Ndipo chirichonse, monga lamulo, chimayamba ndi kukambirana mwamtendere, komwe kumangokhala mwadzidzidzi kukangana kwa banja. Koma ngati tipitiriza kubwezeretsa zonse zomwe zimachitika mafelemu angapo, tingathe kuona bwinobwino zofunikira zomwe zimafunikira kuti tithe kukhumudwa. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mfundo zonse zolakwika, zokhudzana ndi zomwe, amai amatha kuyambitsa maganizo olakwika mwa amuna. Kotero, pambuyo pa zonse, nchiani chomwe chingapangitse kukwiya mwa mwamuna? Tiyeni tiyese pamodzi kuti tiganizire zitsanzo zomwe zimachitika kwambiri za amayi zomwe zimanyamula zinthu zowonongeka kwa ubongo wa munthu.
Mavesi omwe ali oopsa kwa chidziwitso cha amuna ndipo amachititsa kukwiya amuna.
Sizodabwitsa, koma mawu oterewa amai amagwiritsira ntchito nthawi zambiri ndipo samamvetsera. Mawu awa, monga lilime lopota, amatha kuyambitsa mkhalidwe woipa mwa amuna. Mwakulankhula wamba, mawuwa amathandiza kugwirizanitsa kulankhula, koma kwenikweni amabisa mkwiyo waukulu kwa wokondedwa. Choyamba, izi ndizo chifukwa chakuti psyche yamwamuna ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi yaikazi, ndipo amuna amadziwa zonse zoyandikana kwambiri kuposa zomwe timachita. Kuonjezera apo, kugonana kolimba sikuponyera mawu ake mumphepo ndipo sakonda pamene ena amachita. Chabwino, tiyeni potsiriza tipeze kuti izi ndi zotani-zowopsya.
"Kodi ndakufunsani? " Mawuwa ndi amodzi mwa otchuka komanso otchuka pakati pa mawu a amayi. Amafuna kuzindikira komanso kukhala ndi maganizo abwino. Azimayi nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito pamene chilakolako chawo n'chosiyana kwambiri ndi zochita za amuna. Ndi mawu awa, mumakhala ndi nkhawa yaikulu pa wokondedwa wanu, zomwe zimamupangitsa kudzimva kuti ndi wopondereza komanso amanyazidwe.
"Kodi mukuyankhula zachabechabe zotani?" " Mawu awa amai amagwiritsa ntchito ngati sakonda zomwe betrothed akunena. Amanena kuti, monga lamulo, amakhala omasuka komanso osasamala. Kwa mwamuna wotero mawuwa amachititsa kumva kumenyedwa pamaso. Kumbali imodzi, izo mu msinkhu wopanda kuzindikira zimakupangitsani kukayikira malingaliro amalingaliro a okhulupirika, ndipo pamzake, "pazu" amachotsa malingaliro ake openga. Mwa njira, zifaniziro zonse za mawuwa zimagwiritsa ntchito kugonana mwamphamvu mofanana.
"Nthawi zonse mumatero! " Mwa mawu awa, akazi, monga lamulo, fotokozani zomwe zinachitika. Nthawi zambiri zimatchulidwa ndi chidzudzu chonse mu liwu ndi chofunikira chodzudzulidwa. Mwamuna uyu akukwiyira mkwiyo, chifukwa ndi chithandizo chake, wokondedwa amafuna kupanga zonse zomwe akuchita ndi kuyesayesa. Mwa njira, zochitika zoterezi sizimapangitsa munthu kugonana kwambiri pofuna kukonza ndi kukonzanso. Ndipo kutsimikizira pambuyo pake chinachake chimene mwamuna alibe kale chikhumbo.
"Kodi mungachite izi?" "Amagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitikazi pamene mwamuna akukumana ndi ntchito yosatheka, ndipo mkazi amakayikira kuti adzathetsa. Kwa wokondedwa mawu awa amachititsa kukwiyitsa, choyamba, chifukwa chakuti zimakayikira zokhoza zake zonse ndi luso lake. Komanso, chirichonse ndi chizindikiro cha kusalemekeza. Choncho, munthu amawoneka ngati machesi, ndipo amafuna kutsimikizira mosiyana ndi mawu mu mawonekedwe amanjenje. Mwa njira, chifukwa cha mitsempha munthu sangathe kulandira mimba mwa iye, ndipo izi zidzaphatikizapo kusokonezeka kwatsopano.
Zochita za mkazi yemwe angathe kuchititsa mkwiyo wamwamuna.
Zochita izi zikuphatikizapo zochita zonse zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana kolimba. Kawirikawiri zochita izi za mkazi zimakhala ndi zolinga zabwino komanso zosavuta, koma, ngakhale zili choncho, anthu amawazindikira kuti ali ndi chidani.
Ndidzasankha zonse ndekha . Choncho amayi amabwera kudzaona ngati pakufunika kuthetsa vuto linalake. Izi zimapangitsa anthu kukhala okwiya kwambiri. "Chifukwa chake akunena, kunali kosatheka kundifunsa za izi! ", - akutembenukira mutu wa wokondedwa. Amakhulupirira kuti mkazi amutsogolera mwa mwamuna yemwe sangathe kumuthandiza. Zonsezi zimabweretsa "zokhumudwitsa" zosasangalatsa komanso zonyansa.
Icho chiri mu gulu lachimuna. Amayi ambiri ali ndi ufulu woganiza kuti ngati angathe kukambirana pa mutu uliwonse pa gulu la amuna, izi zimapangitsa kuti azikhala nawo limodzi. Amuna amakonda kuwona izi ngati mbali yolakwika. Zikuwoneka kuti mkaziyo akufuna "kuchotsa" izo, ndipo, pochita zimenezo, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Kuonjezera apo, amuna sangayambe kukambirana ndi amayi awo nkhani zokhudzana ndi zodzoladzola ndi PMS, motero, siziyenera kukhala "zokambirana za amuna okhaokha".
Chinsinsi kwa abwenzi onse. Azimayi amakhala m'maganizo, omwe amawavuta kwambiri kuti azikhala okha. Ndichifukwa chake amakambirana nthawi zonse ndi abwenzi awo, kuphatikizapo khalidwe la wokondedwa wawo. Kwa munthu, izi, zimawonetsanso kuti ndizochititsa manyazi. Iye sakonda zomwe anthu akunena za iye, nthabwala ndi kukambirana zomwe iye ali pabedi. Choncho, chidziwitso chilichonse chokhudza mwamuna yemwe amabwera kwa abwenzi ake, amadziwika ndi iwo ngati kusakhulupirika.
Malangizo pamaso pa aliyense. Amayi ambiri, omwe alibe lingaliro lobwerera kumbuyo, akhoza kupereka malangizo kwa chibwenzi chawo pamaso pa ena, komanso ngakhale mabwenzi ochepa. Mwamuna pa nthawi ino akumva ngati kuseka. Ndipotu, mwamuna weniweni nthawi zonse amadziwa zomwe akuchita. Ndipo uphungu wotere kwa iye ndizowonjezera kutsutsa kumene kungapangitse kukwiya kwakukulu.
Zifukwa zisanu ndi chimodzi zokhumudwitsa kwambiri.
1. Pamene mumamutsatira nthawi zonse ndikumukhulupirira nokha, ngakhale kuti mumagula zinthu zapakhomo.
2. Konzani malo ogona opanda pake opanda pake.
3. Pitirizani kupita kunyumba kumutu.
4. Nthawi yayitali kwambiri yopita nayo.
5. Musanyalanyaze malangizo ake.
6. Khalani pa foni kwa masiku, mukuyankhulana ndi abwenzi anu.
Pomalizira, ndikufuna kunena kuti kuti mumvetsere wokondedwa wanu, m'pofunikira kuyang'ana payekha ndi maso ake. Pomwepo mudzaphunzira kuti musamapweteke mwamuna ndi kupeĊµa mikangano ya m'banja.