Odzikonda akuwonetseredwa kuti mumakhulupirira kuti zomangamanga zabwino padziko lapansi zilibe kanthu, komabe penapake pambali ya moyo wanu mukuganiza kuti zonse siziri choncho. Komabe, zizindikiro izi ndi chiani ndi momwe mungakhalire osadzichepetsa ndi anyamata - ndipo ndizoyenera kukhala monga choncho? Mwinamwake, fano lachitsulo chosakanizika ndi chonyansa lidzakufikirani inu mochuluka?
Kwa amuna, akazi amtundu uwu ndi amodzi otchuka kwambiri. Mukuganiza bwanji, bwanji? Inde chifukwa ndi yabwino komanso yophweka. Saliyimira ngozi iliyonse kwa munthuyo, chifukwa kudzera m'magalasi ake a pinki sakudziwa zomwe zikuchitika pansi pa mphuno zake. Ndipo sangafunse kwa munthu malingaliro kapena kusintha kwakukulu m'moyo wake. Iye amakhulupirira mwachilungamo mau ndi zochita za mnzakeyo ndipo amadikira maola kapena usiku kuchokera kumalo osamvetsetseka maulendo kapena misonkhano. Ndipo iye, amamudyetsa iye ndi nkhani zomveka zokhudzana ndi momwe akuvutikira, zovuta, koma zonsezo. Ndi penapake ngati mmbulu udakwera kubusa. Ndipo iwo onse, monga mmodzi adzakhala otsimikiza kuti mmbulu ndiwowonjezera chakudya ndi woteteza! Ndimo momwe zilili m'moyo. Amamudyetsa ndi bodza, amamuimbira pomutamanda ndikusamba m'chikondi ndi chikondi.
Tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake ndi zoipa kukhala opanda nzeru. N'zotheka kuyamba ndi mfundo yakuti naivete sikutanthauza chikhulupiliro chokhala ndi zolinga zabwino. Kuwonetseredwa kwake ndi chikhulupiliro cha chikondi pamaso pa manda, mukutsimikizika kosakayika ndi chilungamo cha dziko lathu lapansi. Izi zimayenda yekha madzulo paki, pamphepete mwa mzinda, osakhala ndi magalasi.
Nkhawa ndizokhulupilira kuti mukamapereka zonse zomwe mungathe kwa chibwenzi chanu amene akukugwiritsani ntchito ndikukunama, mudzalandira chinachake kuchokera kwa iye. Odzikweza akuwonetseredwa kuti poyambitsa chibwenzi ndi mwamuna wokwatira, ndithudi adzakuchotsani chifukwa cha inu, chifukwa amakukondani, ndipo mumamuchitira zonse zomwe mkaziyo sachita. Inde, ndi wokongola komanso wamng'ono kuposa iwe. Ndiponso, iye mwiniwake akukuuzani za izi, chaka kale, koma mzimayi wamkazi samapereka chisudzulo. Ndizabwino kuganiza kuti mnyamata yemwe sakusangalatsani adzakwatirana ndi kukondana mukatha kutenga pakati. Izi mumangodzimva kuti mukumva zowawa, ndipo mwana wopanda bambo amakula, zomwe siziwonetsere kuti ndiivety, komanso egoism. Ndi zopusa komanso zopanda nzeru kuti panthawi yomweyi mukhulupirire kuti ngati mutakwatira kale, mukhoza kuyenda mozungulira mwinjiro wonyansa, ndi tsitsi lopunduka komanso miyendo yosaphimbidwa. Mukuyenera kuti musamangoganizira chabe munthu, komanso kuti musunge, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Ndipo mu mawonekedwe awa nkokayikitsa kuti izi zidzachitika.
Odziletsa sayenera kukhala mtundu wa idiocy. Pamene timapanga durra poyera, ndipo tonse timalembera pa zovuta zake, zovuta komanso chiyanjano chovuta ndi makolo ake. Timakhala usiku ndikulira ndikudzizunza tokha ndi mafunso monga "Ndingakhulupirire bwanji?", "Ndipusa bwanji", "Ayi, sakanakhoza kundichitira izi", ndi zina zotero. Ndiyeno m'mawa timayitana, kuthamanga, timapita kwa iye kukapepesa, tikupempha kuti atikhululukire zomwe adakuchitirani! Ndipo patapita nthawi, chirichonse chimabwereza. Inunso musayang'anenso zakukhosi ndi zakuda mtima, zopweteka zomwe zimapweteka pa inu. Inu mumadzidutsa nokha ndi ... mobwerezabwereza.
Koma pali anyamata omwe ali ngati atsikana osadzikonda osati chifukwa choti amatha kuwongolera mosavuta, komanso chifukwa chakuti amamverera kuti ali otetezeka kwambiri azimayi awo. Choncho, amazindikira zosowa zawo za zinyama.
Nazi mfundo zochepa zofunikira pa "Zizindikiro za naivete komanso momwe mungakhalire osadzichepetsa ndi anyamata", koma musanayambe kulangiza malingaliro onse, muyenera kuganizira: koma kodi mungakhale ndi njira yabwino yochitira naivete yabwino?
Pambuyo pa zonse, nkofunikira kukhala osadziwa osati kwenikweni, koma osangalatsa. Ndiye zikuwoneka bwino komanso zachilengedwe. Musamuvutitse aliyense, makamaka chibwenzi chanu. Ndipo kukuthandizani inu mu moyo, koma simungasokoneze. Lolani wokondedwa wanu amvetse kuti ali wamphamvu, wochenjera komanso wodziwa zambiri kuposa inu. Koma izi ziyenera kuchitidwa mwanzeru. Njira iyi idzangowonjezera ubale wanu. Inu mumadziwa zonse ndikuwona zonse, koma onetsetsani kuti mukukhala osadziwa ndipo simumvetsa chilichonse. Muyenera kuphunzira kuti simungakhulupirire wina aliyense mpaka mapeto, ndipo mphungu wanu wabwino ndi amayi anu. Ndipo chirichonse mu dziko lino chikhoza kuchitika, zonse zozizwitsa ndi tsoka. Mwatsoka, maubwenzi abwino ndi amuna palibe.