Amayi ambiri masiku ano amadziwa zinthu monga moyo wapawiri, mwamuna ndi wokonda - zonsezo zimafunika. Mzimayi atang'ambika pakati pa amuna onse, posakhalitsa nthawi yovuta kwambiri yosankha imabwera, mwa njira yosiyana. Kumbali imodzi, wokonda, yemwe chikondi chake sichitha kukana mosavuta, kumbali ina, mwamuna yemwe amadziwa bwino, wodziwa bwino. Kuti apweteke mwamuna wake basi sakufuna. Kuti mupange chisankho chanu, ndipo izi ndizosapeŵeka, nkofunika kuyesa mkhalidwewo kumbali zonse.
Zinthu zomwe zimayenera kuganiziridwa ndi amayi posankha pakati pa mwamuna ndi wokonda
Ndikofunika kuvomereza mfundo yoteroyi kuti ndizosatheka kutsogolela moyo wopanda malire kwa mkazi. Musamange ziwonongeko mu ubale wa anthu. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwamunayo angadziwe mwanjira ina kuti alipo wokondedwa. Ndi bwino kuuza mwamuna kwa mkaziyo, chifukwa muyenera kumvetsa chilichonse. Koma muyeneranso kulingalira za chikhalidwe cha mwamuna wake, onetsetsani kuti zinthu zikukukondani inu.
Mayi amafunika kusankha pakati pa amuna awiri kuti adzisankhire yekha chomwe amachikonda kwambiri pachibwenzi. Wokondedwa - uyu ndi munthu watsopano, wokongola komanso wowolowa manja kuti ayamikike, koma taganizirani ngati ali woyenera kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Chilakolako chimachepa pang'onopang'ono, kodi mwakonzeka kumanga banja latsopano ndi munthu uyu, pomwe sipadzakhala zosangalatsa ndi chimwemwe nthawi zonse, komanso mavuto osiyanasiyana, chifukwa mosiyana ayi?
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe munthu watsopano wakugonjetsani. Mwinamwake inu munalowa mu intaneti yake chifukwa mudatopa ndi moyo wa banja tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma muyenera kudziwa kuti pali mavuto ngakhale m'mabanja amphamvu komanso olemera kwambiri. Ganizirani ngati mukuyenera kusintha chitetezo cha panyumba kwanu ndikukhala ndi chibwenzi chobisika.
Komanso ganizirani za zomwe zimakulepheretsani pafupi ndi mwamuna wanu, mwinamwake ndi chizoloŵezi chabe? Mwina chilakolako chatha ndipo chikondi chachoka, maubwenzi awonongeka. Mwinamwake akutambasula dzanja lake pa iwe kapena iwe uli ndi malingaliro osiyana a moyo. Mwina sizikuthandizani ndipo mukudzikuza nokha mavuto onse a m'banja. Musadule pamapewa, tiuzeni za kusasangalatsa kwanu ndi mwamuna wanu. Ngati ndinu wokondedwa kwa mnzanu, ndiye kuti adzachita zonse kuti athetse vutoli ndipo simudzakhala wosasangalala. Ndipo mwinamwake ndi kusintha kuli konse simukufuna kuti muwononge banja lanu.
Amayi ambiri, posankha pakati pa mwamuna ndi wokonda, amaiwala za ana, ndikuganiza za zosangalatsa zawo. Musanapatule ana anu kwa abambo anu, ganizirani momwe adzasiyanitsire ndi iye, momwe izi zidzakhudzire maganizo a ana. Funsani mnzanu watsopano ngati akufunitsitsa kusamalira ana anu, kaya amakonda ana. Funso limeneli lidzakuthandizira kufotokoza ndi zolinga zake mu ubale wanu.
Onaninso mosamala komanso mbali ya nkhaniyo. Kusudzulana kosatheka kudzakugwetsani mavuto, zochitika zofananazi ziyeneranso kuganiziridwa posankha. Kawirikawiri, wokonda manja sali wokonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito bwino mayi wake watsopano. Pambuyo pake, misonkhano yachangu komanso moyo wa banja nthawi zonse ndi zinthu ziwiri zosiyana.
Koma zirizonse zomwe ziri, ndi nkhani yosakhwima, mtima wanu wokha ndiye mlangizi wabwino kwambiri. Chikondi sichikhoza kusokonezedwa ndi china chirichonse. Inde, chisankho cholondola kwambiri chidzakhalabe ndi munthu amene mumamukonda kwambiri. Ndipotu moyo wopanda chikondi sungathe kupirira. Ndipotu kuyambira ali mwana, mtsikana aliyense amalota malingaliro ake. Musamamvere malangizo alionse, koma ngati banja lanu likhoza kupulumutsidwa, musaliwononge, chifukwa ichi ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali chomwe munthu ali nacho.