Chowonadi ndi chakuti mabanja ambiri amakhalabe achangu pa nthawi yogonana. Ofufuzawo anati amayi ambiri adachepetsa chilakolako chogonana panthawi yoyamba itatu (pamene mzimayi akudwala chifukwa cha toxicosis), mu miyezi itatu yotsatira, zilakolako (pakali pano akazi amamva bwino kwambiri) komanso kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana pamapeto pake Popeza kusuntha kwa amayi sabata iliyonse kuli kovuta.
Mu kafukufuku amene anachitidwa pakati pa akazi 300 chifukwa cha chidwi chocheperapo kugonana kwavumbulutsidwa ndi kuvulaza thupi. Amayi ambiri amadandaula chifukwa cha kugonana, zomwe zimawonjezeka pamene mawuwo akuwonjezeka.
Abambo am'tsogolo amamva kusasokonezeka maganizo mofanana ndi akazi awo. Kuphunzira kwa anthu okwatirana okwatirana 60 kunawonetsa kuti abambo amakhalanso opanda chitonthozo chochepa kusiyana ndi akazi awo. Akazi amadzimva okhazikika, kudzigonjera kwawo ndikwakukulu kwambiri kuposa kwa azimayi awo.
Kawirikawiri abambo ndi abambo samakayikira momwe mwamuna wokhala ndi mimba yaikulu amatha kuyang'ana pamaso pa mwamuna wake. Amayi ambiri ali ndi nkhawa pa izi, ndipo zochitika izi ndi zopanda pake.
Amuna ambiri amaonabe kuti kukhala ndi mimba kumabweretsa chiopsezo pa kugonana kwawo ndi mkazi wawo. Zifukwa zake ndizosiyana: kutayika kwa amayi okongola, kuopa kuti adzavulaza mwanayo, kumverera kuti kugonana ndi khalidwe loyipa pa nthawi ya mimba, ndi zina zotero.
Makhalidwe amachokera: amuna amasuka! Mimba, ndithudi, idzabweretsa kusintha pang'ono kwa moyo wanu wa kugonana, koma aliyense akudutsamo.
Mabanja ambiri ali ndi nkhawa pa njira yapadera yokhudzana ndi kugonana kumapeto kwa trimester yotsiriza ya mimba, chifukwa izi zikhoza kuthamanga msanga.
Kawirikawiri izi sizimayambitsa mavuto. Ngati tsiku la kubadwa latsala pang'ono kufika, madokotala ndi odwala tizilombo toyambitsa matenda amatipangitsa kugonana, ngati njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera kubereka. Koma ngati pakhala pali zochitika za kubadwa msanga kwa amayi, ndiye madokotala akhoza kulangiza kudziletsa kugonana mwezi watha wa mimba, ngakhale kuti kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti kugonana nthawiyi si chifukwa cha kubadwa msanga.
Madokotala amalangiza kuti asiye udindo wamba - mwamuna kuchokera pamwamba - kwa milungu ingapo asanabadwe. Izi sizidzakuyenderani bwino, kupatula, ndicho chifukwa chophwanya amniotic nembanemba ndikugwirizana ndi matendawa, kubadwa msanga.
Choncho chimodzimodzi, kodi kugonana kumakhala koopsa bwanji panthawi yoyembekezera?
Pali gulu lotere la amayi kuti madokotala alangizidwe mofanana kuti asamangokhalira kukakamizika pa nthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba. Gawoli limaphatikizapo amayi amene awona zolakwika monga m'mimba mwa m'mimba ndi magazi a m'mimba, amayi omwe ali pangozi ya kubadwa msinkhu kapena kusokonekera kwa amayi, komanso nthawi zonse pamene mpumulo wogona umayenera mu masabata makumi awiri oyambirira.
Madokotala amasiyanitsa mitundu iwiri ya kugonana, zomwe zimayenera kupezeka ndi amayi apakati. Yoyamba ndi cunnilingus. Pogwiritsa ntchito chithandizochi, mukhoza kuyendetsa mpweya m'mimba ya mkazi ndikupangitsani kukwatira, komwe kungakhudze mayi ndi mwana.
Chiwiri chachiwiri - palibe vuto kuti mayi wapakati asagone ndi mwamuna yemwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Choncho, mwana wakhanda angatenge kachilombo koopsa kwa iye ngati kachilombo kamakhala mukazi, mayi E. mu ngalande yobadwa.