Anthu ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi funso la momwe nthawi yogonana imadalira. Kutalika kwa kugonana kumadalira kukula kwa msinkhu wa munthu. Pamene chisangalalo cha munthu sichinafikire malire, mu nthawi ya kutha msinkhu, chiwerewere chikhoza kuoneka kuti ndi chotalika. Pakati penipeni pa zaka makumi awiri ndi ziwiri (22) nthawi yachitidweyo ikucheperachepera, ndipo patatha zaka 26 nthawi yayitali pang'onopang'ono kugonana kumakula. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti ndi msinkhu, kukhutira kwa kugonana kwa munthu kumapita pansi.
Chomwe chimatsimikizira nthawi ya kugonana
Nthawi yoyandikana kwambiri ya kugonana imakhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha kugonana, ndi kuchuluka kwa kukakamizika, chifukwa kuwonjezera pa kugonana, munthu ayenera kuganizira ntchito yodzaba ndi zonyansa. Kutalika kwa zochitika kumadalira mkhalidwe wa munthu (kumwa mowa, mankhwala, ndi zina zotero) Heredity imathandizanso kwambiri. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ndi kugonana mobwerezabwereza masana, nthawi yotsatira iliyonse ndi 1.5-2 nthawi zoposa kuposa kale. Ndipo ndi kudziletsa kugonana, nthawi yachitidweyo yafupika. Malingana ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku, nthawi zambiri, kuyambira 1.5 mpaka 2 mphindi, coitus imatha, pamene munthuyo amapanga pafupifupi 250 zivomezi.
Sizinsinsi kuti kukumana ndi amayi ambiri nthawi imeneyi sikokwanira, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimatengera pafupifupi mphindi 10 mpaka 5 zokopa zowonongeka. Koma ziyenera kuzindikila kuti akazi okwiya amakhala okondwa mofulumira.
Kuti muwonjezere nthawi yogonana, ndibwino kuti muziligwiritsa ntchito m'mawa. Zoona zake n'zakuti akadzutsa chidwi cha munthu sichikulirakulira. Amuna ena amaima kanthawi panthawi yogonana, kotero kuti chisangalalo chimagona. Komanso, amuna amavala kondomu - imathandiza kuchepetsa kukhumudwa kwa mutu wa mbolo, kutenga malo kuchokera pansi kuti mukhale osangalala komanso osokoneza. Koma abambo adziwe kuti sikofunika kuwonjezera nthawi yachitidwecho, kokwanira kukonzekera mkazi kuti akhale pachibwenzi, mothandizidwa ndi koresses oyambirira. Pokhala ndi ubale wokwanira, onse awiri amatha kugonana mosavuta komanso mofulumira, chifukwa amadziwa kupeza "chinsinsi" kwa wina ndi mzake.
Kuchokera pa zomwe zimachepetsa nthawi yogonana
Chizolowezi chomwe chimatenga mphindi zosachepera 1.5-2 chimaonedwa kuti ndi chachidule. Izi ndi zotsatira za kuthamanga msanga kwa msanga. Izi zikhoza kuchitika pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Achinyamata ambiri m'mayambiriro a chiwerewere amakumana ndi vuto ngati kukwera msanga. Nthawi yokwanira kugonana imakhala yachibadwa pamene moyo wa kugonana umakhazikika. Mavuto amene munthu amachititsa mantha ndi nkhawa ndi omwe amachititsa kuti munthu ayambe kusamba msanga. Izi zikhoza kukhala: khalidwe losayenera la mnzanuyo, zinthu zosayenera, etc. Kupititsa patsogolo kwadzidzidzi kungatheke komanso kosakhala ndi chizoloŵezi, nthawi zambiri kukhudzana ndi mkazi wozizira amene kugonana sikukondweretsa. Pokhala ndi mantha ochulukitsitsa kwa amuna, kugonana kungakhale kochepa nthawi zonse. Ndi nthawi yaitali yodziletsa, kugonana kungakhalenso kochepa. Kufupikitsa kwa nthawi yogonana kungakhale chifukwa cha kusowa tulo, kutopa kwathunthu. Amuna omwe ali ndi nkhawa komanso osakondeka, zolephera za m'mbuyo mwa psyche zingathe kukhazikitsidwa, zomwe zimayambitsa chiyembekezo. Kulephera kwambiri, mwamsanga iwo akufuna kuzindikira. Kuonjezera apo, osati nthawi zambiri, koma chifukwa cha kukwera msanga msanga kungakhale: kuwonjezereka kwa matenda opatsirana odwala mu prostate gland ndi mavuto ena, membala wochepa wa frenum.
Kuopa kudzigonjetsa, mantha a kulephera, kusokonezeka maganizo kumayambitsa nthawi yambiri kusanayambe. Izi zikuthandizira kusemphana kwa dongosolo la mitsempha, zomwe zimapangitsa njira zomwe zimatha kuchepetsa kutha. Kawirikawiri, amuna omwe amavutika ndi vutoli sangathe kulamulira ndi kuyembekezera nthawi. Zikatero zimalimbikitsidwa kukaonana ndi katswiri.