Kulumikizana koteroko, osati kozizira, kumabweretsa misonzi yambiri ndikumverera kwa msungwanayo. Palibe aliyense amene akufuna kukhala wachiwiri kapena woyamba, tiyenera kukhala yekhayo. Ndipo ayi. Koma ambiri a ife timatengera maginito osaneneka kwa munthu uyu ndipo sitingathe kukana. Akugwedezeka mopyola mu chiphompho ichi. Muzochitika zotere, mkaziyo akulimbikitsidwa ndi mfundo yaikulu, yomwe imaphatikizapo mfundo zing'onozing'ono, zomwe zimachokera ku malingaliro monga chikondi, chikondi, pang'onopang'ono pamodzi ndi iye molimbika komanso molimba mtima kupita pa chinthu chake chakumamanda. Komanso, pa msinkhu wosadziwika, mfundo yakuti, mwinamwake, posachedwa izo zidzakhala zanga, pambuyo pake, iye ali woyenera kwambiri, yemwe ndi ine, akuwombera. Ndipo kunena chinachake chokhudza kuti mnyamata wokwatira ndi mlendo, palibe chifukwa, sizingatheke kuti chinachake chidzasintha. Inu mwazindikira izi nthawi zambiri, koma ndi manja anu ndi mapazi inu mumayesera kuponyera chinthu chosasangalatsa ichi kutali ndi iye.
Ndipo amakusungani ndi chikhalidwe chake chachikhalidwe, kuti amayi onse ndi msaka-monga chilengedwe ndi kukhazikitsa cholinga chawo (pazimenezi, cholinga chake ndi munthu), samangoganizira chabe. Ndipo iwo amadzipweteka okha, ndikuyamba kugonjetsedwa kachiwiri. Apa ndi bwino kulingalira za kuti mumafunikiradi, mwinamwake muyenera kusiya chirichonse monga momwe zilili ndikuchoka basi. Ndipo musadzichepetse nokha, kudalira kuti simungathe kuchita. Aliyense akufuna-amusiya, amapeza mphamvu ndikusiya. Ndikhulupirire, ndikusiya - izi sizikutanthauza kutaya chirichonse. Zimangotanthauza kusintha moyo wanu kuti ukhale wabwino. Pali anthu ambiri omasuka omwe angalowe m'malo mwa mnzanu wokwatirana. Ndipo iwe umatembenuka kuchokera kwa ambuye kupita kukonda. Kodi zingatenge chiyani kuti mudziwe nokha, kuthana ndi kusatetezeka kwanu ndi kudalira kwathunthu kwathunthu. Kudikirira nyengo panyanja sizosankha, choncho ndikuyembekeza kuti tsiku lina lidzakhala lanu lenileni, chinthu chopusa. Mukhoza kuyembekezera kuti moyo wanu wonse. Iye ndi mkazi wake, ndipo ndiwe ndani ndipo dzina lako ndani? Ali ndi iye, ndipo mukungodikirira tsiku ndi tsiku, kudula nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali kwa munthu wolakwika.
Choncho, musanakhalebe zopanda phindu kutentha moyo wanu mwa kukhutiritsa munthu wokwatira, muyenera kudzipereka nokha kuti maubwenzi amenewa, nthawi zambiri, amatsogolera pachabe. Ingotenga izi ndikudziyang'anitsitsa nokha kuchokera kumbali ndi maganizo anu abwino kumvetsetsa ubwino ndi zoyipa za bukuli. Mukumupatsa zaka zabwino kwambiri, ndipo muli ndi chiyani? Maola angapo olankhulana kangapo pa sabata. Kodi mumayesetsa kuchita izi? Ali ndi banja, koma uli ndi chiyani? Mudzakayankha ndipo mudzachita kulakwitsa kwakukulu, koma simungatero. Iye si wanu konse, malingana ndi malamulo onse, iye ali nawo ufulu uliwonse, pakuti ukwati ndi wopatulika. Ndipo inunso mwakhala mukuganiza za kulenga banja. Mnyamata wokwatira pa bizinesi iyi sakugwirizana nkomwe - iye ndi munthu wachilendo kwa inu, osapotoza. Kotero wina akhoza kukhala. Kudzikweza nokha makhalidwe monga kuleza mtima, kudzilemekeza ndi chikhumbo cholimbana ndi chimwemwe. Ndipo muziwatsogolera zonsezo pofufuza munthu waufulu. Lekani kuzigwiritsa ntchito pamayesero opanda pake kuti mutenge mwamuna wa munthu wina, ndikuwoneka mopusa. Iye si wanu ndipo iye ali bwino. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi iwe, sindikadandaula ndi kupuma. Mwamuna wina ankakondwera pamene ankamukonda komanso ankaopa kutaya akazi awiri okha. Pachifukwa ichi, sindikufuna kusintha chirichonse. Ndipotu, iwo ndi odzikonda ndipo amaganiza kuti nthawi yomweyo amawononga moyo wa amayi awiri si ntchito yawo. Taganizirani izi, musayang'anire nokha, chifukwa akazi ndi osiyana. Iwo amadziwanso momwe angamenyera okha awo ndipo nthawi yomweyo amagwiritsa ntchito zida zonse zankhondo, ndikuwatsogolera. Ndipo mapeto abwino apa sakununkhiza. Dzichitireni chisoni - mukuyenera bwino. Bwanji kuyang'ana mavuto.
Ndipo, komabe, tiyeni tiganizire mopanda nzeru, ndicho chifukwa chake adzasiya banja lake, abwere kwa inu ndi zomwe zikutsatira, muli ndi tsogolo lotani kwa inu nonse? Mwamuna amene anasiya mkazi wake, akhoza kukuponyani mosavuta. Mwamuna wabwino wa banja, sangathe kukhala. Pambuyo pokhala ndi chiyanjano choyamba pambali, ndani angapereke chitsimikiziro chakuti posachedwa sadzapitako kumanzere. Mukhoza kukhala pamalo a mkazi wake wamakono. Ndipo mu ulemerero wake wonse kuyesa pa udindo wa mkazi yemwe akusinthidwa. Chotsani kukhala ndi ziyembekezo zopanda pake ndi ziwonetsero. Ndimakhulupirira zam'tsogolo, komwe mumakhala pamodzi mosangalala nthawi zonse. Mapeto oterewa ali ndi nthano chabe, ndipo ndithudi si moyo wathu weniweni. Zisanafike mochedwa, ingothamangitsani kuyanjana. Pambuyo pake, tinaphunzitsidwa mu ubwana wathu ndi makolo: "Musatenge konse mlendo". Ndipo iye ali wa inu ndipo ali mlendo, osati wanu.
Ndipo simukusowa kudera nkhaŵa kuti mumamukonda. Musamangire zilakolako - ichi si chikondi. Zoona, chikondi choyera ndi cholimba nthawi zonse chimagwirizana. Ndipo ngati munthu akupusitsa mutu wako kwa zaka, akungokulonjezani inu "mapiri a golidi" ndipo sachita kanthu kwa iwo, satchulidwa kuti chikondi konse, koma ali ndi zolinga zadyera. Amangokugwiritsani ntchito, kulandira kuchokera kwa inu zomwe mkazi wake sangathe kumupatsa. Amalipira zofooka zake ndi ubwino wanu komanso mosiyana. Ndizovuta kwa iye kuti nthawizonse mumakhala pafupi. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani ayenera kusintha chirichonse. Pezani mphamvu mwa inu nokha ndi kuthetsa vutoli. Pita popanda kutembenuka. Zonse, ngakhalenso malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri, amachiritsa nthawi, ndi chilakolako chathu chosafuna kuchotsa iwo. Mwa njira, mphete imatulukira ndipo ndi zoona. Kuti muyambe ubale watsopano, kokha ndi munthu womasuka. Ndikhulupirire, nditasiya wokondedwa wanu, ndipo, mwachidziwikire, kuchokera kwa mkazi wake, mumamva nthawi yomweyo kuti mutsegule. Kotero musakhale pamalo amodzi, ingopitirira patsogolo.