Udindo wa kusewera pa chitukuko cha ana

Palibe nthawi yeniyeni yomwe mwana ayenera kusewera yekha, ndi kuchuluka kwake pagulu. Masewera ndi ntchito yaikulu ya mwana aliyense. Mofananamo ndi munthu wamkulu, ntchito ndi makalasi muzochita zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda. Ndipo momwe akulu onse aliri ndi zosankha zawo pa nthawi yochuluka yopereka kwa izi kapena ntchitoyo, chitani limodzi ndi wina kapena mmodzi, ndipo ana asankhe mwachangu mawonekedwe a masewera omwe ali pafupi nawo pakali pano. Yerekezerani ndi ena, iwonetseni njira yeniyeni, ndithudi, siyiyenera. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kusamvetsera nthawi zonse kumaseŵera omwe mwana amasankha, momwe amasewera. Masewerawa ndi ntchito yaikulu kwambiri, ndipo mawonekedwe ake amadalira osati chikhalidwe cha mwanayo, koma maseŵerawo akhoza kuthandizira mwachindunji mapangidwe ake. Pogwiritsa ntchito masewerawa, munthu wamng'ono akukulitsa umunthu wake, luso lake likuwonetseredwa, wina akhoza kunena kuti zomwe mwanayo amasewera zimakhudza moyo wake wachikulire. Choncho masewera a ana ayenera kupatsidwa chidwi chapadera. Masewera aliwonse ali ndi nthawi yake
"Iye ndi wokondana kwambiri!" Sali ngakhale theka la chaka, koma nthawi zonse amafikira ana ena, amakonda kusewera nawo. " Ngati makolo akamba za mwana wamng'ono kwambiri, ndiye kuti amakhala omasuka. Mwana wa zaka pafupifupi 2.5-3 sangathe kusewera ndi anzawo. Iye, ndithudi, akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi ana ena ndi zidole zawo, koma amatcha masewero mokwanira sangathe, chifukwa palibe kulankhulana kwachangu. Masewera a mwanayo mpaka zaka zapakati pa 1.5-2 angatchedwe pokhapokha, ndiko kuti, amatha kuchita zomwe adzichita panthawiyi. Ndicho chifukwa chake ana a m'badwo uno amapanga tarar yathunthu: atatenga chidole chimodzi ndikusewera nacho pang'ono, nthawi yomweyo amasintha chinthu china chimene iye amachikonda. Pa msinkhu womwewo, mwana akhoza kusamala (komanso osati kwa nthawi yayitali) kuseri kwa masewera ena. Kuyambira zaka ziwiri mpaka zitatu, ana amakopeka ndi masewera okha ndi maseŵero kapena otchedwa masewera ofanana, pamene mwanayo amasewera yekha, koma pafupi ndi ana ena. Izi zikuwonekera makamaka mu gulu la anyamata kapena pagulu la masewera. Anyamata onse akumanga chinthu pawokha, aliyense pa "malo" ake. Nthawi zina ana amapita ndipo mwachiwonekere amasokonezana wina ndi mzake, koma si kosavuta kutenga mwanayo kumapeto ena a khoti. Mmodzi adzakhala wosasangalatsa pamenepo. Kupanga aliyense kusewera palimodzi ("Tiyeni tisonkhanitse magalimoto onse ndi kumanga garaji imodzi yaikulu) sizingakhale zophweka, pakadali pano, munthu wamkuluyo ayenera kulowa mu masewerawo ndikuyendetsa ntchitoyi." Pazaka zino, ana sakudziwa kukambirana, kukhazikitsa malamulo, kukhazikitsa mauthenga amphamvu Mu masewero ofanana omwe akungophunzira zinthu zonsezi.

Gawo latsopano pa chitukuko cha masewera kwa ana ndi masewera okhudzana. Gawo ili nthawi zambiri limayambira patapita zaka zitatu. Pakati pa ana pali kusinthana kwa zidole, amauzana za masewera awo, kuti nthawi yaying'ono ichitike, yokonzedwa ndi wina, koma nkhani yonse ndi malamulo ena apo. Mwana aliyense amasewera momwe amaonera. Ndipo pambuyo pa zaka 4, pali luso la masewera onse. Ana akatha kusonkhana pamodzi ndikuika malamulo ena pa masewerawa, tsatirani zolinga zake ndikutsatira nkhaniyi. Masewera oterewa akhoza kukhala aliwonse - masewera, chidziwitso, kusewera nawo, koma mulimonse pali kugwirizana ndi chiyambi choyamba. Pofuna kukwaniritsa chotsatira chogwirizana, mwana aliyense ayenera kumangoyenda. Ndipo izi, mosakayikira, ndizopindula kale. Masewera onse oyambirira akhala. Malingana ndi momwe zinthu zilili, maganizo a mwanayo nthawi zina amatha kubwerera kwa iwo.
Mfundo zazikulu
Makolo samadandaula konse ndipo samadandaula ngati mwana wawo akufuna kusewera ndi ana ena okha ndipo sangathe kuthera nthawi yokha. Ntchito, kusagwirizana ndi anthu omwe amawoneka kuti ndi ofunikira omwe amachititsa kuti moyo ukhale wopambana, chifukwa ana omwe amacheza nawo nthawi zonse amakhala osangalala. "Ziribe kanthu komwe iye ali, nthawi yomweyo amakhala ndi abwenzi, amatha kubwera ndi chinachake," "Wochenjera, wolankhula, ngakhale pa asanu ndi atatu ake amadziwa nthawi ndi zomwe anganene," adatero akuluakulu. Inde, ndi masewera ophatikizana omwe amapanga luso loyankhulana pazochitika zosiyanasiyana, kuthekera kukonzekera khalidwe lawo. Ngakhale kudziwa kuti kulankhulana kwachinsinsi kungatheke ngati mwanayo akungoyang'ana momwe ena amasewera ndi kulankhulana. Koma luso lawo m'munda umenewu silingatheke popanda kuchita. Ana omwe amakonda kusewera mu kampani amakhala otseguka kwambiri, osavuta kukambirana, osati makamaka nkhawa za kukangana kolephera. Komabe, musasokoneze masewerawo nokha. Amaphunzitsanso zambiri. Kufunika kwawo kwakukulu ndiko kukula kwa luso lawo lodzigwira okha. Ngati sichoncho, munthuyo amayamba kuledzera kwa ena ndipo samakonda nthawi zonse kulankhulana. Ana omwe sadziwa kusewera pawokha nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino komanso owopsa. Mwana wosasunthika amakhala pomwepo ndikukanda zitsulo. Kapena amaimirira pazenera ndikuwatsuka mamasamba a duwa. Kapena amayamba kusokoneza khate lakugona. Chifukwa wina yemwe sadziwa kusewera, nthawi zonse amayamba kuswa kanthu. Mwana yemwe amadziwa kusewera popanda kutenga nawo mbali, ali wodziimira yekha komanso woupanga - kupeza phunziro losangalatsa ndilovuta kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, musapatse mtundu wina wa masewera. Zonse ziwiri ndi zofunikira ndizofunikira pa chitukuko.

Ndipo tiyeni tonse tipite pamodzi!
Ngati zikuwoneka kuti mwanayo samasewera mokwanira ndi anzako ndipo mukufuna kuphunzitsa mwa chikondi chake, muyenera kudziwa ngati vuto lenileni ndilo kapena maganizo athu enieni.

Makolo ambiri ali ndi chithunzi cha mwana woyenera. Tsoka, sikutheka kupanga mwana kapena mwana wamkazi chimodzimodzi ndi malingaliro athu. Zambiri zimadalira makhalidwe osadziwika a dongosolo lamanjenje, ndipo mwanayo azikhala mogwirizana pokhapokha ngati talingalira izi. Mwana yemwe amadziwa kusewera ndi ana ena samaopa kulankhulana, komabe amasankha maseŵera ochepetsetsa komanso ochepa kwambiri. Sakusowa kuti achite mwadala, chifukwa cha "kufunika kokambirana zambiri," kufunafuna kampani. Vuto lingathe kuonedwa kuti ndilo vuto limene mwanayo alibe ubale ndi anzake. Mwachitsanzo, sangathe kusewera popanda kuphwanya malamulo. Nthawi zonse zimayambitsa mikangano, ndewu, kapena mantha. Izi zimachitika kuti makolo okha, mwinamwake ngakhale osadziŵa, amapanga malingaliro oipa kwa onse. Kuopa kuipa kapena kuchitira nkhanza ana, amachotsa mwana wawo kumabwalo a masewera a ana, alisungireni "ana awa", ndipo onetsetsani kuti kusewera pamodzi ndi bwino. Limbikitsani masewero a mwanayo, ngakhale ngati pali chinachake mu masewera simunjira momwe inu mukufunira. Muphunzitseni ndi kukhululukira, ndikumangirira, ndikuumirira nokha, ndi kuvomereza - koma osati molimbika, koma mwa njira yokhala ndi uphungu ndi ndemanga. Lembetsani zoyankhulirana, ngati muwona kuti mu kampani yaikulu, mwana amavuta kusewera.

... Ndipo imodzi ndi yabwino
Ndipo ngati ntchitoyi ndi yosiyana - kuphunzitsa kusewera nokha? Timaphunziranso khalidwe poyamba.

N'zovuta kuphunzitsa mwana chikondi chake chomwe chimakhala ndi tanthauzo loipa kwa iye. Ana omwe, monga chilango, amalephera kuyankhulana kapena kunyalanyaza, sadzazindikira konse zithumwa za kusungidwa. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuphunzira kusewera nokha ngati akulu akudziona kuti ndiwewekha ngati vuto. "Kodi tidzakhala pakhomo tsiku lonse? Mungafe ndichisoni!" Akuluakulu ayenera kupeza ntchito zawo ndikuwonetsa mwanayo kuti akhoza kukhala osangalatsa. Nthawi zina kusalephera kusewera nokha ndi chizindikiro cha kuswa. Ana omwe ali ndi vuto la kusowa kofunikira amafunikira kukhudzidwa kwanthawi zonse, ndi kovuta kuti iwo aganizire pa malingaliro awo, kusunga ndondomeko yawo ndi cholinga chawo. Ndikofunika kuzidziwitsa masewera amodzi - izi zidzakhala zabwino kuwonjezera pa mankhwalawa. Zoona, makolo amafunikira nthawi yochuluka ndi kuleza mtima. Choyamba muyenera kusewera limodzi kapena kungokhala pafupi. Onetsetsani momwe mwanayo amasewera, funsani mafunso panthawiyi, musokoneze ngati mukuwona kuti watopa. Musayese kumuletsa kusewera malinga ndi momwe mungathere. M'malo mwake, sokonezani pamene simunayambe kudyetsa. Chomwecho chidzakhala chidwi, chikhumbo chobwezera kusewera kachiwiri.