Asayansi anayesa kuyesa ndikuwerengera kangati mwamuna ndi mkazi wokondana amaganizira wina ndi mzake masana. Malinga ndi zochitika za phunzirolo, okondedwa adayenera kukonza chiwerengero cha wokondedwa wawo. Zotsatirazo zinali zodziwika bwino. Akazi amaganiza za chinthu cha chikondi chawo kuyambira nthawi 20 mpaka 60, ndipo amuna - nthawi 4-5 okha. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amafotokoza kusiyana kwakukulu kumeneku chifukwa chakuti amuna amaika maganizo pazochitika zomwe zikuchitika panopo ndipo samapatsidwa ntchito zingapo panthawi yomweyo, ngakhale zimakhala zokondweretsa mtima. Ndi amayi, zonse ndi zosiyana. Amatha kuthana ndi zinthu zambiri pakudutsa, ndipo amatsindiratu mndandanda wa malingaliro kapena kukumbukira. Mwachibadwa, sikutheka kuti munthu aganizire za iye mwini. Koma nthawi zonse mungagwiritse ntchito maganizo, mphamvu komanso zamatsenga zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthetsa malingaliro, choncho mumtima mwa munthu wokondedwa. Zimangosankha zokhazokha zokhazokha.
Momwe mungapangire munthu kuganizira za iye mwini: uphungu wa akatswiri a maganizo
Akatswiri pa psychology amalangiza kuti asokoneze chidziwitso cha munthu, atapanga mwa iye mtundu wina wodalira pa iye mwini ndi kukhalapo kwake m'maganizo ake:- Katundu ndi mbewa. Amuna amatsutsa zozizwitsa ndi zovuta. Ngati iwo atembenuka mopanda nzeru, izi zimatembenuza munthu, zimadzutsa chidwi chake. Kwa phwando ili, ndithudi, mukusowa munthu wachidwi kale. Kukondana, kulankhulana kosangalatsa ndi masiku angapo - izi zikwanira kuyamba kusewera naye "paka ndi mbewa". Pambuyo pa kukambirana kwachikondi, kumatuluka mu moyo wa munthu kwa masiku angapo. Chibadwa cha hunta chidzuka mwa iye, ndipo sangathe kuganizira za iwe. Koma nkofunika kuti tisapitirize kudandaula, ngati munthu sangachiyese ngati "dynamo".
- Msonkhano. Mu psychology, kulengedwa kwa mabungwe okondweretsa ogwirizanitsa ndi kukumbukira amatchedwa anchoring. Mukhoza "kumangiriza" mwamuna wanu mwa kudzigwirizanitsa ndi kukumbukira ndi zinthu zina zosangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo: filimu, kanema, kukupsompsona pamzere womaliza wa cinema. Nthawi iliyonse pamene munthu adzawona anthu omwe ali ndi mafilimuwa m'mafilimu kapena kumvetsera nyimbo, adzakumbukira mwachangu kukupsompsona kumeneku. Kusuta, nayenso, ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yolepheretsa kukumbukira. Musanayambe kukumana ndi mwamuna, gwiritsani ntchito madontho awiri a mafuta opitilira, okondweretsa komanso otchuka pa dzanja lanu. Mulole munthuyo azizoloŵera fungo lako. Komanso, kulikonse komwe amamva, fungolo likanakumbukila kuti ali ndi inu.
- Nambala ya mawu. Sankhani mawu osazolowereka (osagwirizana kwambiri ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku) ndi kuwaitana, mwachitsanzo, kugonana ndi mwamuna wanu. Pa nthawi yogonana kapena mutatha kugonana, nenani: "Ichi ndi chauzimu!". Bweretsani mawu nthawi zonse ndi munthu wozoloŵera kwa iye. Gwiritsani ntchito "code" pamene mukufuna kutchula wokondedwa wanu mwachikumbutso chosangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo, lembani uthenga wokhudzana ndi zomwe mkate wodetsedwa wa Mulungu umadya pamasana. Mawu awa adzalandira inu nthawi zonse m'malingaliro a munthu ndipo, pokhala atakumana naye m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, adzakumbukira mosazindikira ndi zomwe liwu likutanthawuza kwa banja lanu.
Momwe mungapangire munthu kuganiza za iye mwini: malangizo esoteric
Chidziwitso cha Esoteric chimathandiza kuthetsa mzere pakati pa chithunzi ndi chenicheni. Gwiritsani ntchito njira zothandiza pa izi:- Esoteric "hypnosis". Mungathe kudzaza malingaliro a munthu ndi malingaliro anu:
- Onetsetsani kuti wagona (pafupi) kapena akugona (ngati patali).
- Ugone pansi ndi kumasuka (ukhoza kusinkhasinkha musanayambe kuthetsa nkhawa zanu zamasana, maganizo ndi chisokonezo cha maganizo).
- Lembani malingaliro okhudza munthu wanu: fano lake, fungo, mawonekedwe, kulankhula, kusuntha, ndi zina zotero.
- Pamene chithunzichi chikuwoneka bwino, chikumbumtima chimasunthira kwa munthuyo ndikulowa mphamvu ya thupi lake, ubongo, chidziwitso.
- Mutumizeni malangizo okhudza maganizo ndi zochita zomwe mukufuna kuti apeze.
- Tulutseni mu chikumbumtima chake chithunzi chowoneka bwino, "phunzitsani" kuti aganizire ndikukumva iwe.
- Chikhulupiriro chokhazikika. Dziwani m'mutu mwanu kuti mwina muli ndi mwamuna wanu banja loyenera. Lolani nokha kuti muthamangire mwadongosolo mmitambo. Taganizirani, ndipo koposa zonse, muzimva kuti mumaganizira za momwe mumagwirira ntchito limodzi, mwachitsanzo, kukonzekera kudya (kumva kununkhira kwa chakudya, kulawa chakudya choyenera, mawu ndi zochita zomwe mumanena / kuchita pamodzi); kupanga chikondi, kulandira alendo, ndi zina. Khalani moyo pafupifupi, koma mosamala. Pochita, tenga hafu ya ola pa tsiku. Chotsatira inu mudzadabwa!
Momwe mungapangire munthu kuganiza za iye mwini: uphungu wa amatsenga
Azimayi onse ... mfiti. Ndi tchimo kuti tisagwiritse ntchito mwayi wa mphatso ya chilengedwe kuti mutenge malingaliro a mtima wa munthu:- Yankhulani chakudya. Pamene mukukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, funsani chakudya chomwe munthu amakonda kwambiri mukachiphika. Pa mwambo uwu, muyenera kusunga malamulo angapo: kuyendetsa bwino, kusonkhanitsa mthunzi wa tsitsi, kuvala zovala zoyera. Kukonzekera kumaphatikizidwa ndi nyimbo yokhudza chikondi chosangalatsa komanso mawu okondweretsa za mwamuna wanu. Ganizirani moyenera, kumbukirani nthawi yanu yokondwa ndikuphika ndi chikondi. Kudzaza mbale ndi mphamvu ya chikondi, mumalengeza cholinga chanu chokhala osangalala ndi munthu uyu. Ndipo kuti, pamene adadya mbale iyi yamatsenga, akuganizirani, mumunong'oneza mawu akuti: "Bwerani-taganizirani za ine, pita - taganizirani za ine, kugona, ndikulota, khalani maso, ndiwone ndikufulumira."
- "Pepani" ndi maganizo anu. Pa phwando lachikondi, onetsetsani kuti zakumwa zazikulu ndi vinyo wofiira. Imwani pang'ono kuchokera mu galasi yanu, ndipo mutenge pang'ono pang'ono mu galasi la munthu, m'maganizo kapena mukunong'oneza (molingana ndi momwe zilili): "Imwani, imwani, ndipo mundikumbukire." Khala wotsimikiza, mwamuna, ngakhale akufuna, sangathe kuchotsa malingaliro pa iwe. Ndipo maganizo amapanga zochita.
- Dyetsani mkate wouma. Kuphika pa chophika chirichonse cha mkate pa chofufumitsa cha yisiti. Mutumizeni iye kumalo otentha kuti awotche. Pamene misa imayamba kuphulika ndi kuwuka, imatulutsa tiyi ya madzi ndi kumwa, imati: "Pambuyo pa mtima wanga, mtanda umagwa pansi, ndipo (m'dzina la munthu) lingaliro la ine lidzauka." Kuphika mkate ndi kumuchitira mwamuna.