Anthu ngati iwo atalandira izo. Koma nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha kusowa mtima ndi kudzidalira, anthu amaphonya mwayi, amaopa kunena chilichonse. Pali kumverera kosakhutitsidwa ndiwekha, kusakhutira ndi moyo wako. Izi ndi zovuta kukonza, koma mukhoza. Momwe mungakhalire wodalirika m'moyo, werengani payekha ndikuyamba kuchita panopa!
Yambani ndi Kuwonekera
Inde, kudzidalira kumayamba pamutu. Koma ndi bwino kubwezeretsa kunja. Pita pagalasi, kodi tingawone chiyani? Mapewa amawongoledwa, mutu wachotsedwa, mimba imatengedwera, ndipo miyendo siigwedezeka pa mawondo. Ayi? Ndiye muyenera kudziwongolera nokha mu akaunti zitatu. Mmodzi - mapewa amatsogolere kuti nsana ikhale yopota. Awiri - akweze nawo, ngati kuti mukugwedezeka. Zitatu - tenga mapewa anu mobwerera momwe mungathere ndi kuwatsitsa. Ndipo pagalasi munthu wina amawonetseredwa. Mutu ukuleredwa, chifuwa chiri patsogolo, mimba sichikutuluka, miyendo imakhalanso. Ndipo mwamsanga mumakhala otsimikiza kwambiri. Inde, muyenera kuyang'ana malo anu ndipo musalole kuti "hump." Ichi si ntchito yosavuta, koma mukhoza kupita kukapereka nsembe zotere.
Chotsatira chotsatiracho chikutsatira phindu. Kuti mukhale otsimikiza, muyenera kukonza mumsewu, kuwongolera mapewa anu, kwezani mutu wanu. Pogwiritsa ntchito mutu wanu, musayende konse. Izi zimangopatsa munthu wochepetsedwa, komanso zimapweteka maonekedwe. Pa khosi pali makwinya, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kuchotsa, ndipo chinsaluchi ndi opunduka, chifukwa chachiwiri ndi chachitatu chikhoza kuwonekera. Mukakhala ndi malo oyenera, yang'anani sitepe yanu kuti musayambe "kusokoneza", musati "shirk" ndipo musagwedeze manja anu mukuyenda. Ngati muvala nsapato ndi zidendene, muyenera kusamala kuti musayende pamapazi anu. Inde, izi zimachitika, mudzatopa kwambiri, ndipo pazitsulo zapamwamba n'zovuta kuyenda tsiku lonse. Ndibwino kuti musankhe nsapato pamunsi mofulumizitsa, chifukwa mtsikana yemwe amapita ngati bakha ndizoseketsa ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndikumvetsa chisoni.
Mu moyo palibe zopanda manyazi kuti mukhale otsimikiza, muyenera kuyang'ana molimba mtima. Ngakhale pamene mutangokhala. Kukhala pansi molunjika, momasuka, osadalira pa tebulo - zikuwoneka kuti zingakhale zophweka. Koma ambiri a ife sitimakonda kukhala monga choncho. Choncho, muyenera kuchita pakhomo, kuyang'ana TV kapena kulankhula pa foni. Pang'onopang'ono chizoloŵezi chokhala bwino ndibwino chidzapangidwa, koma poyamba kudziletsa kuli kofunika.
Mumakhala ndi chidaliro m'moyo wanu ngati mukuwoneka bwino. Mkazi wokonzekera bwino nthawi zonse amakhala wokongola. Musalole zovala zakuda, zonunkhira zosangalatsa, kapena misomali yosasamba. Mukamaona anthu zana lonse, ndiye kuti mumadzidalira nokha, ndipo anthu oyandikana nawo akuwonanso izi.
Tengani dziko lamkati
Pamene takhazikitsa chikhulupiliro cha kunja, timayang'ana kumkati. Inde, mukhoza kuchita zosiyana, koma makhalidwe abwino angakhalepo kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo pamene theka la nkhondo likukonzekera, ndiye kosavuta kuchita.
Liwu ndi chida chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wathu. Muzochitika zachikhalidwe, ziyenera kumveka bata ndi chidaliro. Kawirikawiri m'masitolo kapena m'malesitanti mungathe kukumana ndi anthu omwe, monga mantha ndi kupepesa, alankhulani ndi antchitowo. Mofananamo, ife timayankhulana ndi anzathu, makasitomala, oyandikana nawo. Choncho, ndikofunika kulankhula molimba mtima komanso kumverera m'moyo. Mukhoza kuyambiranso m'masitolo kapena m'malesitilanti. Kufunsa wogulitsa m'sitolo, kapena kupanga dongosolo mu lesitilanti, penyani mawu anu. Iye sayenera kunjenjemera ndi kukhala chete, mawu ayenera kukhala otsimikiza. Pamapeto pake, ndiwe kasitomala komanso mwiniwake wa zochitikazo, mulibenso woopa ndipo mulibe chopepesa. Apanso, pokhala ndi chizoloŵezi, pamapeto pake mudzatha kuyankhulana ndi aliyense mofanana mosavuta.
Kuti mukhale otsimikiza mu moyo, nkofunika kuti mukhale ndi mabwenzi aakulu. Ndipo kuti iwo awonekere, muyenera kuphunzira luso lolankhulana. Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndicho kuphunzira momwe mungayankhire zokambiranazo. Nthaŵi zambiri mu kampani yosadziŵika, kapena ngakhale kuzungulira ndi anzako kapena anzanu a m'kalasi, tingathe kuchita zinthu zotsekedwa ndikukhala chete nthaŵi zonse. Kawirikawiri anthu oterowo amawoneka osapita nthawi, amasiya kuzindikira. Choncho, nthawi zonse muyenera kuyesetsa kukambirana. Tili ndi chikhulupiliro cholimba, mawonekedwe abwino, tikhoza kuyankhula mwachibadwa. Choncho musamachite manyazi ndi anthu ena. Mwachiwonekere, iwo ndi amanyazi osachepera anu, amangophunzira kusisita. Muyenera kuyamba kukambirana popanda kuwongolera chinachake chomwe sichiri choyenera. Mulimonsemo, kuyankhulana osati achibale kungapangitse kudzidalira, ndikuthandizira kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi anthu ena. Ndipo mawu alionse akhoza kumasuliridwa kukhala nthabwala.
Ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, musaiwale kudziyamika nokha. Aliyense amadziwa njira yophunzitsira, pamene munthu ayesa kudzipangitsa yekha kusintha kuti athandizidwe ndi mawu achikondi ndi kuvomereza. Kutamandidwa kwa alendo sikupezeka nthawi zonse pamene mukufuna. Anthu nthawi zambiri amakhala otanganidwa ndi iwo okha, alibe nthawi yogawira munthu wina. Koma muli ndi munthu yemwe amayang'anitsitsa bwino kupambana kwanu ndi kupambana, nokha. Chifukwa chogwira ntchito pawekha, ukhoza kukwaniritsa zambiri. Dzilemekezeni choyamba, ndipo ena onse adzawona kusintha kwabwino ndikuyamba kuyamikira mkazi wokondweretsa ndi wodzidalira-iwe!