Zinachitika kuti chimwemwe chakugodometsani inu kawiri. Ndipo poyamba zinali zowopsya pang'ono, ngati mungathe kuzichita, pali zosangalatsa zambiri. Chikondi, nayenso. Chifukwa chake, mumakhala osowa usiku komanso kutopa - zimapindula kwambiri poyankhulana ndi ana. Mmodzi adzagwedeza tsaya lake, winayo adzakamba mofatsa kuti: "Amayi ndi anga." Ndipo mwakonzeka kutembenuzira mapiri. Ngakhale nthawi zina pali chikhumbo chobisala kwa ana awo omwe ali kutali. Inde, mumavomereza kusokoneza zotsatira za pogrom, koma ndiye. Tsopano inu mukufuna kuti mupume pang'ono ndi kupuma pang'ono, koma izo sizikugwira ntchito. Azondi ayamba kumenya nkhondo, ndipo mumangoyenera kuchitapo kanthu. "Zidzatha liti?" - mukudandaula m'mitima mwanu. Mukugawanitsa, kusudzulana zipinda, kuvomereza. Ndipo mumapuma ndi mpumulo. Iyi ndiyo misonkhanowu. Komabe, chidzachitike ndi chiyani? Ana amakula. Mikangano imakhala yovuta kwambiri, ndipo ndi zonsezi muyenera kupirira. Kenaka a carapouses amagawanitsa chikondi cha mayi ake, amamenyera chidole, ndiye amapeza yemwe angapeze chidutswa chachikulu cha chitumbuwacho. Ndiyo nthawi yolongosolera malamulo a mtendere mwamtendere m'banja.
Ndi wamkulu ndani?
Nthawi zina zimakuwoneka kuti woyamba kubadwa, yemwe akuthamanga mozungulira, amalankhula momveka bwino ndipo amamvetsa bwino zomwe zingatheke komanso sangathe kuzichita, zakula kale. Chabwino, ine ndiyenera kumachita molingana. Kumbukirani kuti onse awiri ndi ochepa, onse amafunikira caress ndi chikondi.
Kuti mupewe nsanje, pitirizani kugawira aliyense payekha mphindi 20 patsiku. Izi ndi zenizeni. Mwachitsanzo, karapuz yachiwiri ikugona kapena ikukhala ndi bambo ake. N'kofunikanso kukonzekera masewera amodzi ndi ana.
Musataye mtima ngati poyamba zikuwoneka kuti sakufuna kuti asagwire ntchito pamodzi ndipo samvetsa momwe angachitire. Khalani oleza mtima, yesetsani kusangalala ndi njirayi nokha. Ndipo patadutsa masabata 2-3 mudzadabwa, mukuyang'anitsitsa bwino, muthamangitse zinyenyeswazi zanu mwakhama.
Timagawaniza toys
"Perekani, ndinu wamkulu!" - Kodi munanena chinachake chonga icho? Kodi anawo anachita chiyani? Wobadwa woyamba anamva chipongwe, ndipo wamng'onoyo anali wopambana, sichoncho? Kusiyanitsa zinthu za ana ndipo musazipangitse kupereka zidole zawo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Aliyense wa iwo azimva kuchokera kwa inu mawu akuti: "Pamene mbale wako (mlongo) azisewera mokwanira, tidzamupempha kuti akugwiritseni ntchito nthawi." Khalani pansi ndi kumumvera chisoni wopemphayo. Koma panthawi yomweyi, auzeni mbuye wosasamala kuti: "Sindikuimba mlandu kuti iye (iye) anakwiyitsidwa. Muli ndi ufulu wodzisankhira ana anu aang'ono ndi nyama zazing'ono. "
Mu yankho kwa wamng'ono
Zoonadi, ndikufuna kuti mwana wamkulu azisamalire mwanayo pamene palibe kapena akupatseni chithunzithunzi, pacifier, botolo la madzi. Koma monga choncho kwa iye? Ana adakali aang'ono sangasamalire ngakhale ana ang'onoang'ono. Ndipo kudzinenera izi kuchokera kwa iwo ndizosawerengeka.
Musamakakamize woyamba kubadwa kuti asamalire wachinyamata - ndi ntchito yanu yokha. Koma mukhoza kupempha thandizo. Kodi onse anakwaniritsa mwadala? Onetsetsani kuti ndikuthokozani ndi mtima wanga wonse. Komabe, musamachite manyazi komanso musakhumudwe ngati mwana sakufuna kuthandizira. Ndipo, chonde, pamene mukupanga pempho, musanenepo mawu akuti: "Ndinu wamkulu". Mawu awa ndi ololedwa kokha pamene mutamanda wamkulu: "Taonani, ndiwe wamkulu bwanji. Ndiwe wokonzeka kale kuvala nsapato ndi kuyika makatani anu. " Kapena: "Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa chakundibweretsera maofesi a mlongo wanga - munandithandiza kwambiri. Munthu wamkulu kwambiri. "
Popanda kuyerekezera
Pazifukwa zina, akukhulupirira kuti kuyerekezera ana a nyengo ndi chinthu cholimbikitsana kuti akhale abwino (ochenjera, okhoza, omvera, okhudzidwa kwambiri). "Taonani, ndi mtsikana wabwino bwanji. Ndipo inu? .. "Kodi sizitani kuti mupite patsogolo? Ndipotu, mawu ngati amenewa amachititsa ana kumva ululu, amadzipangitsa kudzidalira, amadzipangitsa kukayikira. Mwamsanga muwapatse iwo!
Ana amalimbikitsidwa kukhazikitsa, choyamba, kuvomereza ndi kuyamikira. Ndikofunika kutamanda ndikukondwerera maonekedwe a luso lenileni, zolinga zabwino, khama lenileni, makhalidwe abwino. Kungakhale chilakolako chozindikira chinachake kapena kuphunzira chinachake, kuthekera kusonkhanitsa zinthu (piramidi, puzzles), kuthekera kuzindikira mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya mitundu. Chofunika kwambiri ndi chidwi, kukoma mtima ndi chisangalalo. Buri pogodkov yanu ili ndi maluso apaderadera komanso dziko lolemera kwambiri. Izi ndizofunika kwambiri mwa iwo. Ndichomwe chimapangitsa iwo kukhala apadera.
Yang'anirani ana - ndipo mudzawona ulemu wawo wokhawokha. Itanani zonse zabwino zomwe mumaziwona mwa ana anu. Kotero mumawathandiza kuzindikira zabwino mwa iwo okha ndikudzilemekeza komanso kudalira. Ndipo anthu awiri omwe amadziona kuti ndi ofunikira safuna kuti apeze omwe ali ofunika kwambiri, okondedwa kwambiri, ali ndi luso lapadera. Popanda nthawi yokangana ndi nsanje, adzatha kuphunzitsa zambiri kwa wina ndi mzake. Ndinazindikira kuti wamng'ono kwambiri adalankhula bwino, anayamba molondola kupanga ziganizo? Ndipo akusewera tsopano, popanda kufunafuna kukhalapo kwanu nthawi zonse. Mkuluyo salinso wokwiya pamene mwanayo akuphwanya mwangozi nsanja kuchokera kwa wopanga, ndipo amadikirira moleza mtima mpaka m'bale kapena mlongo atakwera masitepe. Ndipo momwe amamutetezera, amamuteteza! ... Inde, mulibe mavuto apadera omwe angapangitse kukhazikitsa mtendere m'banja. Ndipo umboni wa ichi - ubwenzi weniweni pakati pa ana ali aang'ono.
Konzani nthawi yowonjezera nyengo yanu. Gwiritsani masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe amasangalatsani kusewera pamodzi, osati okha. Cubes, mwachitsanzo, imodzi yokwanira monga zomangamanga, ina - kuphunzira mawu a Chingerezi. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuganizira zofuna za nkhandwe posankha mabuku. Wina amakonda nkhani zamatsenga, wina amakonda kumvetsera nyimbo zovuta kapena nkhani zokhudza zinyama. Werengani nkhani, nthano zachilendo - ndizofunikira pa msinkhu uliwonse. Limbikitsani ana kuti azilankhulana. Aloleni amve nawo zomwe akumva, afotokoze maganizo awo poyera. Ndipo, ndithudi, amakondana ndi inu - makolo awo.