake, sindikufuna kupita kuntchito, palibe ntchito yogwirira ntchito limodzi, mpweya kuntchito ukuwawa. Kodi mungagwire bwanji ntchitoyi? Ndikofunika kuganiza ndikusankha kuti ndi ndani yemwe akuopseza kwambiri, ndipo atenge zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti asatengeke.

"Dushechka"
Uyu ndi wachikondi, wolandiridwa ndi wokoma mkazi amene ali wokonzeka kuthandiza aliyense. Kumenyana kochepa kwambiri kwa iye ndi koopsa komanso koopsa. Amayesetsa kukopa, sangathe kunena "ayi", motero anzake ogwira ntchito mwakhama amavala mapewa, nkhani zosiyanasiyana komanso zofunikira. Chinthu chosauka chimangochoka, ndipo alibe nthawi yoti achite chirichonse panthawi. Akuluakulu akukwiyitsa, wina aliyense ndi wodetsa nkhawa, akudabwa kwambiri.

Njira yanu. Mu mawonekedwe osakhwima, afotokozereni kwa cholengedwa ichi chokoma momwe "diplomatic" ndi zofewa zotere zimatsogolera ku chiyani. Limbikitsani kwambiri kuyesayesa kwa anzako kuyika ntchito yawo pa munthu uyu. Ngati mutetezera mkazi wodalirika ndi wokoma mtima, akuluakulu aboma adzakuyamikani kuti vutoli linathetsedwa palokha, ndipo sadayenera kusokoneza, kotero kuti mudzapindule ndi ena. Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti mtsogoleri aliyense sasamala momwe timagulu lake lilili, akufunikira kuti wogwira ntchito aliyense azigwira ntchito yake, ndipo mlanduwo watsirizidwa pa nthawi.

"Wodziŵa"
Izi "ntchito yophimba" yowonetsa kuti poyamba ntchito zonse zinagwira ntchito mosiyana, koma zinafika bwino. Akuopa kuti adzataya mwazi wake, ndipo kenako malo ake kuti akwaniritse udindo wake, adagwira ntchito theka la moyo wake. Wophunzira aliyense watsopano ndi mpikisano woopsa. Zonse mwazinthu zatsopano ndi zotsutsana ndi zofunikira zake zamakono. Kenako amalengeza wogwira ntchitoyo kuti ndi "wopusa", ndipo amachititsa kuti zidziwitsozo ziwonongeke nthawi ndi ndalama. Pang'onopang'ono kuzungulira iye ndi gulu lothandizira: nkhawa za chikhalidwe; Osatsimikizika pa luso lawo, kuti athe kuthana ndi zochitika zatsopano; okondedwa poshumet. Ntchitoyi siili bwino ndipo timu ikukula.

Njira yanu. Nthawi zonse mumamufunse mafunso osiyanasiyana, mumusonyeze ulemu umene wapatsidwa. Ndipo sikofunikira kuti utsatire malangizo omwe analandira. Yesetsani kulibweretsa pafupi ndi anyamata. Limbikitsani kuti achinyamata athe kukhala okoma mtima kwa achikulire, nenani "mbulu yakale" momwe anzake anzake amalemekeza zomwe ena akukumana nazo. Tawonani kuti njira yowonjezeramo "kugwirizanitsa" imagwira ntchito pamene "odziwa" akudwala chifukwa cha zomwe zimayambitsa. Ngati akuganiza za momwe angakhalire mwamtendere ndi bata mpaka atachoka pantchito, ndiye kuti nkofunika kuthana ndi mavuto ndi akuluakulu a boma.

"Lenivets"
Amakhala mochedwa tsiku ndi tsiku, koma amasiya mphindi imodzi mpaka mphindi, amafuna kukambirana ndi zosamalidwa za chinthu china chilichonse chomwe wapatsidwa kwa iye, kukambirana nkhani zongopeka, shirks bizinesi. Iye anadzichotsa ku bizinesi, koma amafuna ndalama, koma kuti chirichonse chimalepheretsa ndikukhala pa desiki. Pamene ntchitoyi ikugawidwa, "ntchentche" imadumphira pansi pa tebulo, kotero kuti iwo okha sadziwa. Zimangoganizira za kumene iwo amachokerako: mwina akuluakulu apamwamba anatenga achibale awo, iwo anali chabe munthu waulesi wosabvunda, kaya akhumudwa mu moyo kapena ntchito ya munthu wokayikira, kapena iwe usanalandire zovuta zazing'ono.

Njira yanu. Onetsani kuwona mtima ndikukuuzani kuti simudzabweranso kumbuyo kwake, kumachedwa ndikumugwirira ntchito. Ndipo tsopano akhale ndi udindo pa zochita zake ndikukhala ndi udindo pa iwo. Ngati ndinu munthu wotsatira mfundo, mum'patse mbiri, pomwe akukonzekera zolakwa zake zonse ndi kuchedwa kwake, kenaka pitani kwa mtsogoleriyo ndi ndondomeko yowonjezera. Izi si ntchito yophweka, choncho ganizirani ngati muli ndi chipiriro chokwanira komanso kudzidalira.

"Irreplaceable"
Mlembi muofesi akuyika pepala la osindikiza mu kabati imodzi, mafayilo mu chipinda china, zigawo mu chipinda chachitatu. Lero ndi tsiku lake loyamba la tchuthi, ndipo palibe amene angapeze chirichonse. Kugwira ntchito mu dipatimentiyo ndi olumala, aliyense amayesetsa kufunafuna alumali ndi mabokosi a mapepala, mapensulo, akuyendayenda. Muthamangire kunyumba kwake, ndipo zikupezeka kuti ngakhale usiku wathawu, iye anasintha chirichonse, kuti apange dongosolo. Ndipo onse chifukwa aliyense amamvetsa, ndipo amamutcha iye, kuti iye amafunikira chirichonse ndipo iye ndi munthu wofunikira.

Malangizo anu. Palibe chimene chingapezeke mwa kumunyoza iye chifukwa cha izi, kupatulapo chiwonongeko ndi kunyozedwa. Mwinamwake, amadzimva kuti amayamikiridwa ndi ena ndipo amakhala wosungulumwa. Yesetsani kugwiritsira ntchito njirayi - mum'tamande chifukwa cha ntchito yabwino, ndipo mundidziwitse kuti zingakhale zabwino ngati atayitana ndikudziuza yekha.

"33 misfortunes"
Kwa iye chinthu chimakhala chikuchitika nthawi zonse, ndiye nyumba yopanda nyumba yopanda nyumba, ndiye galu amadya poizoni wamphongo, ndiye mwanayo sanalembere pepala loyesa. Ndicho chifukwa chake akuchita ntchito yosauka, maganizo onse amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi munda, agalu ndi ana. Pambuyo pake, chirichonse chiyenera kuti chikhale chomalizidwa, ndipo ndi chovuta kumunyoza iye, monga mwa mavuto ake munthu sali wolakwa. Ogwira ntchito ali ndi mantha ndipo akusokoneza kukwiya kwawo wina ndi mzake.

Njira yanu. Ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi vuto ndi mwamuna wake kapena ana ake, mumuthandize mwaubwenzi, mubwere naye pagalimoto, mum'patse ndalama. Koma musamamugwiritse ntchito. Palibe yemwe angakhoze kupirira zolemetsa ziwiri. Chifukwa chake maudindo anu enieni akuvutika, osati ayi, koma mudzachititsa kusakhutitsidwa kwa akuluakulu a boma.

"Kuda nkhawa kwambiri"
Mukukambirana njira yatsopano muzochita zanu. Amachenjeza za mavuto onse amtsogolo, akuwoneratu mavuto onse, amawona mzu wa vuto, ndipo maulosi ake akukwaniritsidwa. Maulosi abwino ochokera kwa iye simudzadikira. Iye akuwopa kuti asagonjetse ntchito yomwe wapatsidwa, akuvutika ndi kudzichepetsa. Mfundo zake zakuda zimapangitsa kuti moyo wa anzako uzida nkhaŵa ndi kusatsimikizika. Mukuyamba kuganiza kuti simungapeze kalikonse ndikukana zopereka zopindulitsa.

Njira yanu. Mutamandeni, kumbukirani momwe adachokera ku zovuta kwambiri. Limbikitseni kuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto ena, palibe chofunikira kwa iye, kupatulapo kuthandizira makhalidwe. Wina akhoza kukuthandizani kuchokera kwa anzako, ndiyeno chisoni chake chidzachotsedwa.

"Bwana yemwe adadziika yekha"
Ngakhale kuti ilibe ulamuliro uliwonse pa izi, zimadziona kuti ndizo zomwe zimapanga chirichonse. Kusakondwera kumakwaniritsa ntchito zonse, ngati kungokhala kosasunthika komanso kopambana. Imafuna ufulu wonse womwe ungakhoze kufika. Palibe amene akuyang'anira, ndikufika mu malingaliro ake, monga ulusi wa boma uli m'manja mwake. Akulongosola ntchito zosiyanasiyana zomwe zikuchitika panopa, akufotokoza ndondomeko ya ntchito ndikusowa malipoti. Anthu amtundu umenewu samayimirira bwino chithunzi cha nkhaniyi, amadandaula akamva langizo ndikuwongolera okha, motero, nkhaniyo imagwira. Kusamala koteroko kumakhala ndi antchito, akuwopa kuti azitha kumenyana ndi munthu uyu, ndipo abwana sakufuna kuti azichita nawo nkhondoyi. Ntchitoyi imayimitsidwa.

Njira yanu. Simungathe kumuuza bwana uyu kuti akulakwitsa, chifukwa ali ndi vuto lalikulu. Ndi bwino kuuza mtsogoleri weniweni kuti watsala pang'ono kunyalanyaza zomwe sakudziwa.

"Nyenyezi"
Iye ndi wogwira ntchito mwakhama ndi wanzeru, wokwiyitsidwa ndi anthu omwe ali opusa kuposa iye. Mwinamwake pakati pa "opusa" inu, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakoka maso ake pamene mwachita chinachake cholakwika, ndikukuphunzitsani momwe mungachitire. Palibe amene amamvetsera malangizo ake, ndipo amakwiya, ndipo zolakwa zimakula.

Njira yanu. Zikomo chifukwa cha maphunziro. Musamanyalanyaze ndi kunyoza ndi mawu achisoni. Ndizofuna kwambiri kugwira ntchitoyo momwe mungathere ndi kupeza zambiri. Ndipo khalidwe lake lonyansa ndilo vuto lake.

Ntchito ndi nyumba yachiwiri, ndipo m'banja lirilonse liripo, monga palimodzi pali:

Bambo Wamphamvu
Bwana, yemwe amagawira zigawozo ndi kugawa ndalama, amabweretsa dongosolo, amapangitsa dongosololo kugwira ntchito. Mu udindo wa mfumu kumeneko mukhoza kukhala mkazi. Aliyense wa iwo omwe ali pansi pa moyo akufuna kulandira chitamando kuchokera kwa papa. Kulankhula bwino kumamukakamiza chifukwa chokhala wosasamala, wosadziwika, wamwano.

Mayi wabwino
Izi zikhoza kukhala mdindo wa "Papa Wamphamvu" kapena Wapamwamba Wanu. Mwinamwake mu positi ndi mwamuna. Amaphimba pang'ono: osapereka nthawi ndi malipoti, kuchedwa, kumangika m'masamaliro a aliyense, kuteteza "ana" ake kuchokera ku "bambo wovuta", amachititsa kuti mpikisano ukhalepo. Ana opweteka samvetsera kwa "amayi" awo, zinthu zikuyenda moipa kwambiri, ndipo "abambo" okhwima amalepheretsa kuti gulu lonse liziyenda. Aliyense amakhumudwitsidwa ndi "Amayi", kuti sadapulumutse pakugwira ntchito, ndipo sadagonjetse ntchito yake. Ndipo kuchokera kwa iye akuzunzidwa mwankhanza.

Mlongo wamkulu
Amapereka malangizo a momwe angamuthandizire mwamuna wake, momwe angachiritse mimba ya mphaka, momwe angalerere mwana. Mumamupangira khofi kapena tiyi. Inu mofatsa ndi mwamtendere mumatsutsana pamene mupita ku holide ndi ku ofesi madofesi ndikugawanitsa malo okhala, koma nthawi zonse muzigwirizana potsutsa "papa".

Mnyamata wamng'ono
Wokondedwa mnzanga ali ndi malingaliro opusa, malingaliro a "Amayi". Malingaliro awa akhoza kubweretsa phindu lenileni, lomwe lingathe kusintha dongosolo. "Amayi" amayamba kuphunzitsa ndi kunena kuti samvetsa kuvuta kwa ntchito, zomwe amalingalira kuti azichita. Amalimbikitsidwa ndi "abambo ovuta" ndipo samvetsa chifukwa chake maganizo a achinyamata sakugwiritsidwa ntchito.

Mwana wodabwitsa
Wothandizira wanu, yemwe amatsatira. Amathandiza aliyense, amabwera kukakomana, sakudziwa nsanje, timayenera kulandira thandizo lake, kumangokhalira nsanje ndikumumwetulira. Palibe chodandaula

Tinaphunzira momwe tingakwaniritsire kumvetsetsa ndi chisangalalo mu gulu lirilonse. Potsatira ndondomeko izi, mukhoza kuphunzira kusintha maganizo m'magulu, kotero kuti pamapeto pake simusowa kuti mupeze mgwirizano, koma ndikugwira ntchito basi.