Chinsinsi cha ukwati wokongola ndi wopambana

Kawirikawiri timakonda kukondana lero. Dzuwa, aliyense ali wokondwa, anthu oyandikana ali pafupi, ndipo amakutengerani, wokongola kwambiri, m'manja mwake pazitsulo za ofesi yolembera. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi - bryak, mwendo wake unatembenuka, ndipo mwasuntha zithunzi kuchokera ku masitepe a ofesi yolembera kupita ku malo ozama kwambiri. Panali tchuthi - ndipo palibe. Kodi n'zotheka kupeĊµa kusamvana kotereku kotereku tsiku lowala? Tsoka! Koma tikhoza kuyesa kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwake kwachoncho. Kotero, tiyeni tiwulule zinsinsi zonse za ukwati wokongola ndi wopambana.

Vvalani. Kwenikweni, izi ndizo zikuluzikulu zomwe zimatilimbikitsa kupita ku ofesi yolembera. Koma ziyenera kusankhidwa! Ndipo pali zambiri mwa izo ndipo zonse ndi zokongola. Ndipo onse ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Choyamba, muyenera kukhazikitsa pansi ndi ... kutulutsa. Ndiyeno ganizirani: Kodi mukufuna kuvala ukwati wa mtundu wanji? Talingalirani izi mpaka pansipa kwambiri. Gawo lotsatira ndi kukumbukira kulemera kwanu ndi miyeso yanu. Zenizeni zokha, zosalengezedwa. Mwa njira, izo ziri zofuna zanu. Kenaka, muyenera kufotokozera bwinobwino denga lanu lachuma, ndi chirichonse chimene sichidutsa ... O, ndizosangalatsa bwanji ... Koma tinagwirizana kuti tisayang'ane! Ndipo tsopano inu mukhoza kuyamba kuyang'ana. Kupulumutsa nthawi yambiri ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, mphamvu yauzimu.

Chinsinsi cha ukwati wokongola ndi wopambana ndi zobisika m'gulu la chikondwererochi. Tsopano zomwe sizinaperekedwe - ndi manambala a magalimoto (Masha + Vanya), ndi mavidiyo, ndi zozizira, ndi njiwa zoyera m'mitambo. Mtengo wa ukwati umakhala woperewera. Koma ngati mwadzidzidzi (chabwino, mwadzidzidzi?) Mavuto azachuma kwa inu ndi ofunika kwambiri, ndiye ndalama zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa gulu ndizochepa kwambiri moti lingaliro lokhalo poyembekezera ukwati ndilo: "Ambuye, chabwino, lolani kutha!" Kuti muteteze izi nkofunika kuti Chisankho: Musakhale ndi njiwa (pambuyo pake, izi ndi zachiwawa pa mbalame); kusuta mafunso onse a bungwe pa mapewa olimbikitsa a munthu (tiyeni tiwone kuti mwamuna wamtsogolo adzasonyeza kuti ali woyenera).

Alendo. Pa ukwatiwo, pazifukwa zina, samaitana omwe mukufuna. Ndipo omwe akukhumudwa, ngati sanaitanidwe. Wachiwiriyu akulembedwanso ndi anthu mazana awiri. Simukuwakumbukira ngakhale pankhope panu, koma amayi anu akuti: "Chabwino, n'kosatheka, sizosangalatsa." Ndikofunika kusonyeza kukhwima.

Ili ndilo tchuthi lanu. Ndipo ngati wina akufuna kusangalala pa ukwatiwo, amusiyeni akwatire. Pachifukwa ichi, pali zinsinsi zambiri za ukwati wokongola ndi wopambana, mwachitsanzo, njira zabwino zokhazokha: kukhala ndi makolo kwa maola angapo, kenako nkuwuluka kupita ku phwando lopanda pake ndi abwenzi abwino; ngati ndalama ziloleza, ndiye aloleni kuti abwere. Mulungu akhale nawo. Mu abambo aakazi ndi amalume, njira imodzi, imatayika, ndipo muyang'ana mu maso okondwa a osankhidwa anu, ndipo adzayang'ana pa anu. Ndipo adawalola kuti ayende. Amayi, kachiwiri, abwino. Inde, n'zosatheka kuwoneratu zonse paukwati. Ndithu, chinachake chidzachitika - limousine idzaphulika, ndipo mudzachedwa kuchepetsedwa kwa olemba milanduyo, zoweta zidzathera, mboni idzatsanulira vinyo wofiira pa diresi loyera, chidendene chidzasweka, ndipo apongozi ake ndi apongozi awo adzakhala omvera osiyanasiyana. Ndiyeno ukwati wanu udzapulumutsa chinthu chimodzi chokha - chifukwa chakuti mumakondana. Ichi, makamaka, ndicho kupambana kwakukulu kwa ukwati wanu ndi moyo wanu. Chabwino, chowona kuti woyang'anira masewero mumaponyedwa kapena winawake sanakonde chinachake - kotero ili ndilo mawu olondola, zopanda pake.

Malingaliro a amuna ku ukwatiwo. Amuna nthawi zambiri samakwatirana powerengera. Monga lamulo, izi ndi mwina ukwati wa chikondi kapena kukakamizidwa. Zinachitika kuti amuna akwatira kapena oyambirira (asanakwanitse zaka 22), kapena m'malo mochedwa (pambuyo pa 30). Ndipo popeza kuti kupereka kwaukwati kumakhala kochitidwa nthawi zonse ndi anthu, chifukwa iye amatanthauza choyamba kulengeza udindo wa banja la mtsogolo. Amuna amalowa m'banja mwachangu (osakwiya) mobwerezabwereza kuposa akazi. Nthawi zambiri, makamaka ali aang'ono, amasokoneza chikondi ndi chikondi.