Komabe, ziribe kanthu momwe asayansi ndi akatswiri a kuthengo akuvutikira, palibe njira yopezera yankho losavuta kufunso ili. Cholinga chachikulu, malinga ndi madokotala ambiri, si nthawi, koma kukonzekera kwa mtsikanayo, mwakuthupi ndi mwamakhalidwe.
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, pakalipano zaka zambiri za imfa ya namwali padziko lapansi ndi zaka 18. Zoonadi, izi ndi ziwerengero, makamaka, mamiliyoni a atsikana amayamba kugonana kale kwambiri. Koma madokotala amachenjeza kuti nthawi zoyamba zogonana zimayambitsa chiopsezo cha matenda opweteka a m'deralo. Zonse zimakhudzana ndi mtundu wa anatomy. Nyerereyi imasewera mtundu wa chitetezo chothandizira kuteteza kachilombo kameneka kuchokera kumatenda mpaka chitetezo cha ukazi chimapangidwa. Choopsya china, chomwe nthawi zambiri sichimaganiziridwa ndi atsikana aang'ono omwe adasankha kukhala akulu, ndizotheka kuthetsa ubongo wa epithelium, womwe uli woonda kwambiri.
Ngati tilankhula za malire a zaka zapakati, ndikoti, "posachedwa" kuti asatengere umaliseche, ndiye kuti malire awa samasuliridwa, komabe madokotala ena amati nthawi yomwe imataya nthawi, imakhala yowawa kwambiri. Komabe, lingaliro limeneli ndi lodziwika kwambiri - akatswiri ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kuchuluka kwa nyimbozi kumadalira payekha kapangidwe ka thupi la mkazi aliyense.
Osati zachipatala, koma mbali ya maganizo, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti imfa ya namwali ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa mkazi aliyense. Kuyambira pachiyambi choyamba kuti moyo wake wokhudzana ndi kugonana umadalira, kuyambira nthawi yomweyo chidziwitso cha mkazi chimabadwa. Ndipo ngati kuyambira pano ndikufunsanso funsoli, zimakhudza bwanji nthawi ya kutha kwa namwali, ndiye yankho lidzakhala losavuta: zaka zimakhudza moyo wonse wa kugonana. Pambuyo pake, pokhala ndi msinkhu, udindo umapezeka, kukhala ndi maganizo okhudzana ndi kugonana. Atsikana a sukulu, monga lamulo, musaganize za zotsatira zake, samachotserapo chidwi kapena mukuponderezedwa ndi mnzanuyo. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, nthawi zambiri sali okonzeka kutero, motero amakhala ndi mayanjano oipa okha omwe amagwirizana ndi kugonana, zomwe zingachoke pamtima wina wamkulu.
Mfundo ina yofunikira ya "nthawi yoyamba" yabwino ndi kusankha kwa wokondedwa. Inde, munthu wodziwa bwino amadziwa bwino momwe angakhalire ndi mtsikana, momwe angamasulire ndi kumusangalatsa. Komabe, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mabanja osadziwa zambiri, koma okondana wina ndi mzake, amatha kupirira bwino ntchitoyi, kumachita pang'onopang'ono, mokoma mtima komanso mwachikondi. Zirizonse zomwe zinali, ndibwino kuti musaiwale kuti kwa nthawi yoyamba mukhoza kutenga pakati kapena kutenga kachilombo, kotero simungakhoze kuiwala za chitetezo.
Nkhani yofunika, kuzunzika akazi osadziŵa zambiri, ndiko kukhumudwa kwa ndondomeko yokha. Kuwonekera kwa nthano iyi ndi chifukwa chakuti mtsikana yemwe adzikhulupirira kuti kutayika umaliseche wake ndi zowawa kwambiri, mosagwirizana ndi minofu ya abambo ali ndi mgwirizano, ndipo izi zimalepheretsa kulowa kwa mbolo ndikupweteka. Bungwe la milanduyi likhoza kukhala limodzi - kumasuka momwe tingathere, kuti tisangalale mwakukhoza kwathu komanso kuti tisachedwe.
Choncho, zimakhala zovuta kupereka yankho la funso pamene mukukhala wamkulu. Mtsikana aliyense ali payekha, ndipo pothetsa nkhaniyi muyenera kudalira, poyamba, pakumverera.