Inde, kusankha munthu amene angakhale mwamuna wabwino si kophweka, chifukwa m'chikhalidwe chachikondi ife tonse timavala magalasi obiriwira ndipo nthawi zambiri sitidziwa ngakhale zowopsya kwambiri zomwe osankhidwa amtsogolo sangakhale amakhalidwe abwino monga banja . Koma palinso zizindikiro zochepa zimene mungadziwe momwe mnyamata wanu amachitira ndi mkazi wake.
Akatswiri a maganizo amavomereza kuti amuna omwe amasankha akazi awo amayang'anitsitsa amayi ake. Kotero inu mukhoza kumvetsa zomwe zikuyembekezera iwo mtsogolo. Koma posankha mwamuna woyenera, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa bwino kuti mwamuna ndi mayi ake akugwirizana bwanji. Ngati ali wokhumudwitsa komanso osamvetsetsa, nthawi zonse amasangalala ndi zochitika zake komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, ali ndi mwayi waukulu kuti mkazi wake akhoza kudalira chisamaliro chomwechi.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi maganizo a ndalama. Komabe, mungapeze munthu wopatsa komanso wolemera kwambiri amene amaletsa ndalama, amapereka mphatso zogula, amasiyira kupereka mphatso kwaulere. Ndikofunikira kufufuza tanthauzo lodziwika bwino la golidi pano, chifukwa mwamuna yemwe sakudziwa kukonzekera bajeti ya banja sawerengera ndalama zomwe amafunikira kuti apeze malipiro otsatira, monga momwe amaganiza kuti kugula maluwa ndi tsankhu losavomerezeka, palibe yemwe akusowa.
Chochititsa chidwi ndi maganizo a mnyamatayo kwa ana. Tawonani momwe amamenyera ndi alongo ake aang'ono, alongo, apachibale, ana anu amzanu. Palibe chifukwa chofunsira zamtsogolo za ubwana wawo. Cholinga ichi sichiri chofunikira monga momwe chimawonekera poyamba, ndipo amuna ambiri omwe alibe chidwi ndi anthu akunja nthawi zambiri amakhala abambo abwino kwambiri. Koma ngati muwona kuti mnyamata ali ndi mphwake wokondeka ndipo amasangalala kuyankhulana ndi ana, izi ndizophatikizaponso.
Kuwona momwe mwamuna amachitira ndi amayi ena, mukhoza kuphunzira zambiri zothandiza ndi zosangalatsa. Kotero, ngati atsegula chitseko kutsogolo kwa dona, amamuthandiza kuvala zovala zakunja, kupereka njira yopitako - iyi ndi belu yabwino kwambiri. Kuti muonetsetse kuti musanakhale woyenera kwa abambo, mum'funse za omwe kale anali okondedwa. Ngati ayankha za iwo bwino kapena osalowerera, palibe chomwe chiyenera kuopedwa. Koma ngati ndemangazo ndi zowonongeka, ndipo mukuwona kuti pamene akulankhula za zomwe anali nazo poyamba, amayamba kuchita zachiwawa, osati zabwino m'tsogolomu. Tangoganizani kuti ngati akulekanitsa, adzalankhula zinthu zosasangalatsa za iwe kwa akazi ake amtsogolo.
Tawonani momwe wosankhidwa wanu akuyandikira njira yothetsera mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku: zolondola, momwe zimagwirizanirana ndi ntchito zapakhomo, zomwe zimaonedwa ngati zachikazi pazifukwa zina. Ngati mosavuta amavomereza kusamba mbale, asonkhanitse masokosi pamodzi ndi iye, yendani galu ndikuchotsa zinyalala - zomwe zili bwino kale. Fufuzani ngati mnyamata wanu akhoza kuphika chakudya chosavuta. Inde, kusakhala pamodzi ndi kovuta kumvetsa zomwe munthu ali panyumba, koma maonekedwe ena akhoza kukakamizidwa kuti abwere ndi mfundo zomveka bwino.
Funsani momwe mnyamatayo akuyankhira kwa anzake, kuti ali ndi changu chotani pokwaniritsa ntchito zake, ndi momwe akuyankhira kuthetsa mikangano yomwe ingatheke. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa ngati munthu angakwanitse kufika pamwamba pa ntchito.
Mwachibadwa, sikutheka kumudziwa munthu kwa miyezi yambiri ngakhalenso kuwuluka, koma n'zotheka kuti mkazi aliyense wowona atseke chophimba chimene chimabisa khalidwe lake. Ndipo podziwa zambiri, mudzadziwa momwe mungachitire ndi izi kapena izi.