Kodi ndi choncho? Aliyense wa iwo, wachinyamata kapena "zaka za Balzac", wochepa thupi kapena wamapupa, wazimayi wamalonda ndi mkazi wamasiye ali ndi zilakolako zina ndizofunikira kwa amuna. Ndipo mosasamala momwe izo zikuwonekera ndi zomwe zimachita, izi zakhala ndi mfundo zofanana.
Palibe kuyesa kukwaniritsa mndandanda wonse wa "wantchito" wa amayi ndi munthu aliyense. Ndibwino kuti apambane. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Ndi zophweka! Zokhumba za akazi zikhoza kukhala zotsutsana kwambiri kuti ndizowona okha aziti zomwe zingathe kuzikwaniritsa. Ngakhale kuzindikira izi, theka lofooka laumunthu silingatayike maloto ake, koma limaimba theka lolimba la kusowa chidwi ndi chikondi. Ngakhale munthu wokonda ndi makutu atha kukwaniritsa zokhumba za wosankhidwa wake, izi sizikugwirizana ndi wosankhidwa wake. Wokondedwa wake adzalandirabe chifukwa chosakhutira ndipo adzatsutsidwa chifukwa cha zofooka ndi podkabluchnichestve. Mutu wa kusagwirizana kwazimayi ndi woyenera ntchito zazikulu komanso zoyenera kwambiri za olemba otchuka kwambiri, koma chinsinsi cha miyoyo ya amai sichinasinthidwe osati kwa amuna okha, koma kwa amayi okha.
Ndipo kachiwiri funsolo limayamba: "Chifukwa chiyani?"
Mukhoza kuyesa kupeza yankho lake m'mbiri. Kwa zaka mazana ambiri, mkazi sanachite zabwino zake. Ntchito izi zimakhala zoyamba ndi makolo ake, kenako ndi amuna. Makolo sanayembekezere thandizo lililonse kwa ana awo aakazi atakalamba ndi kufunafuna maphwando opindulitsa kwa iwo. Ntchito yosamalira makolo okalamba anasinthidwa kukhala ana. Azimayi anali "chothandizira", wothandizana ndi mwamuna. Kumbukirani mawu omwewo "Okwatirana." Makolo a "msungwana" akuyesera kuti amuthandize mwanayo, kumupatsa iye muukwati ndi kupindula pamene mkwati ali ndi gawo labwino la chuma kapena udindo wapamwamba mmalo mwa anthu. Amuna a nthawi imeneyo analibe kanthu motsutsa njira iyi. Pokhala ndi chisankho chabwino, adalandira phindu linalake. Koma kodi iwo adapeza chikondi? Sikuti aliyense amamvera chidwi cha moyo wa banja.
Pakupita kwa nthawi, zochitika za amai m'banja ndi maukwati pakati pa okwatirana anasintha. Akazi, kupeza ufulu wodzilamulira, mwayi wopeza bwino, anayamba kufunafuna maubwenzi ena m'banja. Iwo ankafuna chikondi ndi ulemu. Maganizo awa akhala ofunika posankha anthu okwatirana ndipo adakali ofunika pamwamba pa zifukwa zina ndi zifukwa za ukwati. Amuna ndi akazi amakhulupirira izi, koma amamuchitira mosiyana. Amayi ambiri adakali ndi mfundo zakale zomwe zimatsutsana ndi chidziwitso: "Amuna ndiwo njira yothetsera mavuto a amayi." Ndipo nthawi zambiri amamveka mawu monga "wokondedwa, kodi mumandikonda kwambiri?" Inde? Mkulu! Kenaka tenga / kugula / kukonza / kumanga ndi ... "Ndi chiyani chinanso chofooka chazofunikira?
Inde, kulengedwa kwa banja. Kumbukirani za cholinga choyambirira cha mkazi? Chabwino, mkaziyo ndi wosunga nyumba yabwino. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa amayi omwe amalankhula za ubale waulere ndi mabanja apachibale, ambiri a iwo amalota za banja, la mwamuna wachikondi ndi ana. Pankhani ya banja ndi ana, zotsatirazi ndizo thanzi la ana, achibale komanso achibale. Ndiponsotu, palibe chisoni choposa matenda kapena imfa ya mbadwa. N'zosadabwitsa kuti iwo amati: "Kungakhale thanzi, china chilichonse chingagulidwe."
Kodi mkazi amafunanji kuchokera kwa munthu kupatula chikondi, ngati ali ndi banja losangalala, mwamuna wachikondi ndi ana wathanzi? Inde, palibe mkazi mmodzi yemwe angadzipereke yekha payiyiyi. Chikhumbo chotsatira ndicho chitukuko. Akazi amafuna chuma! Choonadi mwa chikhumbo chimenechi, aliyense wa iwo amawapatsa zosowa zawo. Mmodzi adzafunikira nyumba ya chicchi ndi maso a nyanja, galimoto yamtengo wapatali m'galimoto, golidi ndi diamondi, ina idzakhala yokwanira ntchito yomwe mumaikonda ndi yosangalatsa, nyumba yochepetsetsa, chitonthozo, zovala zofunikira mu chipinda ndi zipangizo ku khitchini. Zosowa zosiyana ndi zikhumbo zingathe kuphatikizidwa ndi chizolowezi chodziwika - popanda kanthu ndikudzikana nokha. Palibe, ngakhale mkazi wopambana kwambiri sasiya chuma kuchokera kwa munthu wokondedwa, ngakhale ngati sakuvomereza izo mokweza.
Chotsatira chotsatira kuti mkazi aliyense amabisala mwa iyeyekha ndi kuzindikira kwa amuna omwe ali okongola. Ndipo nchiyani cholakwika ndi icho? Chikondwererocho chinayamikiridwa kale ndipo chidzayamikiridwa mtsogolo. Anthu amasiku ano amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala wokongola kuposa kale. Pa ngodya iliyonse panali salons zofukizira tsitsi, salons okongola ndi makanki opaleshoni ya pulasitiki. Ngati munthu sangadzipangitse yekha kukongola tsitsi, kukonzekera kukonza, kuchotsa makwinya ndi mafuta ochulukirapo, ndiye amulepheretsa kuti ena asachite.
Zikuwoneka, ndi zikhumbo zina ziti zomwe mkazi, mayi ndi amayi okongola angakhale nawo? Kotero palibe. Pali zatsopano zomwe zimafuna kutenga nawo mbali. Mayi wamakono akufuna kudzidzimva ndi kudzilamulira. Kotero inu mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi ntchito yokondweretsa ndi yokondedwa ndi kuzindikira pa izo. Choncho, pali ntchito imodzi yokha kwa munthu wachikondi - kuthandiza mayi wamkazi wa mtima wake kudzizindikira yekha, kukwaniritsa zolinga zake komanso kukhala ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo.
Musakhale osiyana ndi anthu a m'nthaŵi ndi chilakolako chozoloŵera: kulandira maluwa ndi mphatso, kumva mikwatulo ndi makondomu ku adiresi yawo, kukhala ofooka pamodzi ndi mnzanu wamphamvu, wachikondi ndi wachikondi. Ziribe kanthu momwe akazi omwe ali odziimira okha ndi odziimira okha, amakondwera kumva chisamaliro cha amuna achikondi.
Inde, amayi akhoza kukhala ndi zikhumbo milioni, koma chofunikira kwambiri mwa iwo ndi munthu wachikondi, ndipo ena onse omwe amadzilenga mwachinsinsi komanso osadziwika (ngakhale atachita ndi manja a amuna) ...