Thandizani mnansi wanu, koma musamavulaze konse.

Thandizani mnansi wanu, koma musamavulaze konse - osati kwa iye, kapena kwa inu nokha! Inde, zonse nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Ndipo ngati mutachita chinachake mwa inu nokha, munthu aliyense wochenjera mwanjira ina amamvetsetsa, ndiye momwe mungakhalire pamene chibwenzi chokhala ndi "sabata lachisokonezo chachikulu" kapena wina pamapewa akugwedeza mlongo yemwe "ali ndi mavuto pantchito kotero kuti mwina osapita kumeneko, koma mtsogoleri uyu adakhala ngati wowomba "...? Chipulumutso cha madzi. Pofuna kuthandiza mnzako, koma kuti asamavulaze kwathunthu - izi ziyenera kukhala pomwepo ndi munthu amene amathandiza. Pamene simunapemphe thandizo, monga lamulo, chinthu choyenera kwambiri sikusokoneza njira zodzifunira: pali chiopsezo chachikulu chochita kusungirako. Pamene mukudandaula mwachindunji, ndikuwerengera inu kuti muthe kuchepetsa mavuto - muli ndi zisankho zitatu.
1. Chotsani mozama kapena molakwika. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti simungathe kuthandiza mnzako, ingochita nawo zinthu zosasangalatsa. Komabe, pamene adakhumudwa.
2. Kuti asamapweteke kwathunthu, iye kapena iye mwini sayenera kuthamangira ku chipulumutso, ngati kulumphira m'madzi pakumva kulira kwa munthu akumira, osaganiza ngati akudziwa kusambira. N'zotheka kuti mphamvu yozizwitsa idzakutengerani inu nonse, koma zikhoza kuchitika kuti inu nonse mudzamizidwa.
3. Ganizirani momwe mungathandizire wodwalayo. Fotokozani kwa iye kuti siwe wamatsenga, koma phunzirani - ndipo musamulonjeze kuti mumupulumutse, koma fotokozani masomphenya anu - mwina, thandizo. Ndipo gwiritsani ntchito gawo la psychotherapeutic naye. Amateur, ndithudi, kuchokera ku mawu akuti chikondi. Ndipotu, munthu amene simukumukonda sangathe kubweretsa phindu lenileni.

Msonkhano wa chiyambi. Kutonthoza munthu sikovuta kwambiri. Pazimenezi muyenera: Mvetserani mwatcheru ndikumvetsera mwachidwi. Kuyankhula, fuula kwa munthu yemwe amachititsa chidaliro - ichi chokha chimabweretsa mpumulo. "Wodwala" akhoza, podziwa kwake, kuti amvetsetse zomwe akusowa. Mulole wodwalayo adziwe kuti siyekha m'dziko lino lapansi. Perekani zitsanzo za momwe izi zinachitikira kwa anzanu, kapena bwino - momwe munayesedwera ndi vuto lofanana nokha. "Pierrot yachisoni" nthawi zambiri imakhala yovuta kwambiri pakali pano. Zikuwoneka kuti moyo wakulakwitsa ndipo palibe chomwe chiri patsogolo. Pofuna kuthandiza mnzako, ndi bwino kumukumbutsa za chuma chammbuyo - "Ndingathe, musaiwale! Ndipo zonse zidzatha, iyi si bulu yopambana kwambiri. " Pomalizira pake, musamangoganizira zowawa, koma pa mfundo zina za "ndondomeko yothetsera vutoli." Zochita zenizeni zimakhumudwitsa. Ngati interlocutor ali ndi dongosolo ndi chisangalalo, mukhoza kumukonza "kuseka".

Kuwathandiza kupeza zovuta kumbali , ndikubweretsa "kuwongolera" mpaka kufika posazindikira. Pambuyo pake, munthu amene angaseke mavuto awo, ayamba kale kuwathetsa.
Wachiritsi, adachiritsa yekha. Kuti musamavulaze kwathunthu ndi nokha, yongolerani zina mwazothandiza zedi maganizo anu. N'chifukwa chiyani mumakonda kuthandiza ena? Kuchokera kudzidzimva: kudzimva ndi kosangalatsa kwambiri; kuthandiza anthu, mumadzitamandira nokha.

Kuthandizira: Pamene zabwino, ndipo pafupi ndi wina woipa ndi wolemetsa, mumamva bwino. Kuchokera mukumverera kwa kuyamikira: ambiri atachotsa vuto linalake, adzipereka okha kuthandiza abale mu vuto lomwe kale. Kuchokera kulakalaka kugawidwa ndi zochitika: mumadziwa kanthu - ndipo ndikofunikira kwa wina. Zidakali kuti mudzidziwe nokha ndikuwonjezera kuchuluka kwa zabwino padziko lapansi. Pofuna kuthandiza mnzako bwino, musamalimbikitse chisoni chake: amati, mavuto anu onse ndi opusa. Musafulumire kuganiza ndi malangizo. "Ndidzawononga mavuto a wina ndi manja anga" si mfundo yothandiza kwambiri.