Chithunzi cha mkazi wabwino

Mitima ya anthu imapanga akazi okonzeka bwino, okongola, ozindikira, olimbika, okonda zachiwerewere, omwe amadziwa kukhala moyo wa kampani, ndi kubereka kwaboma. Koma nthawi zambiri amai amawonetsedwa pa TV, magazini, ndi zina. Amuna amalota iwo, koma m'moyo amatha kuona wokongola, wokhulupirika, wachifundo, wachifundo, wachikondi, wosaphunzira, wokhoza chifundo, wodwala, wachikazi, wokhoza mphindi yoyenera kupereka malangizo, kulimbikitsa munthuyo ku kukula kwa ntchito, kuthandizira ndi kuthandiza.

Mwinamwake, munthu aliyense akhoza kudzipangira yekha fano la mkazi wokongola, koma pafupifupi anthu onse amalemekezedwa ndi mkazi yemwe amawoneka kuti sangasinthe, ali ndi luso, wanzeru.

Chofunika koposa, chifaniziro cha mkazi wabwino akhoza kutenga mkazi wachikondi yekha. Popeza ngati mkazi sakonda mwamuna, iye alibe chidwi ndi moyo, chifukwa chake zonse zimawoneka mthunzi ndipo zonse zomwe zimachokera ku izi zimangowonjezereka. Ndipo mkazi amene amakonda, amawala maso, chikondi chimamupangitsa kukhala wokongola, wachikondi, chikondi chimamupatsa mkazi chidaliro ndi mphamvu.

Kuphatikiza pa izi, zofunikira izi zikuperekedwa kwa fanizo la mkazi wabwino: chuma, kutha kuphika bwino, kusamba, kulenga chisokonezo, kusamalira ana komanso nthawi imodzi osayiwala za mkazi.

Mkazi wabwino ayenera kusangalala kuphika chakudya chokoma kuti akondweretse mwamuna wake. Kuti mufanane ndi chithunzi cha mkazi woyenera wa mwamuna wanu, mukusowa, kupatula banja, kudzikonda nokha. Mayi ayenera kusunga, nthawi zonse azipeza nthawi yoti azisamalira yekha. Musapite kwa amuna omwe amavala tsitsi, mu chigoba, chovala chovala cha thonje ndipo musamabvala nsalu, zomwe siziwatsogolera.

Mwamtheradi anthu onse amalakalaka kuti mkazi wawo amanyengerera, zamaganizo, zachiwerewere, motero zimatha kuchotsa moyo wamba. Mayi ayenera kukhala ndi chidaliro mwa iyemwini, ayenera kudziona kuti ndi wokongola, ndiyeno adzawoneka wokongola pamaso pa anthu.

Mwamuna aliyense ali ndi zoyenera zake za mkazi, ena ali ndi chithunzi chofewa, chosakhwima, mosamala, osakhala ndi zizoloƔezi zoipa, kulawa bwino. Kwa amuna ena, mkazi wabwino amakhala bwinja yemwe samamuletsa mu ufulu, wokongola nthawi zonse, wokonda, wodziimira yekha, wochenjera. Komanso, sikutanthauza munthu wodzipatulira, wokhulupirika, koma amafuna chikondi, maulendo, maluwa, mphatso, kupita ku malo odyera, malo owonetsera masewero, ndi zina. Monga akunena: kwa aliyense!

Koma apitirize kufotokozera ndi kufotokoza zomwe zimachitika pakati pa amai abwino m'maso mwa amuna. Iye ndi mkazi wokongola, mayi wabwino, mkazi wamalonda, mbuye wabwino, mbuye wamkulu, mkazi wokhulupirika.

Mkazi aliyense akhoza kupanga makhalidwe awa. Mkazi aliyense amatanthauza aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za chuma, maphunziro kapena kulera. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kuyamba mwakuya ndi tsiku lililonse kuti mukondwerere njira zowonjezera, ndikukambirana mwachidule mlungu uliwonse, kuti muganizire fano lanu pamalopo. Azimayi onse amatha kuchita izi ... Chitani ndipo mudzapambana!