Pali njira zambiri zoti mumangirire kwa munthu - kuchokera kumaganizo ndi zamatsenga. Choyenera kwa inu chimangodalira kokha chikhulupiriro chanu kuti njirayo ili yogwira mtima. Winawake amakonda kwambiri sayansi, kufufuza m'maganizo ndi njira zogonjetsera mtima wamphongo pogwiritsa ntchito machenjerero onyenga, ndipo wina amakhala wokonda kwambiri zamatsenga ndi miyambo yamatsenga. Koma ndani adanena kuti wina amasokonezana? Inde, sitikulankhula za matsenga akuda ndi owopsa, koma kulimbitsa njira zamaganizo ndi mapemphero amphamvu ampemphero, amatanthauza, kuonjezera mwayi wanu kuti mukhale wofunikira kwa munthu komanso zofunikira.
Njira zamalingaliro kuti munthu aphonye
Kwa njira iliyonse yokhudzidwa ndi munthu, pitirizani kukhala ndi maganizo omveka kuti musamavulaze - ngakhale kwa mwamuna, kapena kwa iye mwini, kapena ku ubale wanu. Pogwiritsira ntchito njira zokha zokhudzana ndi zachuma, mosakayikira mudzakwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna, koma kusayera, kusayera mwano ndi luntha zidzawonekera, ndipo mudzayenera kukolola zipatso zowawa. Dzivomerezeni nokha chifukwa chake mumasowa mwamuna. Ngati izi zilibe chilolezo, chikondi chopanda dyera, mumuthandize kulimbitsa, ndi kuyamba ndi njira zamaganizo zokopa chilakolako cha munthu kuti akhale ndi inu pafupi:- Kukongola ndi mphamvu yoopsa ... Koma komabe ndi matsenga enieni a amuna. Ambiri mwa iwo amatha kukana mkazi wokonzekera bwino, wokongoletsedwa, wokondwa kwambiri. Izi ndi momwe maganizo opatsirana amuna, omwe amatsatira maina a chibadwa, amakonzedwa - "mwamuna" amasankha "akazi" abwino kwambiri. Kudzidalira ndi mwayi wapamwamba. Mayi wokonzeka kuthamangira munthu, kuti adzichepetse yekha, kupempha chikondi chake ndi chisamaliro chake, sichidzakhala pamaso pa mfumukazi yamwamuna. Koma mfumukazi yokha, mu lingaliro la munthu aliyense, ndi yoyenera iyo.
- "Zikumbutso" ndi zanu zonse. Kuikidwa pamwamuna kumaletsedwa, koma wina akhoza kukhala mu masomphenya ake popanda izi. Kukuthandizani zikumbutso zokongola mwa mawonekedwe a mphete kwa makiyi, zolembera, zitsamba, ndi zina zotero. Dzikumbutseni mwa "kuzindikira" zizindikiro, chikondi, makalata, kapena mwangozi "muiwale" chinthu chanu chaching'ono m'nyumba mwake. Siyani kukhalapo kwanu pa moyo wa munthu.
- Chinsinsi ndi chinsinsi cha kupambana. Pamene mukukhala chinsinsi chosadziwika kwa munthu wanu, iye akukufunirani. Musathamangire kuti mukhale buku lotsegulidwa, lomwe chimaliziro chake chimadziwika kuchokera m'masamba oyambirira. Khalani osadziŵika, khalani ndi chidwi, chidwi, ndipo mudzawona munthu pafupi ndi inu nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi kuyesa kuyembekezera.
- Ufulu ndi msampha kwa amuna. Choyamba, ufulu wamkati ndi kukhutira kwa mkazi ndi timadzi tokoma, komwe amamera ngati njuchi. Chachiwiri, musamachepetse ufulu wa amuna. Izi ndizofunika kwambiri. Muloleni munthuyo apitirize kuganiza kuti ali nazo. Mwa njira iyi mungathe kusamalira kutalika kwa leash.
- "Ayi" ku zitsulo. Musamangire chingwe cha munthu ndipo musamupangitse kukhala mulungu. Koma ngati iye ali Mulungu chifukwa cha inu, ndiye kuti muli ndi njira imodzi yokha - kuti mukhale mulungu wake. Kukula, kukhala munthu wokondweretsa, kukhala wodzikonda komanso wodzichepetsa. Khalani kwa Mulungu wanu!
Njira zamatsenga kuti mumangirire munthu nokha
Zolinga zomwe zili pansipa sizikutanthauza zamatsenga ndipo sizikhoza kuvulaza munthu. Iwo akukwaniritsa udindo wa mphamvu "amithenga" ndipo ali ndi malingaliro amalingaliro kwa amayi omwe amakhulupirira thandizo la akulu apamwamba.- Lembani pa madzi Galasi lokhala ndi madzi oyera imaphatikiza pakati pa mitengo ya kanjedza ndi kulingalira mwamuna wanu m'malingaliro. Ganizirani za momwe akusowa ndikukusowa. Ponyani mchere pang'ono mumadzi, sungani galasi m'manja mwanu kuti musakanize mchere ndi madzi. Lankhulani: "Monga madzi awa ali amchere, motero mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) popanda ine akhale womvetsa chisoni. Adzakhala tsiku, amakhala usiku, akulakalaka ndikudandaula, sindikupeza malo opanda dzina langa (dzina). Aloleni andione paliponse - mu dzuwa, mu mphepo, mumchere, ndi m'madzi. Mawu anga ndi amphamvu ndi amphamvu! Ameni! ". Imwani madzi.
- Pulani pa Melissa Melissa ndi chomera chamatsenga chomwe chikuimira mgwirizano wamphamvu. Zimachulukitsa chifundo ndi kukopa anthu. Gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu zake kuti munthu adzowe ndi kuganizira za iwe. Ukadzuka mpaka m'maŵa. Sambani kulowetsedwa kwakukulu kwa mankhwala a mandimu ndipo, kupanga mapapu atatu, nenani: "Ntchentche, ntchentche, moto wa chikondi! Fikirani kwa mtima wa munthu aliyense! Mulole iye aganizire za ine, lolani lingaliro lake likhale ngati nthiti! ". Bwerezani chiwembu masiku atatu. Mwamunayo adzatopa!
- Chiwembu chojambula Pomwe dzuwa litatsikira, titsani nyali (kuchokera ku tchalitchi) ndikuyika chithunzi cha wokondedwa wanu patsogolo panu. Tayang'anani pa chithunzi ndikukuti: "Ndikuwona chithunzichi - mtima wanga umagunda. Ndimupatsa chikondi - iye adzayankha. Mulole mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) asagone! Moyo wake ukhale wotsika, ndipo thupi langa limasokonekera ine! Ameni! "Ikani kandulo, ikani chithunzi pansi pa pillow ndikugona ndi malingaliro okhudza munthu wokondedwa wanu.
- Gwiritsani ntchito chitumbuwa Chakudya chingatengeke ndi mbale ina iliyonse ya ufa (ziyenera kukondweretsa mwamuna wanu). Ankanena chiwembu kasanu ndi kawiri, mu mbale amathetsa ufa. Pamapeto pa nthawi iliyonse, onjezerani ufa wa sinamoni: "Mel, pesa ufa, okondedwa chifukwa cholakalaka! Lolani mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) akulakalaka, amasamala magazi ake! Kwa kukongola kwa wina, sikunadetsa thupi! Kuti maso akhale achinyengo, sanakhudze maganizo a olimba mtima! Lolani kapolo wa Mulungu (dzina) ayese mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), ndikutsanulira cinnamon pa izi! Ameni! "Konzani keke kuchokera ku chakudya chapulojekiti ndipo pemphani munthu kuti akacheze. Dyetsa ndi kuyembekezera zotsatira mwamsanga.
- Kukonzekera kwa mphepo Mu nyengo yamphepo, pitani kumsewu ndikupeze malo osungirako, oyenera kusinkhasinkha. Khalani pansi "mu Turkish" pansi kapena udzu. Dziperekeni nokha ku mphepo, imvetseni ndi kuilola kuti iwononge maganizo anu onse osamveka kuchokera pamutu mwanu. Tangoganizani munthu wokondedwa wanu, kuti amvereni. Mwamva kugwirizana kwa mphamvu ndi iye ndikuti: "Mphepo-mphepo, mumayenda padziko lonse lapansi, mumayang'ana zonse, mumadziwa zonse, mumamva zonse. Ndikukupemphani kuti ndikuthandizeni, ndikugwedeza ndi mawu achinsinsi - bweretsani kumverera kwanga (dzina), ndimupatse chikhumbo changa, amulole mu mtima mwake ndi kudya chisa chake. Mulole miniti iliyonse kutali ndi ine ikuwoneke kukhala yosatha! Aloleni aganizire za ine, kukhumba ndi chikondi! Ndikukukhudzani, mphepo, ndi dzina lachinsinsi! Chiwembu changa sichingathetsedwe, pempho langa, kupatulapo inu, palibe amene adzamva. Choncho zikhale choncho! Amen! "