Potsiriza, n'zotheka kudzikakamiza kuti uwonetse chizindikiro chopanda chizindikiro, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri anthu saganizira za malo a nsidze zawo, minofu ya pamphumi pawo, milomo, chins, samayang'anitsitsa zokhazokha pa zokambirana zawo, samangoganizira pa udindo wa thupi lanu, kuchepetsa kuchepetsa mawu ake ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Chifukwa chiyani? Pa zifukwa zotsatirazi, kutembenuka kosalankhula, ndithudi, kumaonedwa ngati mwachilengedwe kuwonjezera pa mawu, ngakhale kuti sizikutanthawuza momveka bwino, koma mwachinsinsi. Kuti muphunzire kuŵerenga mawu opanda mawu omwe amalankhula za chifundo mu adiresi yanu, kapena momwe mumaonera zinthu zazikulu, muyenera kukumbukira zizindikiro zotsatirazi zomwe mumakonda mkazi.
Kusuntha kwa kamwa, kusonyeza chifundo kuchokera ku chinthu cha phunzirolo
Khungu kakang'ono kamasuka, ngakhale pakamwa pakatsegulidwa theka, mano apamwamba amatha kuonekera. Amaseŵera ndi masiponji: amawabwezera, amawuma, amakhudza lilime lake. Zola zazing'ono zimakhudza milomo yake, ngati atakhala ndi zipilala zautali, amazigwira kumaso ake. Zonsezi zimawoneka ngati kugwira mwangozi, ngakhale kuti amapereka chinachake chimene mumakonda mkazi ndi chikhumbo chake chofuna chidwi.
Yang'anani ndikusuntha maso.
Amayang'ana mosamala kwambiri anthu omwe ali ofooka kwambiri pa kugonana, ndipo ophunzira ake amakula nthawi yomweyo. Chochita ichi - sichitha kulamulidwa kapena kusewera. Kusangalatsa kwa chidziwitso kumapangitsa wophunzira kukula. Akatswiri ena ofufuza maganizo amanena kuti panthawi yovuta (pamene palibe vuto, mantha ndi nkhawa), ophunzira amangowonjezera pokhapokha atayang'ana munthu wokondana komanso wachifundo. Mawu akuti "Maso - galasi la moyo" amayendetsa bwino nkhaniyi. Pokambirana, osati kuyang'ana kwa dona wamng'ono, koma nkhope yake yonse. Nsidzu zimakwera nthawi zonse, zimapangitsa nkhope kukhala yovuta komanso yosangalatsa mawu a interlocutor. Nkhani ya kunyada kwa atsikana achichepere ndi cilia yawo, yomwe mosadziŵa, imakhala yovuta, imayankhula ndi wokonzeka kwambiri kugonana, kotero azimayi achichepere amasonyeza kukongola kwa ma eyelashes ndi kukonda anzawo. Ndipo kumvetsa chisoni kwa mayiyo kumapangitsa maso osangalala osangalala. Izi zimachitika pamene mayi ndi woimira chilakolako chogonana ali patali ndipo ali ndi mwayi wodzilola okha kuti awonekere pokhapokha atathandizidwa kuyang'anitsitsa. Mkaziyo amawonekera ndikuwonekeranso maso ake, ndikuwongosoledwanso, ngati kuti akubisala, makamaka, kudziwonetsera chifundo chake kwa woimira kugonana mwamphamvu.
Kuyanjana ndi tsitsi.
Ndipo kugonana kwabwinoko kumakondwera ndi tsitsi lawo, chifukwa cha izi nthawi zambiri amawakhudza panthawi yolankhulana ndi kugonana kolimba, osati kuwawuza zakukhosi kwawo. Kuyanjana ndi tsitsi kumatchedwanso ngati mwangozi. Mkaziyo ali ndi mphamvu yowaponyera pamapewa ake, kuwongola, kuthamanga zala zake mu tsitsi lake ...
Chithandizo chosagwirizana ndi chithandizo cha kuimirira ndi kusuntha kwa thupi.
Chinthu choyamba chimene chimapereka kwa woimirira wa chiwerewere chofooka ndicho chikhumbo chake chokopa munthu woimira kugonana mwamphamvu - kutayika bwino ndi minofu yambiri ya kumbuyo. Ngati nyimbo ikusewera m'chipindamo, mayiyo akungoyendayenda mofulumira, kusonyeza kuti thupi lake limatuluka. Miyendo yake imatseguka, ndipo ikadutsa, phazi lakumtunda limakhala kuti liwonetse ntchafu. Pazokambirana, miyendo imakanizana wina ndi mzake pang'ono kapena pafupi ndi mwendo wa tebulo, mpando. Atatengedwa ndi mtsikanayo, mtsikanayo amamusindikiza mosasamala kanthu kwake, chizindikiro, udindo wake wa thupi. Mukaona kuti mnzanuyo akutsanzira ndikudziwitseni, dziwani kuti pambali pake izi ndi umboni wa utsogoleri wanu.
Kusuntha kwa manja kumaonedwa kukhala kofunikira. Pamene mayi akukambirana, akudandaula, akutembenuzira manja ake, atsimikizire kuti mumutcha kuti akudalira. Pa kutseguka ndi kuchitira chifundo manja awa amalankhulana: utawu umakhala mu kanjedza, ndi mgwalangwa, dzanja lomwelo limakwera mmwamba. Kudula dzanja lako, kugonana kwabwinoko kumaperekanso wokonda chizoloŵezi choledzera.
Zisonyezero ndi zokhudza za zinthu za nkhope ndi dzanja lanu, ndikugwedeza masaya ndi milomo yanu. Chizindikiro chopanda mawu pa adiresi ya interlocutor chimaonedwa kukhala chokhudzana ndi woimira ogonana ofooka a zovala zawo, zinthu zomwe ziri pafupi, zochepa za zokongoletsera.
Ndipo, ndithudi, liwu la mtsikanayo limakhala ndi gawo lalikulu.
Kwa iwo amayesa kumvetsera, kutenga zozizwitsa, kukumbukiridwa. Kodi mawu ali ofunika konse? Inde! Ngakhale mauthenga osalankhula ndi ofunika kwambiri. Poganizira pa inu, woyimira wofooka yemwe ali wofooka adzanena pamutu womwewo monga inu. Pamene mawu anu ali ofewa ndi ochepetsetsa - adzapereka yankho lofanana, sakuyesera kusokoneza mgwirizano, ndipo pamene muyankhula mokweza - adzakambanso kulankhula mokweza. Ndi liwiro lakulankhula zimachitika mwanjira yomweyo. Komanso amayi amadziwa kuti anthu akudziko lathu akuphatikizidwa ndi kuseka ndipo chifukwa cha iye amayesa kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi oimirira amphamvu kwambiri ogonana.