Funso limeneli limadetsa amayi ambiri. Iwo sangakhoze kumvetsa zomwe iwo achita molakwitsa, kuti mwamuna wake amamupusitsa. Amakondera mkazi wina. Kodi zifukwa izi ndi ziti?
Chifukwa chachiwiri ndi chiyanjano cha mwamuna kwa mkazi mmodzi, ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi wina. Amakonda mkazi wake kapena bwenzi lake, koma samakana "kuyesa" wina.
Chifukwa chachitatu ndi kusowa kwa moyo wapamtima ndi mkazi wake kapena chibwenzi kapena chiwerewere choipa. Iye sangakhoze kudzikweza yekha, kotero iye amasankha kumupeza iye kumbali ndi mkazi wina.
Chifukwa chomaliza cha kusakhulupirika ndi kugwirizana mwachisawawa, pa nthawi. Izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri mutakhala mowa moledzeretsa ndi kudziletsa nokha pa phwandolo. Kawirikawiri amuna oterowo amadziimba mlandu pa zomwe anagonana nazo. Iye amadziyesa wolungama chifukwa chakuti adadziponya yekha kapena amamuyamwa ndipo sakanatha kukana kapena alibe mphamvu.