Pankhani ya chikondi, amayi ali okonzeka kupereka nsembe, ntchito komanso matsenga, kuti akhalebe osangalatsa kwa munthu wokondedwayo. Koma kodi timafunikira zizindikiro zoterezi pamene njira yothetsera vuto ili pamwamba? Yankho la funso lakale: "Momwe mungakhalire wokongola kwa mwamuna?" - Wophatikizidwa mu chikhalidwe cha mkazi. Dzina lake ndi magnetism. Ichi ndi mphamvu yapadera yokopa, yomwe imagwira ntchito penapake pa chikhalidwe chachibadwa. Zimagwira ntchito mpaka chizoloŵezicho sichimasokoneza chiyanjano, chomwe, monga chimadziwika, chimatha kugona ngakhale zachibadwa. Kuti mubwerere ku chiyanjano cha masiku oyambirira ndi nthawi za golidi pamene munthu amakopeka ndi inu ngati maginito, n'zotheka mosavuta. Tiyeni titembenukire ku chikhalidwe chathu chachikazi ndikukumbukira kapena kuti tiphunzire momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito kuti tipindule tokha ndi wokondedwa wathu. Ndiye mungatani kuti mupange munthu wokondedwa wanu ndi munthu amene mumawakonda? Tidzakhala ndi mayanjano okondweretsa kwambiri ndi inu - osangalatsa, ofewa, opusitsa. Ndipo awa ndi angwe odalirika kwambiri kuti azigonana mwamphamvu, ndipo amatha kukhala pafupi ndi mwaufulu ngakhale munthu wosatsutsika.
Nangula sizithunzi chabe apa. Mu psychological psychology, mawu akuti "anchors maganizo" amatanthauza mgwirizano wa chiyanjano ndi chinthu china kapena chochita. Izi zikhoza kukhala chithunzi, kukhudza, kununkhiza, ndi zina. Kubwereza mobwerezabwereza chinthu china chokoma, timatchula zoyipa mwa munthuyo ndikukonzekera mgwirizanowo ngati kuti nangula akugwira mwamphamvu mphamvu. Sizingatheke kudzipereka mwadzidzidzi zokometsera zabwino ndi munthu amene angathe. Tidzagwiritsa ntchito mbali iyi ya psyche yaumunthu, kupanga zida zodalirika, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu adziwonetsetse yekha, koma "mtundu" womwewo.
Nangula # 1 Gombe lofewa
Kuyambira kale, mkazi ndi mlonda ndi mlonda wa malo. Choyenera kusunga - ntchito ya amuna. Momwe mungasungire - ntchito yeniyeni ya akazi. Mwamuna yemwe ali pa msinkhu wopanda chidziwitso nthawi zonse amanyamula mapazi ake kumene amavala zovala monga momwe amachitira, osati lamulo, koma dongosolo malinga ndi zizoloŵezi zake, komanso kumene mwana amamva ngati kuphika. Fungo ndilopadera magnetism. Mwinamwake ndi "anchors" kwambiri, chifukwa ndizo zabwino kwambiri zomwe zimakumbukira zokondweretsa. Kumvetsetsani kuti zonunkhira zimapangitsa munthu wanu kukhala wosangalala kapena kumusangalatsa, ndipo "mumamangirira" malingaliro ake.
Nangula # 2 Nyanja yachisangalalo
Mwamuna amamva bwino pamene angathe kumasuka. Kusamba kosamba ndi thovu lopaka phokoso, kutopa kutenthetsa kapena mwambo wamadzulo kumwa tiyi panthawi yokambirana momasuka kungakhale miyambo yodalirika yomwe wokondedwayo amatha kutero. Kudandaula za chitonthozo cha thupi lake ndi maganizo ake, ndipo mudzawona kuti mmalo mwa kusonkhana nthawi zonse ndi abwenzi kapena kuchedwa nthawi zonse kuntchito, adzathamangira komwe akuyembekezera chisamaliro ndi mtendere.
Nangula # 3 Nyanja ya chilakolako
Ichi ndi "nangula" yodziwika bwino kwambiri. Komabe, okalamba omwe ali pachibwenzi, zimakhala zovuta kuti asunge chilakolako chapamwamba. Zoonadi, chikondi chimachokera ku ntchito imodzi pamtima, komabe zambiri zimadalira mkaziyo. Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuti "kumangiriza" mayanjano pamaganizo onse asanu a munthu. Kuwathandiza kwambiri kumapereka zotsatira zoyenera:
- Kuwonetsa maonekedwe kumathandiza munthu kuona kudzikongoletsa kwa thupi lachikazi komanso kukongola kwa zovala (makamaka kunyumba!)
- Chiwonongeko -kuwona "manja" nkhanza zaumunthu, mizere yofewa ya thupi, kuphulika kwa tsitsi kapena mapepala ozizira a silky.
- Omvera - imvani nyimbo zomwe mumakonda kapena kuitanira kuchithunzi chodziwikiratu pamagulu awiriwo.
- Zochitazo - muzimva kukhumba kwa fungo, lomwe makamaka limakhala lochititsa chidwi kwambiri chifukwa cha fungo lotchuka-aphrodisiacs.
- Flavoring - kulawa chikondi cha kukoma, mgwirizano womwe uli wodalirika, koma wamphamvu kwambiri.
Tikukhulupirira kuti tsopano mumvetsetsa momwe mungatsimikizire kuti munthu wokondedwa wanu amakopeka ndi inu. Pitirizani mndandanda wa "anchors" omwe mungathe. Chinthu chachikulu si kukhala waulesi kudziwa munthu, kumudziwa moona mtima ndikusiya zizoloŵezi zake, zizoloŵezi ndi maloto kukhala ogwirizana ake, khulupireni ine, iwo adzakhala odalirika kwambiri kuposa unyolo wamakina!