1. Kumbukirani maloto atatu oyambirira a ana
Mwana wamng'ono, inu munali wofufuza wamkulu. Iwo ankafuna kukhudza, kusonkhanitsa ndi kusokoneza zomwe angakwanitse. Ndipo chinachitika ndi chiyani? Kodi chinachitika n'chiyani pachithunzichi? Inu munazibisa izo kuti muzisunga. Tiyeni tikumbukire zomwe mwalota, ndipo tidzakubweretsani chidwi chanu.
Lembani zonse zomwe mumakonda mukakhala ana. Lembani mndandanda. Chotsani chirichonse kupatula zinthu zitatu. Lembetsani mndandanda mpaka izi zitawapweteka, ndipo pokhapokha mutha kumvetsa zomwe zofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu wakale. Awa ndiwo miyala yanu yamakona yomwe mungakonze tsogolo lanu.
2. Pangani Maloto Osawonongeka Opasuka & Opezeka
Tengani bokosi, mwachitsanzo nsapato, ndipo ikani pansi pafupi ndi desiki. Itanani izo "maloto otayika" Otaika ndi Opezeka. "Lembani makalasi onse pa mapepala ang'onoang'ono omwe simukuyenera kuwafikako ngati mutadzipereka ku cholinga chimodzi. mukufuna kulankhulana posachedwa, lembani zilakolako zonse zowonongeka, kugwira ntchito ndi zinyama, kupita ku Hawaii, phunzirani kupanga zobiriwira zadongo, ndi zina zotero.
Mwina, tsiku lidzafika pamene mudzakhale mfulu, mudzafuna kukumbukira malotowa - ndipo simungathe. Koma ngati muwasunga m'bokosi, adzakudikirirani. Zonse zomwe zikupitirira kuyambira ubwana kapena kubwerezedwa m'maganizo - ichi ndi chilakolako chanu.
3. Beac
Khala pansi ndi kuika mlonda patsogolo pako. Ndipo tsopano kwa masekondi makumi atatu mutembenuzire kukhala mtsogoleri wa zidziwitso ndi kunena za izo zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti aliyense akufuna kukhala ali mmalo mwanu. "Ndine woyendetsa ndege. Kukhala ndi ufulu kumwamba - zabwino. Koposa zonse ndimakonda kukwera pamwamba pa mapiri ndikutsatira mtsinjewu, ndikuuluka pakati pa makoma a miyala. Ndimakonda kulira kwa galimoto komanso kumverera kwa mphamvu. "
Kodi mumamvetsa? Yesetsani nokha ndikuyamba ndi woyendetsa ndegeyo - chifukwa cha zosangalatsa. Kenako bwereza mobwerezabwereza, koma nthawi iliyonse ndi njira ina. Khalani woyamba wa ballerina ku Bolshoi Theatre, wofufuzira wa Antarctic, wosaka chithunzi cha cheetahs. Ganizirani za chirichonse, ndiyeno mukhale wofalitsa mwatsatanetsatane wa izi. Ngati n'kotheka, sungani anzanu ndikuyesa pamodzi. Tikukulonjeza kuti mudzazikonda.
4. Tangoganizirani kuti ndinu wolimba mtima komanso wamtendere
Tiyeni tiganizire zinthu ziwiri. Choyamba, ndiwe wolimba mtima ndipo nonse muli pamapewa. Ndipo kachiwiri, taganizirani kuti mutsimikizirika kuti mutha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino komanso mwakhama sangakuopeni. Tsopano ndiuzeni zomwe mukuchita - lembani pa pepala kapena pa zojambulazo mayankho 20 pa funso lakuti "Kodi mungatani ngati muli olimba mtima ndipo mumadziwa bwino zomwe mungakwaniritse?"
5. Pezani zolemba za anthu otchuka
Zolemba za anthu omwe anali kuchita chimodzimodzi kuposa inu. Ndipo mbiri ya anthu omwe sanachite zonse zomwe inu muli. Ena mwa anthu a ku Russia ndi akunja, anthu am'nthaŵi ndi mbiri yakale.
Anthu ambiri ankalankhula za moyo wawo kuti zidzakuthandizani kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire.
6. Ganizirani tsiku lanu langwiro
Aliyense wamvapo za zochitika za "Ideal Day". Khalanso tsiku lanu lokongola, koma nthawi ino mverani mfundo zitatu.
Choyamba, taganizirani mphindi yomwe mumakonda mu maloto anu. Kodi ndendende zomwe ziyenera kuchitika? Kodi ndichinthu chofunikira chanji mu malingaliro anu?
Chachiwiri, ganizirani momwe mungamasulire ndi kupuma mu moyo wanu wabwino?
Chachitatu, dzifunseni mafunso:
- Mu malingaliro anu, maloto amakwaniritsidwa kokha atatha kulowerera kwa mphamvu zakunja?
- Pamapeto pake, kodi chipulumutso kapena mphoto ndikukudikirirani, ndi anthu apadera okha omwe amapeza?
- Mu malingaliro awa inu "mumapeza" kapena "kutsegula"?
- Ndipo funso lodziwika kwambiri: ndi moyo wanu wopanda cholinga popanda mapeto osangalatsa chotero?
7. Lembani maluso anu onse
Mukadakhala anthu khumi, kodi aliyense wa inu angasinthe bwanji moyo wanu? Lembani zomwe mumachita m'moyo uliwonse. Mukufuna zoposa khumi? Chonde. Lembani momwe mukufunira! Mndandanda ungawonekere monga wolemba ndakatulo, woimbira, wogulitsa malonda, katswiri wamasewero, katswiri wakuphika chakudya chodyera, woyendayenda, wamaluwa, mwamuna ndi bambo, wolemba nkhani, wokamba nkhani.
Muli ndi mndandanda m'manja mwanu, patsogolo panu muli tsogolo lanu. Kuti mupeze njira yokhalamo aliyense wa miyoyo imeneyi, yankhani mafunso awa:
- Kodi ndi moyo wotani umene mungapereke chaka chamawa?
- Kodi mungakhale ndi moyo wotani mukamadziwa choyamba?
- Kodi mungatani maminiti makumi awiri (kapena osachepera) tsiku lililonse?
- Ndipo chiani_mapeto a sabata?
- Kodi mungatani nthawi ndi nthawi?
Musaganize za momwe mungagwirizane ndi dziko lino - ganizirani momwe mungakhalire moyo kuti mukhale nawo maluso anu ambiri.
8. Pangani ndondomeko ya zaka 100
Gawani pepala muzitsulo zinayi:
- Zaka (5, 10, 15 ndi zina zotero, mpaka zaka 100).
- Chochitika chachikulu.
- Kodi ndaphunzira chiyani?
- Chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri chimene ndachiwona.
Musanafike msinkhu wanu, zigawozi zikuyenera kudzazidwa ndi zofunikira zenizeni - ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, amapita ku sukulu, makumi awiri adasamukira ku Moscow, akwatirana pa 25, ndi zina zotero. Pitirizani mpaka pano, ndipo pitirirani - pangani tsogolo lanu: muzaka 50 mudapita ku Tibet, pa 65 mudakwatirana. Pangani dongosolo lanu lazaka 100! Tulutsani malingaliro a ufulu! Pambuyo pomaliza masewerowa, lembani kuti njira iyi yodalitsika muzaka zana ikuphunzitsani bwanji. N'zotheka kuti mupeze cholinga cha moyo.
9. Yendetsani mwakhama ku maloto mkati mwa ola limodzi
Kanthu kochepa kuchokera pa kulingalira ku chenicheni kumabweretsa mpumulo wodabwitsa. Mu ola lotsatira, tilumikizane mwakhama ndikupita ku cholinga chanu. Ikani timer kwa ola limodzi ndi kudzipereka nokha ku zolinga kapena maloto omwe mwakhala nawo mukatha kuchita masewero 8 oyambirira. Imani mu ola limodzi. Kapena musayime. Ikani mantha onse ndi onse "ngati." Lekani kukonza! Limbikirani, kuvomereza, lonjezano, pita kunja kwa pakhomo, chitani. Pakalipano.
Mwa njira, ngati simumverera mantha kapena kukayikira kwa nthawi inayake, koma mumakhala okondwa ndi chimwemwe, ndiye ndinu wokonzeka kupita kudziko ndikuzindikira zochitika zanu zodabwitsa.
Moyo ndi wochepa kwambiri kuti usakhale wopanda cholinga. Moyo ndi wosangalatsa kwambiri kuti ukhale moyo wopanda chilakolako. Chitetezo ndi choopsa kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Mu kuya kwa moyo wanu, mumalota zosangalatsa. Inu muli omasuka kwathunthu kuti musankhe maloto. Kodi mukufuna kuchita chiyani ndi moyo wanu? Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani ndi izo?
Chilichonse chimene mungasankhe, kudzoza ndi kukumbirani inu!
Malinga ndi bukhu "Kodi mungalota bwanji."