Malingana ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, amuna omwe ali ndi egoist ndi amuna ambiri kuposa akazi. Mkazi aliyense wachitatu akukumana ndi kudzikonda kwa mwamuna wake. Mosakayika, chidziwitso cha munthu chimakhala chigamulo cha mikangano yambiri ya mabanja. Taganizirani zina mwa zizindikiro za kudzikonda mwa amuna.
Amuna amodzi amadziwika nthawi zambiri, ndipo amatha kufotokoza momveka bwino. Amayi ambiri amabwera kunyumba atagwira ntchito yovuta, akulakwitsa ntchito zapakhomo, chifukwa izi ndizofunikira. Mayi ochapa zovala, amachotsa, amakonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, ndi mnzako panthawiyi mwakachetechete "akugona" pabedi. Pambuyo pake, amamvetsa bwino kuti theka lake limodzi komanso atopa ndipo amafuna thandizo. Koma ngakhale izi, chifukwa cha pempho lililonse lothandizira, akupereka yankho kuti izi sizinthu za munthu. Ndipo ngati watopa - ndi vuto lake.
Amayi ambiri amakumananso ndi vutoli. Ngati munthu ali ndi vuto linalake, ndiye nthawi yomweyo amagona ndipo amafunikira chidwi ndi nthawi zonse. Iye samasamala za zochitika zina za mkazi wake, amachita zonse mwa njira iliyonse, "kuti athe kupukutidwa nkhono, kudyetsedwa kuchokera ku supuni," ngakhale kuti ali ndi malungo.
Chinthu china. Amuna ena amanyazi ndi wina aliyense, kukamba za umoyo wawo wathanzi. Koma munthu amatsutsa mosiyana ndi zimenezo, amatha kupanga vuto lonse chifukwa cha kunyalanyaza pang'ono ndikudziyerekezera kuti akudwala. Mwachitsanzo, muyenera kukonza mwamsanga mwamsanga kapena kuthandiza kubweretsa zinthu zina mnyumbamo, ndipo akuyamba kudandaula kuti "akudwala" kuti palibe mphamvu yopita kwa dokotala. Ndipo ndithudi, iye molimba mtima adzapita kwa dokotala ndi kudandaula za "colic mu chifuwa".
Zina zosiyanasiyana za amuna egoism
Amayi ambiri amadziwika bwino ndi izi: Mkazi amapulumutsa ndalama, osalola ngakhale kugula zinthu zina, amadya modzichepetsa kuti asunge bajeti ya banja. Panthawiyi, mwamuna amadzilola kugula zinthu zamtengo wapatali, kudya zakudya zokwera mtengo. Izi ndi zizindikiro zomveka za kudzikonda. Kapena, mwachitsanzo, mkazi amakhala ndi kutentha kwakukulu, ndipo mwamunayo amagwira nsomba, mpira, ndi zina. Kapena mkazi watopa ndi kuyesera kugona, ndipo wosankhidwa wake akutembenukira pa TV, mokweza kwambiri.
Chiwonetsero chotsatira cha amuna egoism. Inu pamodzi mwamsanga munapita ku konsati, yomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Koma pamene bwenzi limamutcha munthu, amanyada kunena kuti sitinapite ku kanema, koma "ine" amayenera kukhala pa concert ino. Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Chizindikiro ichi cha kudzikonda chimakhudzana ndi kudzichepetsa komanso chikhumbo chodziyesa mwa njira zonse kwa ena. Mwina ali mnyamata, mwamuna wanu anayesera kuthawa chisamaliro cha amayi, ndipo chifukwa chake amamukana kuti asalowe nawo m'moyo. Izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri ndi amuna omwe amayi omwe sanangobweretsedwa, koma amawoneka ngati ochepetsedwa, sanalole kuti asayang'ane chimodzimodzi. Pankhaniyi, mkaziyo ayenera kuchita zonse kuti m'malo mwake "Ine" anganene "ife". Ndikofunika kuyesetsa kupanga ntchito zonse zolimbanira. Ndinagula matikiti, ndinalipira ndalama zonse. Mzimayi payekha ayenera kukhala wodzikonda kwa kanthaŵi kochepa.
Chitsanzo chotsatiranso ndi chizindikiro chodziwika cha kudzikonda mwa amuna. Muli ndi pulezidenti wotsiriza, gulu la mphesa kapena zina. Wosankhidwa wanu, osadodometsa, akhoza kudya gawo lomaliza la mankhwala, popanda kuganiza kuti mungakonde kudya. Izi zimachitikanso chifukwa makolo ake adamubweretsa. Pofuna kuthetsa vutoli, mzimayi akulimbikitsidwa kuti akhale msungwana wopanda nzeru. Mwachitsanzo, ngati adadya "yummy" yotsiriza, yesetsani kudziyesa "ndipo mphesa ziri kuti"? Yesetsani kukwiya naye. Nthawi yotsatira adzagawana nanu kapena kukupatsani gulu lomaliza la mphesa.
Azimayi ambiri amadziwa zochitika zoterezi. Ndipo amakumana mobwerezabwereza kuti amai amaona kuti amuna amtundu wawo ndi osowa. Koma ndi ichi muyenera kumenyana, chifukwa mkazi aliyense akufuna kuti azikondedwa, osati kukhala ngati amayi. Choncho, ngati munthu amasonyeza zizindikiro za kudzikonda, muyenera kupeza njira yothetsera vuto. Pang'onopang'ono, mwamuna wanu adzakhala mnzanu weniweni.