Kodi atsikana athu amapangidwa ndi chiyani?
Atsikana nthawi zambiri amakhala olemera kwambiri komanso ataliatali pobadwa kuposa anyamata, amakhala akulemera pang'onopang'ono. Amakhulupirira kuti atsikana amalankhula mofulumira, maluso othandiza kwambiri amaphunzira, ndipo izi ndi zoona.
Chowonadi n'chakuti kuyambira kubadwa kupita ku nthawi inayake ntchito ya kumanzere komwe kumakhala komweko kwa ubongo (yomwe imayambitsa ndemanga yophunzitsidwa) kwa atsikana ndi yolimba kuposa ntchito yolondola. Ndicho chifukwa chake zimakhala zosavuta kulankhulana, zimakhala zophweka kuti zifufuze muzatsopano, ndikosavuta kufotokozera.
Zingathe kutsutsidwa kuti atsikana ndi omvera komanso osamala kusiyana ndi anyamata. Komabe, khalidweli liri ndi ndondomeko yake - iwo akufunadi kuvomereza. Anyamata, mosiyana, nthawi zambiri amachita "zoipa" kapena "mosasamala kanthu". Kwa ichi iwo amangidwa ndi ulamuliro wa dziko labwino la ubongo, lomwe limayambitsa zowawa.
M'zaka zakusintha, zinthu zikusintha kwambiri. Anyamatawa, omwe amachititsa munthu aliyense wopenga ndi khalidwe lawo loipitsitsa, amatha kusinthana ndi chilengedwe chachikulu kuposa china chilichonse, koma atsikana amakhala ndi zionetsero. Odzichepetsa amayamba kukhala "osalongosoka", ophunzira olemekezeka amakhala a zaka zitatu, ndi zina zotero.
Kodi mwana wamkazi wa abambo kapena amayi a ponytail?
Kawirikawiri apapa amaganiza kuti maphunziro a atsikana ndi udindo wa amayi okhaokha. Kodi ndingatani kuti bambo anga azisewera ndi ana anga pachidole kapena kumanga uta? Koma izi siziri zofunikira! Bambo wachikondi angapeze kanthu kena kake ndi mwana wake wamkazi. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsera kwa mwanayo.
Udindo wa abambo, monga wolungama ndi wabwino, wotetezeranso, ndi wofunikanso kwa mtsikana kuti amvetse bwino za banja. Mtsogolo, mwamuna wake, adzadziyerekezera ndi atate ake mosamalitsa.
Ali ndi zaka zambiri, mnyamatayo ayamba kutulutsa zambiri kwa bambo ake. Ndipo kwa mtsikana chitsanzo chachikulu chidzakhala mayi nthawi zonse. Atsikana akukwatulidwa amasewera ndi zinthu za amayi anga, zodzoladzola, amaphunzira kuthandiza pakhomo, kusewera ndi zidole, kuyesa udindo wa amayi. Bambo wachikondi ndi wachilungamo amafunika pazinthu zambiri, koma pa maphunziro a chikazi, msungwana sangathe kuchita popanda mayi!
Mitundu ya anthu a atsikana
Atsikana ndi osiyana. Iwo amasiyana mu chikhalidwe, maonekedwe, khalidwe. Ndipo maphunziro, ndithudi, amakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira ndi khalidwe la mwanayo. Musayesane ndi chikhalidwe cha mwana wanu ndipo musamapse mtima. Pezani njira yowonjezeramo ndipo musayambe kutsogolera njira yoyenera.
Maphunziro ndi mitundu ya khalidwe - zinthu sizingatheke. Mwa chitsanzo cha khalidwe, tikhoza kusiyanitsa mitundu yayikulu ya atsikana:
Mfumukazi
Ili ndilo mtundu wamakono kwambiri. M'badwo wa makolo ukuwonjezeka, ana m'banjamo nthawi zambiri amapezeka pamene mayi ali pafupi kapena zaka 30. Ngati mkazi wabadwa mwana wamkazi, ndiye akuyesera kuchita zambiri momwe angathere. Iwo amapindula ndi ochuluka kwambiri. Choncho, m'banja limene "kalonga" woteroyo amaleredwa, mawu omalizira aliwonse ndi a mwanayo. Mwamsanga pamene chinachake sichidutsa pa icho, nthawi yomweyo chimayamba kukhala capricious ndi chinyama.
Atsikana oterewa, kufunika kwake ndi mawonekedwe okongola, amalankhulana ndi malamulo ndi chiwonetsero. Ngati mwana wanu ali woyenera kufotokoza izi - muyenera kuchita mofulumira! Choyamba, mtsikana wamkazi, yemwe amazoloŵera kufunsa, sizikhala zovuta kukhala m'dziko lachikulire, pomwe sikuti aliyense adzayesera kumusangalatsa. Ndani angakonde mankhwalawa? Chachiwiri, musalole kukongola kwa kunja kukakhale kofunikira kwa mwana. Ndipotu, m'nthaŵi ya kusintha, atsikana nthawi zambiri amakhala "bakha wonyansa" kwa kanthawi. Ichi chidzakhala chiwopsezo chachikulu kwa wina yemwe kukongola kwake kuli kunja kuposa zonse. Chachitatu, mtsikanayo ayenera kumvetsa kuti mwana wamkaziyo si chidole chokongola komanso chokongola. Uyu ndi munthu, pamwamba pa zonse zokoma, zachilungamo, zosamala ndi zolondola.
"Ng'ombe yokongola"
Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha nkhani yosiyana kwambiri. Ngati mtsikanayo sakuwoneka ngati chidole chofewa, izi sizitanthauza kuti makolo ake amunyoze chifukwa cha izi! Mavuto a "bakha wonyansa" akhala akuikidwa kuyambira ali mwana (makamaka amayi).
Ngati ali mwana akadali msungwana nthawi zonse akumva ndemanga zovuta kapena akunyoza za maonekedwe ake, amadziwika kuti ndi wovuta. Ndizosatheka kuzikonza kenako! Msungwana wotero m'tsogolomu adzakumana ndi mavuto ambiri, sangathe kukhala wosangalala m'moyo wake.
Samalani ndi zitsanzo zingati za akazi otchuka padziko lonse lapansi, omwe angatchedwe olakwika. Komabe, iwo apambana bwino mu moyo, iwo ali okondwa mu chikondi ndi okhutira. Chinsinsi chake ndi chakuti kudzidalira kwawo sikungathetsedwe kuyambira ali mwana! Munthu wodalirika nthawi zonse amapambana. Dziwani izi nokha, ndipo mulole mwana wanu amvetse.
"Peppy ndikutenga nthawi yaitali"
Awa ndi ana otanganidwa kwambiri. Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha mnyamata, atakhala ndi mawondo osweka komanso nkhope yakuda. "Hooligan! Drachunya! Msungwana wamng'ono! Kodi atsikana akuchita motere? !! !! "- ngati mawu amenewa mumabwereza mwana wanu nthawi zonse, ndiye mwana wamtundu uwu.
Kumbukirani, simungasinthe mwana wodetsa nkhawa! Kulimbitsa bwino mphamvu yake kukhala njira yabwino. Masewera osunthirapo, bwalo la ana oyambirira, gawo la masewera. Palibe chifukwa choyendetsa msungwana wotere ku sukulu ya nyimbo, bwino kumupatseni phunziro kumene mungathe kusunthira kwambiri, kutaya mphamvu.
Cinderella
Zodabwitsa, masiku athu alipo akadali atsikana oterewa. Kawirikawiri amachokera ku banja lalikulu, kumene mumayenera kuthandiza amayi anu nthawi zonse mnyumba. Kusalongosoka kwazinthu kumaphatikizapo kulera kovuta. Nthawi zina ana amathandiza mwaufulu, koma m'banja lanu limatembenukira kwa wamng'ono pa ntchito - muyenera kusintha chinachake.
Ndikoyenera kuti azizoloŵera mwanayo kugwira ntchito, ndithudi, koma m'zinthu zonse muyeso ndi wofunikira. Ngati mukulera mwana wanu Cinderella, konzekerani kuti agwire ntchito pa moyo wake kwa wina, musakonzekere moyo wake, sangakhale wosangalala kwenikweni. Koma nthawi zonse padzakhala mwamuna yemwe amadziwa mwamsanga kuti msungwanayo ndi wantchito wanthaŵi zonse ndipo adzakhala pamutu pake!