Kodi mawonekedwe a mkhalidwe uno akuwonetsa chiyani? Choyamba, zikutanthawuza kuti munthu amakukhulupirirani kwathunthu, ndipo mumamuuza zambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Akufuna kukudziwitsani ku chilengedwe chake, chomwe chimaphatikizapo anthu ake enieni komanso anthu apamtima. Amakuyamikirani ndikukulemekezani, ndikukuganizirani woyenera woyenera. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kutsimikizira izi pamene mukudziwana, motero kulungamitsa ziyembekezo zanu ndi zolinga zanu, monga mtsikana wokondedwa, mwa kuyankhula kwina, wosankhidwayo. Kotero, ngati munthu amadziwa achibale ake ndi abwenzi, kodi munthu angadziyese bwanji pakali pano? Tiyeni tiyesetse kuyang'anitsitsa momwe khalidwe lanu liyenera kukhalira pa wina aliyense payekha.
Kudziwa ndi achibale. Zingakhale pafupi ndi aliyense wa ife kuposa achibale athu. Awa ndi anthu omwe anali ndi inu kuyambira "chiwombankhanga". Amakudziwani kuchokera "A" mpaka "Ine" ndipo chifukwa chake maganizo anu nthawi zonse ndi lamulo kwa iwo. Kotero wosankhidwa wanu wasankha kuti ndi nthawi yoti muwonekere kwa achibale ake "pamtumba." Kuti amayamikira wosankhidwa wake. Mwa njira, ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti kuchita chinthu choyipa ndi choyipa, munthu amaganiza kuti ubale wanu wayamba kale mu siteji yazinthu zomwe sizili zovuta.
Kotero, amayi ndi alongo, pano ndi, "tsiku lachiweruzo" ili. Anasonkhanitsa banja lake lonse pansi pa denga limodzi ndi zonse kwa inu nokha. Inde, sindikukangana, banja lake ndilobwino: bambo, mayi, m'bale, ndipo mwinamwake mlongo, kupezeka kwa akuluakulu (agogo ndi agogo aamuna) ndi kotheka. Choyamba, dzipangireni ntchito, yang'anani kuti cholinga chanu ndikugonjetsa pafupi kwambiri, ndiko kuti, makolo enieni. Ndipotu, akuganiza kuti tsogolo lanu limadalira. Ndipo komabe, kumbukirani momwe mumadziwonetsera nokha pamsonkhano woyamba, kotero mudzawonekeratu m'tsogolomu. Tsoka ilo, Mulungu sanatipatse mwayi wachiwiri.
Kuti mudziwe bwino zomwe zilipo, yambani kukonzekera pasadakhale mu maganizo. Poyamba, yesetsani kulembera kalata yotsitsimula, kusiya zonse zoipa ndi maganizo, ndipo panthawiyi yesetsani kudziletsa nokha ndipo musataye kudziletsa kwanu. Lembani ndi chikumbumtima chanu kuti izi ndi zabwino ndipo achibale ake ali ngati inu, mwachitsanzo, achibale anu. Khalani nokha mwachibadwa ndi mwachibadwa - izi zidzakhala phindu lanu lalikulu.
Khalani odzichepetsa, mwachifundo ndi mwachifundo, yankhani mafunso awo onse. Yesani kumwetulira momwe mungathere ndipo musamawope kuwathandiza ndikukulitsa nawo mitu iliyonse, koma musaiwale za kudzichepetsa. Zidzakhala bwino ngati muzindikira kuti achibale anu theka lachiwiri akuzindikira kuti ndinu mpongozi wanu. Choncho, ndalama kuti mudziwonetse nokha muzitoli zoyera, bwanji simungakuwononge. Ndipo mwachibadwidwe, popanda chifukwa amauza mnzawo kwa achibale awo, atengere yekha zomwe akudziŵa.
Kudziwa ndi anzanu. Ndikofunika kuti mnyamata avomereze ndikuvomerezeni kuti mukhale naye limodzi ndi mabwenzi ake, monga abwenzi, izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wake. Ubwenzi, mu lingaliro lachimuna chabe, palibe kanthu koma chiyero ndi molingana, chifukwa cha abwenzi, iye ali wokonzekera chirichonse, nthawi iliyonse ya tsikulo. Ndikofunika kwambiri kwa iye kuti mabwenzi adzakutengereni ngati mnzanu. Choncho, wodzitamandira chifukwa chakuti adasankha kukudziwitsani kwa abwenzi ake ambiri.
Ndi mnzanu wotere, ndithudi simuyenera kuchita monga mwalamulo monga momwe tafotokozera m'ndime yapitayi. Inde, ndi kuyambanso kukonzekera maganizo pano, ndikuganiza, simukusowa kwenikweni. Ngati iwo ali abwenzi enieni, iwo adzakutenga iwe ndi kukukonda iwe momwe iwe uliri. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndiwe kusankha kwa bwenzi lawo lapamtima, ndipo posankha anzanu, monga lamulo, ndiyenera kuwerengera. Choncho, kuti muwoneke kuti ndibwino kuposa inu kwenikweni, sizothandiza. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuwonetsa ubwino wanu ndi kuwona mtima. Onetsani kuti ndinu munthu wokondweretsa ndipo muli ndi chinachake chokamba. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musaiwale kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osangalatsa. Chiyankhulo china sichingapweteke konse, ngakhale mosiyana ndi icho chingakuthandizeni kupeza malo anu mu kampani. Pankhani za zokambirana, ndiye apa muyenera kukumbukira. Chomwe chimakondweretsa suzheny yanu, pambuyo pa zonse, ziyanjano zake ndi zokhumba ziri, choyamba, zomwe abwenzi ake amakonda. Ngati abwenzi ake ali ndi atsikana, izi ndizophatikizapo zambiri, monga momwe mkazi amamvetsetsera mkazi pazochitika zilizonse. Ndiye, penyani, ndi abwenzi atsopano adzapeza.
Ngati abwenzi ake ali abwino komanso anthu abwino, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi. Ndipotu, mabwenzi ake tsopano ndi abwenzi anu. Ndipo tsopano, nthawi zambiri mumagwiritsa ntchito kampaniyi. Ndipo ziri choncho, tsopano simukusowa kudandaula ngati wokondedwa wanu akuchotsa foni. Inu tsopano mungathe molimba mtima, pa nthawi iliyonse, kutembenukira kwa abwenzi kapena achibale, mutaphunzira za komwe ali pakali pano. Chokha, ndithudi, kumbukirani kuti mukuzunza izi nkomwe.
Monga chomaliza, ndikufuna ndikuonjezerani kuti ngati munthu adziwa achibale ake ndi abwenzi, izi zikutanthauza kupititsa patsogolo mgwirizano pakati panu, kuchoka pamsonkhano wachinyamata, kupita ku malo ena akuluakulu. Mwinamwake mumutu mwake ndikukonzekera mapulani a tsogolo lanu pamodzi. Taganizani za izo. Mwina, posachedwapa, mumayesa zovala za mkwatibwi, ndipo abwenzi ake adzalumikizana ndi alendo omwe akuitanidwa ku ukwati wanu. Ndipo banja lake lidzakhala, mwachindunji ndi banja lanu.