Komabe, akatswiri a maganizo amalingalira kuti tiyerekeze banja ndi mamembala ake ngati piramidi. Womwe ali mnyumbayo ndi wofunika kwambiri, adzakhala pamwamba pake, mamembala ena onse azidzavina kuzungulira. Ndipo makolo sakhala mutu wa banja nthawi zonse. Adadi, Amayi, ndine banja lapamtima - ndipo likuti zambiri.
Zonse zabwino kwa ana!
Maso atatu, anayi, asanu ndi limodzi, asanu ndi awiri a "banja" akuyang'ana pa iye kuyambira ali mwana. Mwanayo atakhala pakhomo la kanyumbako, agogo aamuna awiri akumuyendetsa kuti aike mapepala. Pamene mwanayo akuzungulira, banja limamveka kuti: "Mwabwino ...", ndipo bambo anga amanyengerera manja ndi amayi ake mwamphamvu: "Zikomo chifukwa cha mwana uyu." Chabwino, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi ikupita, maganizo a banja kwa ang'onoang'ono samasintha, ngakhale pamene zikuwonekeratu kuti mwanayo alibe matalente apadera.
- Zotsatira. Mwana kuyambira ubwana amatetezedwa ku chirichonse chosayenerera chikondi chachikulu cha banja lake. Ndizowona kuti mliri wa adani udzatha ku nyumba ndi makoma. Ngati pali dontho la talente iliyonse mmenemo, zikhoza kunenedwa motsimikizika kuti achibale adzabweretsa mphukirayi kuti ikhale yangwiro ndipo idzakula mtengo wolimba.
- Wotsutsa. Dziko loyandikana liribe chidwi ndi chikondi cha achibale ena osadziwika ku nkhani yosadziwika. Ena sangawathandize chikondi ichi ndi chitsimikiziro cha luso lake, ngati wina sakuliwona. Ngati makolo adakali aang'ono adalimbikitsa mwanayo kuti ndi wapadera komanso wapadera, akakula, zimakhala zovuta kuti adziganizire mosiyana. Adzakhala otsimikiza kuti kutsutsidwa kwa ena ndi nsanje yoyamba. Ambiri amakhala ndi moyo wathanzi wokwanira komanso amakhala ndi moyo wabwino!
Agogo aakazi ndi abwenzi athu
Zikuchitika kuti pamwamba pa piramidi ya banja ndiyimilira mbadwo wakale - agogo. Iye ndi mfumu ndi mulungu, iye adzakhala wachifundo, iye adzatsutsa. Mawu ake ndi lamulo, sizichitika kwa wina aliyense kuti asamvere. Pa maulendo a ana, iye amakhala pa malo abwino a mnyamata wobadwa, pamutu pa tebulo. Zorko akuyang'ana abwenzi a mdzukulu wake, wina amavomereza momveka bwino, wina akuwoneka kuti ndi wosasangalatsa kwa iye. Iye amawonetsa bajeti ya banja ndipo nthawi zina amapereka ndalama kwa mpongozi ndi mwana wamkazi. Amafunsana kwa nthawi yaitali momwe anganyengere gogo kuti agule kompyuta yatsopano, tanthauzo lake lomwe sakuona, ndi momwe angakhalire kukambirana za kugulitsa makina akale ndi kugula latsopano. Agogo aakazi ali okhwima, samalola "ana" kuti apume ku Turkey, chifukwa akadakali "nyanja" zakuda ndi Azov, ndipo mwachidziwikire, palibe chabwino kuposa dacha wakale m'midzimo ndipo sangathe.
- Zotsatira. M'banja limene agogo aakazi amalamulira, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi dongosolo komanso omveka bwino. Anzukulu amawona boma la tsikuli, ndalama za banja lawo zimakhala zotetezeka komanso zotetezeka. Agogo aakazi - ndizokhazikika komanso zopanda kukayikira.
- Wotsutsa. Ufumu wa agogo sukhalitsa kwamuyaya. Posakhalitsa wina amachotsedwa, chifukwa agogo akuyamba kukalamba, ndipo ana ndi adzukulu akukula ndikupeza mphamvu. Ana aang'ono omwe anakulira m'banja lotero amapangidwa ndi lingaliro lolakwika pa ubale pakati pa akuluakulu ndi "yemwe ali mwini nyumba." Mwa awa, akuluakulu okalamba ndi oponderezedwa nthawi zambiri amakula, kapena, anthu amphamvu ndi achiwawa omwe amalemekeza "kuwomba" osati mu nkhondo, komanso m'moyo wamba.
Ufulu kwamuyaya
Izi zimachitika kuti malo apamwamba a piramidi ya banja akhala ... opanda. Mwanayo, ndithudi, ali ndi amayi ndi abambo, koma amawombera pamwamba pa masewera olimbidwa. Monga Carlson. Makolo kuntchito, ali ndi mawu omveka bwino akuti "ntchito". Mnyamata yemwe amabwera ndi wokongola kuchokera kumbali zonse, koma ali ndi mdzukulu wake ndipo amakonda chinachake, iye ndi weniweni wake, ndipo apa akungopeza ndalama basi. Ndipo ngati makolo sakudziwa izi, ndiye kuti mwanayo amamva kusasamala ndi khungu ndi mtima. Palibe kutentha! Ndipo amalenga bwenzi lachikondi, mnzake wokondwa, wogwirizanitsa ndi mnyamata wosayenerera. Ndili ndi mnzanu wapangidwe kwambiri! Iye akukhala pafupi ndi ine mu galimoto, pamene mwanayo amamutengera kumsasa wa ana kuti apite tchuthi, ndipo amaima molimba mtima pambali pake pamene mwanayo ayankha pamsonkhanowo. Ndi "bwenzi" sikumvetsa chisoni madzulo, pamene makolo nthawi zonse amaitana, amadandaula ndikupempha kuti "dikirani pang'ono", chifukwa ali ndi msonkhano wofunikira, ulendo wautali, kenako msonkhano. "Musakhumudwe, mwana, amayi anu amakukondani, bambo amakukondani." Ndipo amakhulupirira mwachikondi kuti amamukonda, koma mawu oti "chikondi" amatha kukhala mtundu wozizira, ndi wokongola kwambiri komanso wotalikirana kwambiri. Mwanayo atangoyamba kukhala wodziimira yekha, amadziwa kuti makolo ake si anthu otsiriza padziko lino lapansi, amadziwa kupanga ntchito komanso momwe angatsogolere anthu. Ana oterewa akuuluka pang'onopang'ono pa ndege ndi achibale awo omwe sali achimwene ndi amalume omwe amafunsidwa kuti asamalire mwanayo, samalira komanso kumangokhalira kudandaula ndi zidazi, omwe sangalowetse mayi m'nyumbamo. Wotsutsa. Kusangalala ndi mnzanu wapamtima sangathe kutha. Akatswiri a zamaganizo a ana amadziwa zitsanzo zambiri pamene mwanayo anadzipatulira yekha kuti kunali koyenera "kuchoka" kumeneko kupita ku kuwala kwachipatala. Kusakanizidwa koyambirira ndi chitsimikizo. Zosintha zathu zokhudzana ndi msinkhu zikuchitika kokha kuyambira zaka zamoyo, osati chifukwa cha kusowa chidwi kwa anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi ife-makolo. Kotero, kudziimira koteroko sikungopweteka mwa atate ndi amayi, kuwawidwa mtima, kukwiya komanso kuchitapo kanthu poyambirira. Kodi ndi kholo lanji limene lidzakhala mzanga wa anzanu omwe atulukira? Kuzizira komweko ndi kutali? Kapena simukufuna kukhala ndi ana, mukukumbukira kuti nthawi yosagwirizana ndi nthawi yaitali, yomwe imatchedwa ubwana?
Ndipo momwe kuli kofunikira?
Ndizosatheka kuyankha funso ili. Palibe njira yabwino yomwe ingagwirizanitse mgwirizano wa mabanja onse popanda kupatulapo. Komabe pali njira imodzi. Inde, makolo ayenera kukhala pamwamba pa piramidi. Chikondi chawo chimafikira wina ndi mzake, kenaka amawonetseratu ana. Ana amawazindikira onsewo. Makolo amakonza nkhani zonse, ndizo "zazikulu". Agogo aamuna amalandiridwa, ndipo akhoza kukhala pafupi kwambiri ndi ana, koma mawu omalizira amachokera kwa amayi ndi abambo. Kugonjera uku popanda chiwawa, kulemekeza mopanda mantha, ubwenzi wopanda ntchito. Ndipo mu ubale wotero simudzapeza zovuta zilizonse. Kuphatikizana kolimba. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti samakumana nawo nthawi zambiri.