Pakadutsa zaka zathu za kumasulidwa ndi chikazi, motero, pokhapokha tinthu tating'ono komanso tomwe timatchedwa "mkazi" atha kukhala mwaulere, odziimira, omwe ali ndi cholinga chogonana, koma ndi zizoloŵezi za amuna. Mayi ambiri akugwira ntchito yamwamuna pakati pa anthu. Amapeza moyo wake, amasuntha wovala ngati fluff, pomwe akuyankha kuti sakuima pamenepo. Ngati ndi kotheka, amakhometsa misomali, kukonza kachipupa, kuchotsa ma carpet, kusanthula makompyuta pazinthu zochepa chabe, ndiyeno nkuziphatikizanso mosavuta, koma padzawoneka zinthu zingapo zatsopano, ngakhale zosakhala zofunikira. Koma posakhalitsa, izi zodzikonda zokha zimagwera m'chikondi. Ndipo chinachake chosamvetsetseka chikuchitika mu malingaliro ake. Ubongo wake umayambitsa pulogalamu - nbsp; "Kubwezeretsedwa". Ndiyeno anathamanga. Amayamba kukhala ndi chidwi ndi mafunso omwe sanayambe amusangalatsa. Amayamba kuchita zinthu zomwe sakanachita kale. Kotero funso likubwera - "bwanji?". Ndipo chirichonse chiri chophweka, chikondi chachikulu ndi chikwati zamufikira iye. Kwa iye, chirichonse chiri chatsopano ndipo sichidziwika. Iye anapeza dziko losiyana kwambiri. Dziko lochita zosangalatsa, lokhazikika, kukonzekera kwa nthawi yaitali maholide, ndiyeno mofanana nthawi yaitali kutsuka pambuyo pawo. M'dziko lino, zimakhala zovuta kuti mukhalebe muzochitika zonse. Ndipotu ukwati ndi ntchito yovuta pakati pa anthu awiri. Ili ndilo gawo lomwe liri ndi malamulo ake omwe. Tsopano tiyeni tiwone chomwe mkazi yemwe ali wokwatirana ayenera kuchita.
Choyamba. Chophimba chimatsegulidwa
Choyamba, mkazi ayenera kuganiza moyenera. Kukhala wokhazikika, kuganiza moyenera, kukoma mtima moona mtima - ichi ndicho maziko a mphamvu za amayi ndi chisangalalo. Ndipo izi, zimapereka mpata wofufuza zonse kuchokera pamalingaliro abwino, kupereka mayankho abwino kwa anthu, zochitika, zochitika, muzonse kuti awone kukongola, mwayi ndi tsogolo losangalatsa. Aliyense amafuna kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, choncho ndizodabwitsa kuti anthu amakopeka ndi amayi okondwa, okondwa. Sizomwe akunena kuti, "Amene mumatsogoleredwa ndi munthu, kuti muyimiridwe." Ndiye mwamuna adzayang'ana moyo kudzera mu lenti yabwino. Choncho, muukwati wotere mulibe malo okangana ndi chisokonezo.
Chinthu chachiwiri
Chachiwiri, mkazi yemwe ali wokwatirana ayenera kudzidza yekha ndi ena ndi mphamvu. Dzifunseni nokha pamene sakufuna kuchita chilichonse chatsopano, kukhala ndi moyo, sipadzakhalanso zosangalatsa ndi zozizwitsa, pang'onopang'ono akukwera pakhomo pake, akusiya kupita ku zochitika zochititsa chidwi, museums, m'mabwalo, mawonetsero. Tsitsi lake lokonzedwa bwino lidzasanduka mchira wosamvetsetseka. Kenaka pang'onopang'ono udzayamba kukhala "jellyfish". Ndiuzeni, kodi mudzakhala ndi chidwi ndi munthu yemwe watopa kwambiri ndi moyo wake? Chifukwa chake, okondedwa, tikuyenera kudziyang'anira tokha, mwakuthupi ndi mwauzimu. "Maganizo abwino ali m'thupi labwino!". Timalowa masewera, kumwa mavitamini, kuwerenga mabuku, kupeza malo osangalatsa, malo okondweretsa, kuyendera mitundu yonse ya magulu ndi maphunziro, kawirikawiri, kukula, osayima, usawononge!
Kutseka
Chida chachiwiri chokongola chimatuluka muchitatu - timathandizira kukongola ndi thanzi. Munthu amakonda chiyanjano, mgwirizano mu ubale, anthu, chilengedwe. Pambuyo pake, chikhalidwe mwa ife poyamba chinayika mgwirizano, mgwirizano ndi zofanana. Ndi kangati mumadziyang'ana mwachidule wina, ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Ndi zophweka, timakonda kukongola, makamaka kuganizira zokongola izi mwa wina. Timakopeka ndi anthu okongola, okondedwa ndi chilengedwe chawo komanso chisomo. Kwenikweni, ndi kovuta kwambiri kukhalabe mgwirizano mwa inu nokha, osasamala kukhalabe mgwirizano mu ubale. Pambuyo pake, kukhala pamodzi, kukhala pamodzi ndi kuganizirana nthawi zonse. Ndipo si zachilendo kuti panthawi ina kulingalira izi sikungabweretsere chisangalalo, kale. Ndipo zonsezi ndi chifukwa chakuti, poyesa kugonana ndi kuzindikira wina ndi mzake monga chinthu chodziwika, okwatirana amayamba kunyalanyaza maonekedwe awo ndi tsiku ndi tsiku kuti asamalire. Kodi uyu ndi mkazi yemwe ali wokwatira? Kotero, kukongola, thanzi ndi kudzikongoletsa - mbali yofunikira ya moyo wathunthu wa banja.
Ntchito yachitatu
Kodi mukudziwa chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri pa ubale wathanzi? Khalani osiyana. Anthu akukula, akukula, kusintha maganizo awo pazinthu zina, zosintha zimasintha. Ndiye bwanji osabweretsa ubale wa zachilendo komanso wodzipereka. Inde, moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku umafuna kuti ife tizilondola, kuganizira, kuchita zinthu, kulinganiza zachilengedwe. Koma posakhalitsa moyo uno wodetsa tsiku ndi tsiku umayamba kukoka, ndipo timakhala makina. Choncho, tiyenera kuyima, kuyang'ana pozungulira, taganizirani zomwe zimafuna moyo ndi kuchita. Zingakhale chirichonse, komanso kungokhala ndi chikondi chambiri chifukwa cha kuwala kwa kandulo, osati kukonzekera kupita ku cinema, ndi kupsinjika maganizo ndi zowonongeka, ma carousels ndi ubweya wabwino wa thonje. Mwinamwake mwakhalapo ndi lingaliro kapena maloto, chifukwa chokhazikitsa zomwe okondedwa anu akufunikira. Ganizirani bwino izi, ndipo kumbukirani chinachake.
Chophimba chimatseka
Ngati zikuwonetseratu, mkazi wokwatira ndiye kuti analenga chilengedwe. Amadziwa kuti ndi bwino kusamba zinthu mkati, kuti masamba a kabichi azikhala ndi tastier ngati mumangowonjezera kaloti ndi anyezi kuti mudye nyama, amadziwa kuti ana savuta kubweretsa. Amadziwa kuti tupps sali zolemba, amadziwa chomwe chimalamulira, wothandizira ndi Skype ndi chiyani, bajeti ya banja, ndipo kawirikawiri pali mawu ambiri ochenjera.
Ndipo zinali zosangalatsa kwa inu kuti ichi ndi lingaliro la amuna omwe ali okwatirana omwewo. Ine mwanjira ina ndinamufunsa mwamunayo mwamuna wanga chomwe, mwa lingaliro lake, kodi mkazi wokwatiwa ayenera kuchita chiyani? Ndipo mukudziwa, yankholo linali losavuta ndipo panthawi imodzimodzimodzi - "mkazi yemwe ali pabanja ayenera kuchita zomwe mkazi wamba wamba, ndibwinoko!". Potero, okondedwa, phunzirani kukhala abwino muzonse!