Chikondi ndikumverera kokondweretsa, ndipo mwachibadwa kuti aliyense azimva, ndipo palibe chamanyazi pa izo. Nthawi zina zimandiwoneka kuti timabwera kudziko kokha kukonda, koma ena, ndipo ngakhale ambiri, akukhumudwa panjira yolondola, kumene Mulungu watilamulira. Koma nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuvomereza munthu amene timamukonda. Nchifukwa chiyani tikuopa kunena kapena kumva mawu akuti "Ndimakukondani"? Kodi muli chiyani? Timabisa chikondi chathu chifukwa cha kusamvera, koma usiku timadandaula ndi mwayi wotha kuzindikira kapena timalota kuti tsiku lina tidzanena, timavomereza kwa wokondedwa uyu, nkuti "ndimakukondani". Koma, tsoka, ili ndi loto chabe. Ndiye chifukwa chiyani n'kovuta kunena - ndimakukondani? ? Kodi ndi zoopsa zotani?
Ndikuganiza kuti mkazi aliyense adzandimvetsa komanso momwe ndimaganizira, ndipo ndikudziwa kuti amuna amaganiza choncho. Mawu awa akufanana ndi kutaya ufulu wathu. Pambuyo poyankhula mawu awa, pali maudindo omwe anthu ambiri amawopseza. Zolinga - ndizo zomwe tikuwopa, tikuopa kutenga udindo, ndiyeno nkuphwanya. Munthu aliyense amawopa kusintha kwa moyo wake, chifukwa sakudziwa kuti ndi njira iti komanso momwe kusintha kumeneku kudzakhudzira moyo wake.
Asanalankhule mawuwa munthu ali muulendo waulere, ngati mbalame, ndipo atatha mawu awa, amadziika mu khola ndipo amadziwika ngati Kesha. Mutha kunena ngakhale kuti mawu awa akufanana ndi kuti mumadziika mu khola, motero mutaya ufulu wanu. Munthu, kuchokera ku keteti Keshi, ndi wosiyana ndi momwe munthu amadziwira za nkhanza za umunthu, koma sakudziwa karoti. Iye akuwopa kuti kukhala mu khola kwa iye kudzasanduka zovuta. Kawirikawiri ife timayesetsa kukhulupirira munthu, ndipo tikudalira, tikuopa kuledzera. Tikuopa kuti ngati titasewera mokwanira ndi ife, adzatiponyera ngati chidole chosafunika, kuswa mitima yathu ndi kudula mapiko athu, ndiyeno sitidzatha kuwuluka, ndipo sitingathe kudalira wina.
Mawu akuti "Ndimakukondani" amamanga manja ndi zikhomo zomwe zimatilepheretsa kusuntha momasuka kudzera mu moyo. Zimatilepheretsa kukhala ndi chidaliro. Ndipo tikuwopa kuti sitidzatha kugwira galasi lachikondi lopanda mphamvu mu manja athu okhwima ndi kuliponya ndikudumphwanya zidutswa ndi mtima wa wokondedwa. N'chiyani chingakhale choipa kuposa kukhumudwa kwa wokondedwa wanu?
Kapena mwinamwake simukulola kunyada kuti avomereze, ndipo mwinamwake mukuzunzidwa ndi kukayikira, koma kodi ndi munthuyo, ndipo ndimamukondadi? Tikuopa kuphonya zabwino, ndipo tikaphonya zomwe tinali nazo, timadziwa kuti izi ndizo zabwino kwambiri.
"Ndi bwino kuchita ndi kulapa kusiyana ndi kusachita ndi kulapa," anatero Boccaccio wanzeru, wamkulu. Inde, iye anali wolondola, chifukwa atachita kapena kunena, iwe udzapeza chomwe chikukuvutitsani usiku, ndipo mwa njira iyi mungapeze yankho la funso lanu mutaphunzira choonadi chonse. Ndipo mumalephera kuvutika ndi zosadziwika. Ndiponsotu, zimakhala zophweka kuphunzira ndi kukhala chete kusiyana ndi kuvutika ndi osadziwika.
Ndipo ndikufuna kuganizira mbali ina, yomwe ikuwopa kumva mawu okondedwa. Kumbukirani, mu ubwana wathu, ife tinakana ngakhale kupsyopsyona, mpaka mnyamatayo atavomereza chikondi. Mdima wamdima pambuyo pa disco, atakufikitsani pakhomo la nyumba yanu, ayenera kunena mawu okhumba omwe angakupsompsone. Ndipo, zowona kapena sizinali, mwazinthu, ndipo zinalibe kanthu kwa ife ndiye, kunali kofunika kumva mawu awa. Ife, ndithudi, tinkakhulupirira kuti ichi chinali chowonadi, ndipo analola anyamatawo kuti azipsyopsyona okha, ndipo ngakhale kuvomereza, koma, ndipo tsopano? Tsopano timalola, ndikukumbatira ndikumpsompsona, ndipo ngakhale kugona nawo kuti asamve mawu awa. Nthawi zina timakhala okonzekera chirichonse, koma osati mawu omwe atizasokoneza ife.
Mawu awa ndi okondweretsa kumva atsikana aja omwe akadakali aang'ono ndikulota kalonga wokongola pa kavalo woyera, koma osati amayi awo omwe ayamba kale kudziimira okha. Mzimayiyo, yemwe anaika ana awo pamapazi awo, adawapereka kuti aziphunzira m'malo okongola, kwa mayi amene adadzigulira galimoto yabwino ndikupita nayo ku ntchito yake yabwino, kodi amafunikira kumva mawu awa kuchokera kwa munthu? Pambuyo pake, kwa iwo ndi sitepe, iwo adzatuluka panjira, ndi chifukwa chake amasintha chinachake mu moyo, ngati kale ali bwino.
Mkazi wamalonda wodalirika, siinu nokha, kuzungulira inu muli odzaza ndi amuna omwe ali okonzekera kukulolani kuti mugwiritse ntchito nokha. Ufulu monga mphepo, yomwe imauluka modzidzidzimutsa ndikuuluka. Palibe kudzipereka kwa mwamuna, palibe ziwawa, ndewu, nsanje, misonzi, mkwiyo, zoipa ndi zoipa, zomwe zimapangitsa maonekedwe a makwinya. Ndipo mkazi wotero amawoneka wamng'ono kwambiri kuposa mkazi wokwatira. Akazi okwatirana, ndinganene kuti, ndikuwopa ndi kusasamala, nthawi zonse mumakangana ndi kukangana. Azimayi omasuka amakhala omasuka m'maganizo, ndipo amakhala omasuka pamtundu uliwonse.
Sikokwanira kuti iye ali pafupi ndi inu, kuti mupite ku mafilimu ndi malo odyera, akukuuzani mawu okongola, ndipo theka lachiwiri la bedi liribe kanthu. Kodi si zokwanira? Pa nthawi yomweyo, kwa onse, mumadzimva kuti mulibe udindo, tikhoza kunena kuti pakati panu mumaliseche, ndipo palibe china. Mofanana ndi iye mungathe kulankhulana momasuka ndi amuna ena, ndipo iye ndi akazi ena, chifukwa palibe choyenera, palibe chikondi, ndipo palibe mawu akuti "Ndimakukondani".
Koma pamene akukuuzani kuti "Ndimakukondani", ndiye simunganene kuti pali maliseche pakati panu, chifukwa ngati mbali imodzi ikukumana ndi chikondi, ndiye kuti pali chiyanjano china. Ndiyeno, ndiye pali maudindo, koma, ndithudi, muli ndi chisankho chomupatsa "kutembenuka kuchokera pachipata," kapena kumutenga ndi chikondi chake ndikusunthira kumbali yosiyana ya ubale, mpaka wapamwamba, kumene simunagwirizanitse ndi kugwirizana kwa thupi, koma komanso auzimu. Ziri kwa iwe!
Kuvomereza kwa chikondi si mawu okha, sayenera kukhala opanda kanthu, ayenera kubisa chikondi chambiri, chikondi, chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro. Inde, izi siziri mndandanda wonse womwe munthu wachikondi ayenera kufotokozera kwa wokondedwa wake, monga Archimedes adanena, "Chikondi ndi chiphunzitso chomwe chiyenera kutsimikiziridwa tsiku ndi tsiku!", Tsitsirani chikondi chanu, osati ndi mawu ndi kuvomereza, koma ndi zochita.
Koma ndikukhulupirira ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti munthu aliyense adzapeza theka lake lachiwiri. Gawo nthawi yoti mupeze, mumayenera kufotokozera zakumverera kwanu ndikusunga, kotero musawope maganizo anu, ndipo musawope kuwisonyeza. Ndipotu, aliyense ali ndi ufulu wokondwa ndi chikondi, koma si onse omwe amagwiritsa ntchito izi molondola!