Chinthu choopsa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi ndi kusungulumwa. Kodi mungakhale bwanji mutatha imfa? Kodi ndingatani kuti ndibwererenso chidwi ndi moyo? Ndingathetse bwanji ululu wanga? Kapena kodi mukuganiza kuti chinthu choipitsitsa kwambiri padziko lapansi ndi kusungulumwa sikungatheke? Ayi, n'zotheka kulimbana ndi izi ndipo ndikofunikira, koma momwe mungachitire, mudzaphunzira kuchokera ku nkhani yathu.
Mayi amene amapeza tanthauzo la moyo mwa mwamuna wake ndi banja lake ali pachiopsezo. Imfa ya munthu wokondedwa kwa iye ndi nkhonya yovuta, yomwe sungakhoze kunyamulidwa ndi aliyense. Mmodzi wa moyo adakali "wolemala", osapeza chitonthozo cha chisoni chake ... Mwachidziwitso wina - pantchito, ndikudziyika yekha, akulakalaka dongosolo lachiŵiri ... Ndipo owerengeka adzapitiriza kukhala ndi moyo wamphumphu, kusiya chisoni m'mbuyomo. Nchifukwa chiyani ife amai timataya gawo la ife eni ndi kutayika kwa wokondedwa? Kodi tingapeze bwanji mphamvu ndikupitiriza kukhala ndi moyo? Ndipo ndi chiyani?
Kodi n'zotheka kudzikonzekera mwamakhalidwe kuti mufe? Inde, koma anthu ochepa amapeza zovuta kuziganizira. Zili zomveka - palibe zosangalatsa m'malingaliro oterowo, koma kuzindikira kosavomerezeka kwake kungathandize m'tsogolomu. Ife tikuyimira imfa ngati mdani - wamphamvu ndi wachisoni. Adani omwe muyenera kukhala kutali. Maganizo awa amatilepheretsa kuvomereza zosatheka. Ndi bwino kuganizira za: mwina akuchotsa katundu wolemetsa?
Azimayi amene anadwala kwambiri ayenera kuganizira malangizo awa.
Aliyense ali ndi makolo, abale ndi alongo, agogo, abambo, mabwenzi - anthu apamtima. Pitirizani kudandaula, musaiwale kuti akusowa inu. Monga kale, amafunikira malangizo anu okoma, chidwi chanu, nkhawa zanu. Kodi mukufuna kukhala chitsanzo choipa kwa ana anu kapena kuwonjezera makwinya kwa nkhope za makolo anu? Muyenera kukhala olimba, kuti ululu wa anthu pafupi ndi inu usasakanike ndi ululu wanu. Dziwani - nthawizonse mumakhala mukudikira!
Musadzimvere chisoni. Ganizirani za iwo omwe ali oipa kwambiri - ndi kuwachitira chifundo. Pitani kwa ana kumalo osungirako ana amasiye, thandizani omwe akukumana ndi zovuta pamoyo wawo. Kotero, osati kwa kanthawi kochepa mungaiwale zachisoni chanu, komanso chitani zabwino komanso zothandiza. Nkhope zosangalatsa za ana kapena kuyamikira kwa anthu omwe amafunikira thandizo kukupatsani mpata woti mukhale osowa m'moyo uno. Ili ndi mtundu wa "ulusi", umene muyenera kuugwiritsa ntchito kudziko ...
Chitani zomwe mukufuna panopa. Mukufuna kulira - kulira. Misozi ndi njira yachibadwa yosonyezera malingaliro. Ngati simukufuna kukonza kapena maonekedwe anu - musamadzikakamize. Ndipo ngati pali chikhumbo chakuchezera malo omwe anali ofunika mu ubale wanu - pitani. Pambuyo pake, kukumbukira ndi mnzathu m'moyo ...
Ganizirani za makolo amene anataya mwana wawo. Ziri zovuta kwa iwo kuposa inu. Ndipo amamvetsa chisoni chanu ngati palibe wina. Musalole kuti amveke atasiyidwa komanso amasiye ...
Yesetsani kuthera nthawi yambiri ndi anthu. Mwinamwake simukugona usiku, simukusowa kuwonjezera masiku osungulumwa kwa iwo. Makolo ndi abwenzi adzawathandiza - kuwamvera. Perekani achibale anu mwayi wokhala pafupi ndikuthandizani.
Ganizirani za zolaula. Ngati uli wanu, chitani, perekani nthawi yamalonda omwe mumawakonda. Ngati simukutero, lizikonzekera bwino. Ndizofunika, kuti ndi ntchito yamtendere ndi yolimbikitsana, monga nsalu zokongoletsera kapena kugunda. Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka momwe mukufunira. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti zimakupatsani chisangalalo ndipo zimakulolani kuti musokoneze nokha.
M'mizinda ikuluikulu, pali malo omwe anthu akuvutika kwambiri. Apeze iwo. Kumeneko mudzathandizidwa mopanda zopweteka monga momwe mungathere popita kumayeso osiyanasiyana. Pamalo omwewo, mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wofotokozera ululu wambirimbiri ndi mawu popanda kuwopa kusamvetsetsana.
Ndikutayika kwa wokondedwa, khalidwe limapangidwa lomwe silingathe kukhazikika pazinthu zabwino - mumakhala wamphamvu. Izi zidzakuthandizani m'tsogolomu kuti mukhale ndi nthawi zovuta. Kumbukirani - nthawi imachiza! Zaka zingapo pambuyo pake ululu umatha, mabalawo amawoneka. Koma nkofunika kumvetsetsa kuti zotsatira zake siziyenera kuyembekezera. Dzipatseni nthawi kuti musinthe zinthu zatsopano, kudziko lanu latsopano.