Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji ukwati wa mkwatibwi? Sikuti ndizovala kavalidwe ka ukwati. Werengani zambiri m'nkhani yathu ya lero.
Kukonzekera ukwati kuli bwino kuyamba nthawi yayitali musanafike tsiku lopambana la moyo wanu, chifukwa pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zikutsogolera, kuti muthetse zomwe mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu zambiri komanso maluso anu. Kotero, kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani pokonzekera ukwati?
1. Dziwani tsiku la ukwati.
Posankha tsikulo, ziyenera kuganiziridwa kuti tsiku lino kuphatikizapo mwambo wovomerezeka waukwati, padzakhalanso phwando. Ndikofunika kupereka izi kwa tsiku losankhidwa limene simungathe kuligwiritsa ntchito kapena malo omwe mukufuna kukondwerera ukwatiwo adzakhalemo. Ngati mukufuna kuchita mwambo waukwati, ndiye kuyambira masiku onse a sabata Lachisanu ndi Lamlungu okha ndi abwino. Mungagwiritse ntchito mu ofesi yolembera pakati pa miyezi iwiri ndi umodzi isanakwane. Ndipo, ndithudi, kumbukirani kuti Loweruka ndi tsiku lokonda maukwati.
2.Reshem yemwe akuitanira ku ukwatiwo.
Lero ndi funso lovuta kwambiri komanso lofunika kwambiri lomwe muyenera kulikonza. Chiwerengero cha alendo chimadalira kuchuluka kwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Kuchokera kwa anthu omwe adzakhale nawo paukwati, kumadalira chisankho cha zosangalatsa ndi zina zambiri. Mukhoza kupanga mndandanda wa alendo awiri. Mndandanda woyamba udzaphatikizapo omwe mukufunadi kuwaitanira. Ndipo mndandanda wachiwiriwu umaperekedwa kwa iwo omwe ndi ofunika kuitanira. Tikuitana mndandanda woyamba, ndipo ngati wina akukana, timamuitana munthu kuchokera mndandanda wachiwiri m'malo mwake.
3. Ndikufuna ukwati wabwino.
Aliyense wa ife amaimira tsiku lodabwitsa mwa njira yathuyi. Kodi mumakonda nthawi mu makampani akulira? Kodi mumapita kumabwalo usiku? Mwina, kukondana kokha popanda kulira kwa achibale "kowawa!"? Kaya ukwati sunali wotani, ziyenera kukhala zokha kuti zikhale zosangalatsa kwa inu ndi theka lanu. Kodi chingakuthandizeni kusankha chiyani? Ganizirani zomwe mumakonda, zomwe mumakonda, zomwe mukuzifuna. Mwinamwake mumakonda malo odyera amodzi, omwe mumapita nthawizonse? Kodi mumapembedza chikhalidwe cha, mwachitsanzo, Japan? Kodi ndinu wokonda nyimbo? Kapena kodi muli filimu yomwe mwasanthula nthawi khumi ndi ziwiri ndipo mukufuna kukhala mmenemo? Kutumiza mwambo wa chikondwerero kungakhale malingaliro anu onse.
4. Kodi mungakwatire kuti?
Phwando mu lesitilanti. Kumangokhala mu cafe. Yendani pa tram ya mtsinje. Sangalalani mu kampu. Kuchokera ku chikhalidwe cha fungo la favorite shish kebab. Kumene kuli phwando laukwati, payenera kukhala kosavuta kwa inu ndi theka lanu.
5. Ndi ndalama zingati?
Sankhani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pa chikondwererocho. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kukhala nthawi yachisanu. Kodi mukufuna ukwati wa nsanje kwa ena kapena phwando lodzichepetsa nokha kwa okondedwa anu m'bwalo lapafupi kwambiri? Koma palinso ndalama, popanda zomwe palibe njira yothetsera ukwati.
6. Kodi ndi njira iti yomwe mungawonekere paukwati?
Palibe kukayika kuti mkwatibwi - Mfumukazi ya Ukwati, akudzidalira yekha malingaliro onse, chilichonse cha chithunzi chake chiyenera kukhala chopanda chilema, ndipo mkwatibwi yekha - mawonekedwe a ungwiro. Kodi mukuyimira kale chithunzi chanu chabwino? Kodi mwambo wa ukwati, womwe simungapeze zabwino padziko lonse lapansi? Maluwa okongola. Zosangalatsa zodabwitsa. Ndipo mkwati, kotero kuti mabwenzi onse amafa ndi kaduka. Koma musaiwale kuti mkwati ayenera kuwoneka moyang'anizana ndi mkwatibwi. Ngati pali kukayikira kulikonse posankha fano, ndiye nthawi yoti mutsegule makanema achikwati ndikusankha zomwe mukufuna. Mungathe kufunsa ndi wolembera.
7. Ndipo mutaganizira zonse zomwe zalembedwazi, yesani mphamvu zanu, mutha kukhala ndi luso lokwanira. Kuwonjezera pa kuti ukwati uyenera kukhala wokonzeka, wokonzedwa, ukufunikiranso kuchitika. Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kusangalala ndi chikondwerero, ndipo osadandaula za kuti chikwati chaukwati sichinayambe. Mwinamwake ndikuyenera kuitana woyang'anira ukwatiyo?
Ndi mtima wathu wonse tikukhumba kuti muthane ndi zosangalatsa zonse zosangalatsa! Tsopano akwatibwi onse a dziko lathu akudziwa kukonzekera ukwati!