Akatswiri a sayansi ya zamaganizo ndi anthu ogonana nawo akhala ndi makhalidwe osiyanasiyana a amuna, malingana ndi zomwe amakonda komanso kugonana. Amanena kuti mavuto ambiri angapewe ngati mkaziyo akudziŵa bwino lomwe mtundu wake. Zingakhale zopanda phindu kuziphunzira ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe iwo ali, amuna awa - komanso zosowa zawo za kugonana ndi mwayi sizidzakhalanso zodabwitsa kapena zodabwitsa kwa ife.
Don Juan
Mu moyo, iye akuyang'ana mkazi wangwiro. Poyamba, palibe cholakwika ndi izo. Koma zingakhale zoopsa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti ndi mtundu wa munthu amene nthawi zambiri amadzibisa. Mkazi aliyense chifukwa cha iye - ndiyeso chabe yesewero, phunziro la kuyesera. Iye akhoza kukhala wokonda wochenjera ndi woyengeka, koma amangoyang'ana yekha kuti awone ngati mungakhale woyenera. Chinthu chilichonse chaching'ono, chosemphana kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe chake - ndipo chakhumudwa kale, ndipo kufufuza kwatsopano kukupitirirabe. Amadziwa kupatukana, ndipo amachita izi motere: "Inu ndinu chikondi changa chokha! Ine ndinalibe malingaliro otere kwa wina aliyense. Koma tiyenera kumagawana. Vuto mu mtima mwanga lidzatuluka kwa nthawi yaitali. "
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Ndi zopanda pake kuyesa kuchita izi ndi zizolowezi zosiyana zogonana. Iye nthawi zonse amayendetsa kufunafuna chikondi chatsopano - zosowa zake zogonana komanso mwayi wake ndi zopanda malire. Muyenera kukhala odekha komanso achiwerewere. Yesetsani kumvetsa kuti psyche ya munthuyu ikuwonetseratu kuti mukufunikira kupeza masewera ambiri. Koma ngati mwadzidzidzi mwasankha kupanga chipani chanu - zonse zatayika! Mgwirizano wanu uwonongedwa. Ngati mukufunadi kuthandiza munthu wamtundu uwu (ndipo akusowa thandizo) - ndi bwino kufunafuna thandizo kwa akatswiri oganiza bwino.
Casanova
Amuna oterewa samalonjeza chikondi chachikulu komanso choyera kuyambira pachiyambi. Amagogomezera kuti amakhulupirira kuti, mu chiyanjano, amangofuna ufulu komanso kugonana. Akuwoneka wozizira, ngakhale wokonda kwambiri. Ndipotu, chifukwa cha kudzidalira kwake kunja kuli mabodza ambirimbiri osadziwika. Iye, monga Don Juan, amaphunzira akazi, koma samawotcha ndi chikondi. Amangophunzira njira yothandizira chikondi, amapeza zochitika, amakwaniritsa zosowa zake zogonana ndikukonza zolakwa. Iye ali wokonzeka kuyesa kugonana kwa gulu, samvetsa kuti pabedi akhoza kukhala chisokonezo. Azimayi amapenga za iye, podziwa bwino mtundu wa Casanova. Mwachidule, aliyense amaganiza kuti: "Ndikhoza kumugonjetsa." Ndipo ndikulakwitsa kwambiri. Zoona, kusamvana ndi iye sikudzakhala zopweteka kwambiri kusiyana ndi Don Don, popeza sadalonjeza chikondi chachikulu.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Ngati mwamuna wanu Casanova, dziwani zoona zosavuta: amuna oterewa amapita nthawi zonse. Chigololo mu khalidwe lake. Ngati mukufuna kukhala naye, muyenera kuvomereza izi. Kungokhalira kusangalala ndi kusangalala ndi kugonana kwake, chilakolako ndi luso, ndizosangalatsa kupereka. Chitani zozizwitsa zanu zonse zobisika pamodzi ndi kusintha moyo wake kukhala rodeo. Musamulole kuti asokonezeke! Ndipo musatope. Ingoyaka nthawi yonse yomwe mungathe. Ndipo ponena za moto wamtunduwu ndi wokwanira, palibe amene angadziwe.
Mkulu wa mabishopu
Mkazi wake ndi banja lake ndilo lingaliro lokha la moyo wake. Koma akuwopa kwambiri kutayika iwo kotero kuti nthawi zonse amamuletsa. Kugonana kumachokera pazinthu zokha komanso malingaliro ake pazochitikazi. Amazindikira "malo amishonale" okha. Sadzalola kuti kugonana kumalankhula, chifukwa iwe udzakhala phwando lochita nawo. Mwamuna wa mtundu uwu ayenera nthawi zonse kuyendetsa mkhalidwewo. Zosowa zake zogonana ndizochepa kwambiri. Sitikutha kunena motsimikizika kuti iye sali wokwanira mokwanira, koma pamodzi ndi iye moyo wanu wa kugonana udzakhala wodalirika komanso wokhumudwa.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Musataye mtima! Mkati mwa izo muli zobisika kwambiri zowonongeka ndi chilakolako. Ntchito yanu ndi kuwatsogolera kunja. Ndipo mkazi aliyense ali ndi mwayi uliwonse kuti achite izi. Choyamba, muuzeni momwe mumayamirira mphamvu zake, momwe amakusangalatsani, ndi wokondeka kwambiri. Ngati mungathe kumupulumutsa ku chidziwitso cha makhalidwe omwe adalimbikitsidwa mwa iye nthawi yachinyamata, kugonana koteroko ndi "manyazi" - adzatha kudziulula yekha ngati wokondedwa kwambiri komanso mwamuna wabwino. Ndipo maziko amakhalidwe ponena za mtengo wa banja lomwe ali nalo kale.
Mbuye
Iye amadzimva yekha wopambana ndikukuonani iwe "gawo logonjetsedwa". Simukuyenera kuvota. Ngakhale kudandaula pang'ono kumene mungaganize kuti wina akhoza kupanga chirombo kuchokera mwa iye. Mu kufuna kwake mphamvu, iye ali wokonzeka kuzinyadira pa iwe. Ndipo amasankha njira yovuta yolankhulirana. Amakonda malingaliro okhudza kugonana ndi abambo. Amangokhulupirira kuti mkazi amatchulidwa kuti akhale kapolo wa chisangalalo chake. Ndipo nthawi zonse amazitenga mwaulemu komanso nthawi yomweyo. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti amuna amtundu uwu ndi otchuka kwambiri ndi akazi. Amavutika nawo kwa moyo wawo wonse, koma samamuwona wokondedwa ndi wokonda bwino.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Apa, m'malo mwake, pangakhale funso - momwe mungapulumuke ... Ndipotu, pali akazi ochepa kwambiri omwe angathe kukhala amphamvu kuposa amuna awa. Ikhoza kukhala wojambula maso kapena wamkazi wa vamp. Mayi wina aliyense ayenera kuganiza katatu asanasankhe wokhala ngati Mbuye.
Narcissus
Munthu uyu ndi wokoma mtima ndi wofatsa. Mukufuna kuti mumupatse mtima - mumusangalatse pa mwayi uliwonse! Chiphunzitso cha Narcissism ndikumangika maganizo kuyambira nthawi yaunyamata. Mwina makolo ankafuna kukhala ndi mwana wamkazi, koma mwana wamwamuna anabadwa. Ndipo adayamba kumuphunzitsa ngati msungwana: kuvala, kukulira motalika, kubwereza mobwerezabwereza momwe aliri wokongola, ndi zina zotero. Pambuyo pake makolo amamvetsa zomwe adachita, koma ndichedwa kwambiri. Mwana wawo amakhala wokongola komanso wozizira. Chinthu chachikulu cha chilakolako cha kugonana ndi Narciss ndi thupi lake. Kugonana kwake koyenera ndikutsegula maliseche pamaso pa wokondedwa wake. Malinga ndi lingaliro lake, mkazi akhoza kutsogoleredwa ndi galasi kapena mwamuna wamwamuna. Narcissus akhoza kukhala wokondeka kwambiri, koma chifukwa cha izi muyenera kumuyamikira nthawi zonse. Amayi ambiri amatha kutopa posachedwa.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Ngati malo anu osokoneza bongo ndi maso, ndiye kuti mukuyenera. Koma dziwani kuti simudzalandira chilichonse. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kusintha zinazake - yesetsani kuthandiza Narcissus kuthana ndi maofesi awo. Iye amaganiza kuti akhoza kukhala osangalatsa chifukwa cha kukongola kwake. Iye samakhulupirira mu mphamvu zake kaya monga katswiri, kapena monga mwamuna, kapena monga munthu wamba. Tamandani zochita zake zomveka, osati maonekedwe. Mwinamwake simukuyenera ngakhale kuzichita nokha. Tchulani kwa psychoanalyst wodziwa zambiri.
Mwana wamayi
Mwamuna uyu amayang'ana mkazi wake wokondedwa makamaka ngati mayi wachikondi. Kugonana ndi iye, amadziwa mopanda chigamulo mlandu. Ngakhale kukonzedwa pa nkhaniyi kuli kovuta, chifukwa amuna oterewa amakonda kugonana. Kaŵirikaŵiri amayamba kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chifukwa cha chikondi chawo komanso chikondi chawo, sadziwa momwe angasankhire. Iwo ali ofooka mu mzimu ndipo kawirikawiri akhoza kusonyeza khalidwe lachimuna. Zili zopanda nzeru komanso zowopsya, zowopsya komanso zaulesi. Koma ndi okhulupirika komanso okhulupirika kwambiri.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Ngati mnzanu ali ndi zochitika za mwana wa Mamenka - musayese kukhala mayi ake konse. Akusowa mkazi wamphamvu, wokonzeka kupanga zisankho ndi kukhala phwando lochita kalikonse - kuphatikizapo kugonana. Fufuzani za golide!
Esthete
Amakonda kukongola kwa kunja ndipo akuyang'ana pa chilichonse. Sadzabwera pafupi ndi mkazi yemwe alibe tsitsi labwino. Iwo ndi osakhulupirika mwa iwo okha, kotero mantha a zophonya kuti amapewa kugonana ndi mkazi wawo wokondedwa. Pang'onopang'ono amayamba kumudyetsa ndi malonjezo osokoneza bongo. Kuti athetse kugonana, amasankha akazi osadziwika, osamudziwa. Ngati simungathe kumukhutitsa - zovuta zapansi ndi kudzimvera sizidzamupatsa mpumulo. Iye adzathamanga ndi kuzunzika, mpaka inu simungathe mwanjira ina "razrulit" mkhalidwewo.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Ngati muli wojambula kapena chitsanzo, ndipo Esthete ndi wojambula zithunzi wanu, ndiye mgwirizanowu ukhoza kukhala wautali komanso wokondwa. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ozama kwambiri, kutanthauza ubale wapamtima - thandizani mwamuna wanu kuthana ndi zovuta zovuta. Khalani okoma mtima komanso oganizirana: kunyodola ndi kunyalanyaza kumatha kumupha iye mophiphiritsira komanso kwenikweni. Msiyeni iye amverere pamwamba. Atangomva kuti ali ndi mphamvu komanso atatsimikizika, zonse zikhala bwino.
Hercules
Izi ndizomwe zimakhala zamphamvu ndi chikhalidwe. Munthu wotero amadziŵa kuti ndi wofunika ndipo ali ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Iye amatha kuphatikiza mphamvu ndi chifundo, koma sakusoweka. Amatsogolera mosavuta mkazi pamwamba pa zosangalatsa, koma amangoganizira chabe za kugonana, kuiwala kuyandikana kwa miyoyo ndi kumvetsetsana. Amamvetsetsa nthawi zonse ngati mkazi akufunitsitsa kupanga ntchito - mphamvu zake ndi kupambana sizimamuopseza kapena kumukhumudwitsa Hercules.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Musayese kusunga munthu uyu akudzudzulidwa. Pa msinkhu wachikumbumtima, iye adzachoka kutali ndi inu, koma sadzadzipatulira yekha. Khalani wodekha ndi ofatsa, koma musaiwale nokha. Muyenera kukhala osangalatsa kwa munthu wotere, muyenera kukhala ndi mphamvu yokwanira. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani izi.
Orpheus
Kwa iye, simungokhala chinthu chogonana, komanso munthu. Iye akhoza kukupatsani inu ndi moyo wanu chakudya cha kukula ndi chitukuko. Iye ndi munthu wokondweretsa kwambiri. Kwa iye, chikondi ndi ufulu. Koma musadandaule - Orpheus-munthu weniweni m'chilengedwe. Kugonana ndi iye - kowala komanso kozama ndi nzeru zambiri. Simungachite mantha kufotokoza malingaliro anu kapena malingaliro anu. Chitani bwino - zotsatira zake ndizofunika.
Kodi mungamusunge bwanji?
Khalani malo ake osungirako ndipo inu nonse mubwerere mobwerezabwereza. Mukhoza kukambirana naye mavuto alionse amene amamvetsera mwachidwi komanso kumvetsetsa. Osadandaula za kusakhulupirika, sangafunefune ulendo kumbali pamene ali ndi iwe.
Mfundo yaikulu
Musayesetse kufufuza mosamalitsa amuna awo ndi zofuna zawo za kugonana ndi mwayi. Mu mawonekedwe awo oyera, mitundu iyi ilipo kawirikawiri kwambiri. Musataye moyo wanu mukufufuza Orpheus wanu. Ndipo dziwani kuti palibe Ambuye kapena Narcissus amene amabadwa - mitundu imeneyi imapangidwa mothandizidwa ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Koma m'manja mwa mkazi wanzeru mwayi woti asinthe wokondedwa wake, mum'patse wokondedwa wachikondi ndi wachikondi.