Ndipo wina amakhulupirira kuti uwu ndi mwayi wopitiliza ntchito, peŵani mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku, musawope kutaya kuwala mu kugonana. Mwa mawu, kwa aliyense wake. Tiyeni tiyesetse kumvetsetsa ubwino ndi zovuta zonse za banja la alendo.
Kotero chomwe iye alidi, banja la alendo? Pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi amakondana ndipo akufuna kuti akhale pamodzi, amalowa m'banja lalamulo, nthawi zina amangoyamba kukhala pamodzi, muukwati. Koma momwe amagwiritsira ntchito moyo wawo pamodzi ndi kusankha kwa gulu lirilonse. Ndipo izi zingakhudze malo okhala, ndi ntchito, ngakhale thanzi.
Mzanga wina amakhala ku St. Petersburg, zaka zingapo zapitazo anakwatira Finn. Ku Russia, akuthamanga kampani yaing'ono, ali ndi malonda a nthawi yaitali, makasitomala, nyumba yake, mwana wamkazi wamkulu. Kodi achite chiyani ku Finland? "Ntchito" ya wogulitsa, komanso mayiyo, samamukoka. Mkazi wokhudzidwa yemwe wataya udindo wake waumphawi adzasanduka mdima wofooka chifukwa cha mavuto a pakhomo, osakhala wokondweretsa ngakhale kwa iyemwini. Mkwatibwi wa amithenga ndiwo njira yothetsera banja lino. Mlungu m'dziko lililonse. Ali ndi mwayi wonyada ndi mkazi wokhulupirira, ndipo amamukonda ndipo amamukonda, ndipo palibe chisokonezo cha pakhomo chomwe chimaphatikizapo ubale wawo. Ndipo, ngakhale ali ndi zaka (pakuti zonsezi sizinali zoyamba), kugonana kwawo kungakwiyitse ena achichepere ang'onoang'ono.
Izi zimachitika kuti maanja akhoza kuthera limodzi kapena kumapeto kwa mlungu. Mu nthawi yathu yopenga, pamene intaneti imalola kuti musadziŵe, koma ngakhale kukondana patali, ubwino wa ukwati wotere ndi wowonekera. Anthu ambiri sangathe kusiya moyo wawo kuntchito kapena m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma nthawi ndi nthawi, aliyense akhoza kusintha moyo wamba.
Nanga banja lachilendo ndi liti, akazi achikulire? Pakati pa amayi achikulire, ambiri ndi osakwatiwa: umasiye, kusudzulana, ntchito ... Mzimayi wachitapo kale, ana adakula, amakhala moyo wawokhaokha, koma amakhala omasuka kuyanjana, komanso kugonana. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amatha kukhala ndi zizoloŵezi, malamulo ena a moyo. Ndipo pamene munthu yemwe ali ndi ziphuphu zimalowa m'moyo uno, pamakhala nkhondo. Pokhapokha mutasintha zizoloŵezi zanu, chabwino, kapena zake ... Vuto lokhalo ndilo kuti m'badwo uno palibe amene akufuna kuti asinthe. Ndipo chikho chodetsedwa amachoka pafupi ndi makompyuta, ndi masokosi pansi pa kama, ndipo chubu ndi phala sizikutseka. Ndipo masiku angapo pa sabata, iye ndi wokongola komanso wachikondi! Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mavuto ang'onoang'ono monga chivomezi amatha kapena kapampu yamakono akhala akuphunzira kuthetsa payekha.
Mwamuna amene ali m'banja lachilendo amapeza mwayi wofunikira, kumverera chikondi chachikazi ndi chikondi, koma osatayika ufulu wake. Mukhoza kusuta mu khitchini, osati pa khonde, penyani nkhani zamitundu yonse madzulo, osati mndandanda wosautsa, ndipo mukhoza kugonana ndi chikhumbo chanu, osati mwa pempho la mkazi wanu.
Palinso chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Kutaya zolakwika zaukwati zomwe zikugwirizana ndi mavuto a "abambo ndi ana." Ana, monga mukudziwira, pa msinkhu uliwonse amakhala ndi nsanje kwambiri kwa makolo awo. Pankhani yaukwati wa alendo, ana amabwera kwa makolo awo panthawi yabwino kwa aliyense, ndipo palibe choopsa chokumana ndi mnzanu mwangozi.
Moyo wamakono umatipatsa machitidwe osiyanasiyana. Ndipo mukhoza kusankha njira yokhayo yolumikizana yomwe imakuyenererani. Kenako moyo wanu udzawala ndi kuwala, kodabwitsa mitundu!