Kotero, ndi zolakwika zazikulu ziti atsikana akamakumana ndi anyamata? Mwinamwake, poyamba, ndibwino kukumbukira zovuta. Inde, pafupifupi mayi aliyense amakonda kumusangalatsa wokondedwa wake ndikuyesera kumuthandiza mu chirichonse. Ndiwo amuna ochuluka chabe omwe akuyamba kudandaula. Chowonadi chakuti anyamata samadzimva okha kukhala oimira gawo lolimba laumunthu, pamene akuwombera fumbi particles ndikuchita zomwe sakufunsapo. Ngakhale ngati poyamba kunkweza, ndiye kuti patapita nthaŵi, anyamata sangathe kuima ndikusiya kulemekeza mkazi wawo. Munthu aliyense ndi cholengedwa chozoloŵera, choncho, mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo, ngakhale mnyamata wabwino amayamba kumunyengerera mtsikanayo ndikumukakamiza kuchita zonse zomwe akunena. Ankagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti zikhale choncho. Kumanga ubale, muyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti ndinu mkazi! Ndipo muzidzikonda nokha. Cholakwika china cha atsikana, chomwe amavomereza mu ubale wawo ndi anyamata, ndi kudzichitira okha ulemu. Ndipo siziwonekera osati m'mazokoma okha, komanso mosiyana ndi maonekedwe ake. Kawirikawiri, pamene chibwenzi chikhala motalika, asungwana amasiya kudziyang'ana okha. Inde, amuna amatikonda monga ife tilili, koma amangofuna kuona mayi pafupi ndio, osati mayi wamwamuna wokhala ndi zovala zoyera. Ine sindikuyankhula za kuti iwe uyenera kuchita tsitsi la tsitsi tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kupita kunyumba ndi phokoso la tsitsi. Koma musaiwale za zodzoladzola, zovala zabwino ndikuzisamalira nokha. Munthu sangathe kumasuka muukwati, ndikukhulupirira kuti "iye ndi wanga kwamuyaya". Izi zimagwira ntchito kwa amayi ndi abambo. Posakhalitsa, ngati wina akudzidzidzimutsa, chidwi chimayamba kutha.
Ngati tilankhula za zolakwitsa zina, sitingaiwale za nsanje ndi zonyansa. Kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi: Amuna amadana ndi amatsenga. Ndicho chifukwa chake, sikuli koyenera kutsegula scandals nthawi iliyonse. Anyamata amtengo wapatali kwa atsikana nzeru komanso kuthekera. Ngati pali kusamvetsetsana kapena kusamvetsetsana kulikonse, simuyenera kugunda mbale ndikufuula. Njira yabwino yopezera kutuluka ndiyo kudziteteza ndi kukumba zoyamba. Ngati izi zikuchitika, mukhoza kuyang'ana bwino mkhalidwewo ndikukhazikitsa mwamtendere.
Nsanje ndi chifukwa china chachikulu cha kusagwirizana. Amuna sanalemekezedwe ndi amayi omwe amakonda popanda chilolezo kuti awerenge ma SMS kapena mauthenga omwe ali nawo. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti, popanda kudziwa chithunzi chonse, koma zokhazokha, mukhoza kupeza zolakwika zolakwika. Komanso musaiwale kuti aliyense ali ndi ufulu wapadera. Ngakhale chibwenzi chako. Munthu aliyense amakhala ndi zobisika zingapo. Tiyenera kuvomereza izi ndikusiya nthawi zonse kukayikira chinachake. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti mwamuna amakukondani, ndiye palibe chifukwa chodziganizira nokha zifukwa zina. Ngati mumamuzunza nthawi zonse ndi nsanje ndi kukayikira, pali zambiri zomwe tsiku lina adzatopa kupereka zifukwa, ndipo adzatsimikizira kuti mukuganiza kuti mukuchita, ngakhale poyamba, sakufuna kuziganizira. Anyamata sakonda kuyang'aniridwa ndi kulamulira nthawi zonse. Komabe, anthu onse samamukonda. Choncho, kulakwitsa kowonjezereka kwa amayi ndi chikhumbo chomangiriza munthuyo kwa iyemwini. Izi zikuwonetsedwa mwaletsedwa kuona mabwenzi, kupita ku mpira, kumwa mowa. Kwa anyamata - ubwenzi, uwu ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri komanso yamphamvu. Ndipo, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti ngati chisankho chiri pakati pa mtsikana ndi bwenzi, ndiye musankhe mnzanu. Nthawi zina ntchitoyi ndi yolondola, nthawi zina osati, koma mfundo ndi yakuti, musanayambe mkazi kuti asamalankhulane ndi chibwenzi chake, m'pofunika kuganizira mofatsa ngati nkoyenera kuchita zimenezo. Inde, izi sizimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa milandu pamene mzimayiyo ndi kampani yosautsa, yomwe amachititsa manyazi. Ngati mnyamatayo ali ndi mabwenzi abwino, simuyenera kuwaletsa kuti awone komanso azikhala ndi nthawi yocheza nawo. Monga ngati munthuyo sanakukondeni, ali ndi nkhani zokambirana, zomwe akukambirana ndi amuna okha. Mwa ichi palibe chachilendo kapena chokhumudwitsa, chifukwa ndife osiyana ndipo palinso zinthu zomwe amayi samvetsa. Dzifunseni nokha, chifukwa pali chinachake chimene inu mumalankhula nokha ndi abwenzi ndipo simufuna kukambirana ndi mnyamata, ziribe kanthu kuti sakondedwa.
Ngati mukufuna kuti ubalewo ukhale wautali komanso wokondwa, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina mumayesa kudziimira nokha. Inde, mnyamatayo ndi khoma lamwala lomwe limateteza ndi malo osungira ku mavuto osiyanasiyana. Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, amuna amawayamikira komanso kulemekeza atsikana omwe angathe kukhala odziimira okha. Ine sindikuyankhula za kwambiri zachikazi. Ndikofunikira kuti muyesere kuchita zinthu mwanjira yomwe mnyamata amadziwira: mumavomereza mokondwera thandizo lake, koma simudzataya nokha.
Ubale umasowa nthawi zonse, kumangokhalira kugwiritsidwa ntchito, zomwe zimaperekedwa ndi mbali zonse. Kotero, musakhale Mfumukazi ya Chipale chofewa, koma, mwanjira iliyonse, simukusowa kuchita zonse ziwiri. Kulakwitsa kwa amayi ndiko kulola kukwatira kapena kukwatirana. Mu demokalase yeniyeni yamphamvu ya banja iyenera kulamulira nthawi zonse, ndipo mavuto onse ayenera kuthetsedwa mu zokambirana, osati ndi kuthandizidwa ndi poto ndi phokoso lomwe liri lamphamvu kuposa ultrasound.
Zolakwitsa za atsikana akamakumana ndi anyamata - ndizosatheka kumvetsetsa ndi kuvomereza maganizo a munthu wina kapena chikhumbo chokwaniritsa zochitika zonse ndikukwaniritsa zonse zomwe wopembedza angaganize. Ngati mtsikana amaphunzira kupeza mu golidi yonse, ndipo sadzachotsedwa pamapewa, akhoza kudalira kuti wokondedwa amakhala pafupi ndi moyo. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzikonda nokha ndi kulemekeza amene mumalumbira mu chikondi chosatha. Kenako mudzapeza chimwemwe chenicheni.