Koma nthawi zina munthu samadziwa kuti nthawi zina izi ndizochitika masewero olimbitsa bwino. Ndi pamene funso likubwera, yemwe amamuyesa ndani.
Kotero, malingaliro achikazi amagwira ntchito ndi chiyani? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti izi ndi njira yokhazikitsira zaka mazana ambiri ndi akazi. Ndipo, chifukwa cha kusakhala zachirengedwe, koma chikhalidwe chosinthika, kapena m'mawu osavuta, monga chifukwa chokhala ndi amuna mu gulu la anthu. Ndipo chifukwa cha njirayi, mkazi sangakhoze kupulumuka kokha m'dziko loopsya la anthu, koma amasinthasintha kwa ilo, ndipo kawirikawiri amawapambana pa iwo. Motani? Chilichonse chimakhala chosavuta: kusokoneza, kotero kuti poyamba munthuyo azikhala chete ndi zodabwa, ndiye kuti akhudzidwe, ndiyeno ataya kwathunthu nzeru zake. Ndipo chirichonse, iye ali wokonzeka, iwe ukhoza kuchitenga icho ndi manja ako! Ngakhale ayi, sikofunika kuti mutenge, chifukwa posachedwa adzabwera yekha, kubweretsa zonse zofunika, ndi kuchita zonse zofunika. Inde, ndikuthokozani.
Mwa njira, malingaliro a amayi ndi mfundo yeniyeni yotsimikizika ya sayansi. Pa ntchito ya VN Bashkirov, wophunzira wa sayansi ya sayansi ya Institute of Gene Biology ya Russian Academy of Sciences, "Paziwalo za maselo a chidziwitso cha akazi", kukhalapo kwa kusiyana kwa lingaliro "mwachilendo" kumatsimikiziridwa. Malingana ndi iye, lingaliro lachikazi liri ndi mwayi wochuluka. Mwachitsanzo, mu lingaliro lachikazi, chizindikiro choyenera kuti "EYA" ndi mwayi wa 0,5 chingatanthawuze "YES-1", ndiko kuti, chiganizo, chabwino, ndi chiwerengero chofanana chingatanthawuze "YES-2", ndiko kuti, kukana. Zomwezo zikhoza kunenedwa kuti "NO" chizindikiro. Ngati amamasuliridwa m'chinenero chodziwika bwino, zikutanthauza kuti ngati mkazi akuti sakufuna kudya mkate, izi zikutanthauza kuti ali ndi njala kuti amve kuti muffin wokoma amasungunuka m'chinenero chake. Koma, atangotha kudya zakudya zatsopano basi. Zosiyana zosiyana zingakhale zingapo.
"Mkazi wamalingaliro," wokoma, wosadziwa, nthawi zina wopusa amabisala kuwerengeka kovuta. Ndipotu, mkazi akhoza kuthekera kuti athetse vutoli kuti akhale otsimikiza pa 200 peresenti mu zotsatira zabwino. Chabwino, monga akunena, aliyense ali wodzaza ndi wosangalala. Kudzidalira kwa munthuyo sikunakhudzidwe, koma mosiyana, kunakula kwakukulu, chifukwa iye ndi gome, superman. Ndipo mkazi wake ndi wopusa chabe komanso womasulira, wamwino, wowerengera, etc., (mndandanda umakhala wotseguka). Ndichidziwitso chilichonse chiri bwino, chimakhutitsidwa. Ndipo amuna ndi akazi onse.
Kawirikawiri, mkazi yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lachimuna (osasokonezeka ndi maonekedwe), kuganiza mozama ngati munthu, kupanga zoganiza zake, kutenga mphamvu yake yolankhulana, kumangoyenera kuchita khama, poyerekezera ndi munthu wotere, kuti akwaniritse zomwe akufuna. Kodi tinganene chiyani za mkazi yemwe ali ndi chitsanzo cha khalidwe lachikazi? Ukazi, mwachibadwa, ndi chinthu chothandiza. Koma mkaziyo sasowa kutenga ogona pamapewa ake pamene pafupi ndi iye ali wamphamvu kwambiri m'zinthu zonse, choncho ali olimba mtima, ngakhale ndi minofu yopupa. Ndipo nthawi zonse mungadzifunse mosadziwika dzina la minofu iyi? O, "triceps"! Zosangalatsa? Ndiponso ngati simukumufunsa, kodi ndi kovuta kwa iye? Musaiwale mapeto kuti muthokoze ndikuyamikila zingapo pagawo.