Chirichonse chimene anganene, zaka makumi atatu ndilo gawo lotsatira m'moyo wathu. Inde, tili ndi malire osiyanasiyana, ndipo takhala tikudziwana ndi zida zankhondo, komabe ... Patsiku lino, muyenera kubwera kale ndi katundu wopezekapo. Ndipo katundu uyu sayenera kukhala zinthu zonse zofunika pamoyo ndi kukhala, komanso ...
Cholinga
Poyamba, zikhoza kuoneka ngati zili zovuta kuposa kungofuna? Ndipo ayi! Mwachitsanzo, wina akungoyendetsa galimoto m'maloto, amati, palibe mphamvu yakuyenda pamsewu. Chifukwa - chikhalidwe chodziwika bwino kapena china chake chonga icho. Inde, anthu ochepa (ngakhale ambuye wa maloto omwe anapatsidwa) amakhulupirira kuti chikhumbochi chitha posachedwapa posachedwapa. Chifukwa funso losavuta la mtundu wa galimoto yomwe mumawona m'maloto anu, imamveka ngati "matope" ndi yankho losamvetsetseka: "Chabwino, ichi ... chokongola ... Mungathe kufiira!". Zokongola ngati zikuwoneka, koma zolinga zathu ndi malingaliro ndi zinthu ziwiri zosiyana. Kotero ngati malingaliro anu akufotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane, momwe mungaganizire za mawonekedwe ake, kuponyera mu malingaliro, ndi bwino kwambiri, ndondomeko ya bizinesi yolembedwa, mfundo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kubweretsa zozizwitsa za chigawenga pafupi, kotero kuti zovuta zowonongeka monga "malingaliro - cholinga - chigonjetso" zovuta.
Amzanga
Osati kale kwambiri mndandanda wa amzanga unali wokongola kwambiri. Anzanu abwino kwambiri ochokera ku sukulu ya sukulu, awiri kuchokera ku sukuluyi, imodzi kuchokera ku sukulu ya kindergarten, imodzi kuchokera pabwalo ndi mmodzi mwa iwo omwe amadziwana nawo kudzera pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ... Ndipo izi sizomwe zili mndandanda wa atsikana omwe angachite mantha kuti atumizidwe lembani "Mabwenzi anga apamtima". Koma zaka zinapita ndipo zina mwa izo si "mzimu wachibale", wina amangokugwiritsani ntchito kuti mupeze "nsalu ya misonzi" yatsopano, wina yemwe amangokhala kumbuyo kwake akukunamizira za fano lanu la moyo, kukwiya kumbuyo kwake, ndi wina amakonda kubwereza nkhani zanu "kumoto" kumanzere ndi kumanja, ngakhale kwa iwo omwe sapeza, ndi zina zotero. "Kuyesa kwa nthawi," monga lamulo, sikusungidwa ndi zimenezo, ndiye mnzanu wina. Kuwonjezera pa china chirichonse, pofika zaka makumi atatu sitinakhale anzeru chabe, koma, mwatsoka, osasamala komanso okhwima kwambiri. Nzeru yathu yapadziko lapansi, pamene ili patali, ikuyang'anabe pakudikirira, kuyang'ana nyimbo ya ubwana wa maximalism. Choncho, kwa zaka makumi atatu za abwenzi enieni adakalibe, ndipo, mwa njira, ayenera kuti atsimikiziridwa kale kuti ndi "nsabwe"!
Chikondi
Sikofunika kuti chikondi chiripo tsopano. Pa ntchitoyi, yoyamba ikhozanso kupita. Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti ngati simunayambe mwakondana wina aliyense asanakwanitse zaka makumi atatu, ndiye kuti mwangwiro izi zidzachitika posachedwa, zikuchepa kwambiri. Choncho, ngati panopa wakhala akutanganidwa kukweza maluso kapena kudzifufuza nokha (aliyense ali ndi zifukwa zake) - ndi nthawi yosiyiratu milandu yonse ku bokosi lakutali ndikuyamba kukondana. Mukhoza ngakhale popanda kubwereza.
Ndipo mfundo yonse ndi yakuti maganizo ngati chikondi sangakhale osasangalala! Munthu sangakhale wosasangalala, ndipo kenako, ngati akufuna. Ndipo chikondi sichichilendo chokongola chomwe sichikhala ndi mwayi uliwonse.
Chinthu chosangalatsa
Ziyenera kukhaladi! Ngati simukukonda, ndiye funso likuti: "Kodi simungathe kukhala ndi ntchito yamtundu wanji, mutatha kukhala ndi tridtsatnik?". Chowopsya chachikulu chotenga thupi, choyamba, chimayambitsa kusakhutira ndi kulemedwa.
Mwa njira, sizilibe kanthu kaya zonse zomwe mumakonda zimagwirizana ndi ntchito yanu kapena ntchito yanu. Kudziwa usiku uliwonse nastarenkih, komabe agogo a spokes, mungathe komanso osamasuka, chifukwa chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndicho kukondwera nazo, ndipo ngati mukukonda zomwe mumakonda, komanso kupereka ndalama, kuphatikizapo tchuthi, ndiye kuti ndinu osangalala kwambiri!
Kukhala ndi zolinga zabwino
Pakadutsa zaka makumi atatu, titha kudzipereka bwinobwino. Dziwani mphamvu zanu zonse ndi zofooka zanu ndi kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe mu moyo uno tikhoza kukwaniritsa, ndipo osati. Choncho musasinthane ndi zinthu zopanda pake, muyenera kupita ndi kukafika pazitali. Koma mawu olemera ndi kudzidalira, omwe mwa zaka zimenezi afika, adzakhala othandizira kwambiri polimbana ndi zopinga zonse.
Zochitika za kugonana
Zingakhale ngakhale osati mvula yamkuntho, komabe. Kusasamala ndi ukhondo - izi ndi zodabwitsa, koma tsopano ndi kutali ndi nthawi yomwe zonsezi zinagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino. Kudikirira kalonga ndi bizinesi yosangalatsa, koma pamene mukumuyembekezera, bwanji osayesa anthu ophweka. Osachepera kuti akwaniritse maloto awo. Inde, ndipo zikanakhala zabwino kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi zaka zolimba ngati zimenezi. Osati mu kudzikweza nokha, koma ndi munthu. Chabwino, kuti mumvetse chifukwa chake pali phokoso lambiri pompano.
Mwambo wa kunyada
Koma musasokonezeke ndi kunyada - zimadza ndi ulemu. Pambuyo pake, aliyense wa ife anali ndi kupambana kwake komwe. Kwa wina kungakhale kuseketsa, koma kofunika kwambiri kwa ife. Ndipo sitiyenera kuiwala za iwo, makamaka pamene atidzudzula ndi chinachake. Inde, muyenera kutsutsa, komabe, mumavomerezana, ndikusangalatsa mtima wa lingaliro kuti kwa inu nokha, koma pali chinachake chonyada: Ndinapulumutsa kanyumbayo pozizira kunyumba!
Zizolowezi zoipa
Inde, zili bwino apa ngati ndi chizoloŵezi chimodzi ndipo sichidzapweteka kwambiri thanzi. Koma zonse zofanana, zilole izo zikhale! Awonetsetseni chifukwa ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa zomwe zingathe kutsindika kwambiri umunthu wathu.
Musati mwamsanga, ponena za mawu awa, kusuta paketi ya ndudu kapena kuti mutenge chidutswa chachikulu cha keke mukhale nokha - izo sizingakupindulitseni inu!
Zabwino
Amati ntchito zabwino sizingatchuka. Mfundo, koma bwanji? Kuzindikiritsa anthu ndi kutchuka sikusewera mbali pano. Ndikofunika (osati mu kuchuluka kwa nthawi imodzi) kuchita zabwino kwa wina. Mmene mungalankhulire: Zomwezo! ".
Chiyembekezo
Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri ndi mfundo yaikulu, chifukwa palibe chiyembekezo, monga akunena, "ndipo moyo si wabwino". N'zosatheka kuti m'dziko lino pali mkazi yemwe wakhala ndi zaka makumi atatu, sanamvepo kupweteka, kukwiyira, kutukwana, kutayika, kutaya mtima m'moyo ... Mndandandawu, mwatsoka, ukhoza kupitilira kwa nthawi yayitali. Chinthu chosautsa, moyo uno. Koma iye ndi netakaya amanyengerera, ngati cholengedwa cham'tsogolo chidzamenyana ndi zida zake zokha. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri ndicho chida cha chiwonongeko. Choncho tsatirani izi.
Ndipo ziri choncho, ngati mulibe chisangalalo ndi chiyembekezo ndi msinkhu wa zaka makumi atatu, kodi mumaganiza bwanji kuti mukhalebe ndi moyo ndikumana ndi msinkhu wa chikumbumtima? Koma ngati simunadziwe izi, zaka makumi anayi moyo, monga lamulo, ndiyambi chabe!