Momwe mungapangire maloto kukwaniritsidwa

Inde, ndi bwino kulota. Koma ndi bwino kwambiri pamene malotowo akuchitika. Danielle Laporte wapanga njira yatsopano yopindulira zolinga, chifukwa anthu zikwi zikwi asintha miyoyo yawo. Lero tidzakambirana za izi ndikukufotokozerani ku zochitika zochokera m'buku lake "Live ndi kumverera" - kwa omwe akufuna kukwaniritsa maloto awo.

Nchifukwa chiyani tikusowa "zolinga zabwino" ndi maloto

Zokhumba zathu zimatsanulidwira muzochita, ndipo ndizochita zotani - chomwecho ndizochitika . Musayimbenso zinthu zonse mobwerezabwereza ndikuyesera kuti musamve mawu anu amkati. Moyo suli wopandamalire, chirichonse sichingakhoze kuchitidwa. Maganizo awa adapangitsa Danielle Laporte kuyang'ana pa zolinga zake ndikumvetsa kuti zonse zimayenda molakwika. Powerenga chikumbumtima chake, iye adatha kupanga dongosolo lomwe limatsutsana ndi kachitidwe kazokonzedwe kake, amasintha. Pafupi munthu aliyense padziko lapansi ali ndi malingaliro a moyo wosiyana. Ndibwino kusintha ntchito, kubwezeretsa ubale ndi mnzanu wakale, kupeza zosangalatsa, kuyenda nthawi zonse, kuphunzira chinenero ndi kusamalira kubweretsa thupi. Zikuwoneka kuti izi ndi zogawidwa ndizing'ono zogwirizana, koma ndizo zinthu izi zomwe zimapanga moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ngati muli ndi "mfundo" zoterezi, ndiye kuti tikupempha kuti tizimvetsera njira ya Daniella Laporte. Ndi zophweka, koma zothandiza. Ndi chithandizo chake, pang'onopang'ono mungayambe kusintha - ndipo chifukwa chake, posachedwa akukhala ndi moyo wosangalatsa kwambiri.

Mapu anga ndi otani

Khadi lokhumba ndi pulogalamu yomwe imakulolani kuti mutembenuzire malingaliro enieni mothandizidwa ndi funso limodzi: "Kodi ndikufuna kumverera bwanji?". Funso lophweka limapangitsa kuti likhale losiyana kwambiri ndikukonzekera moyo wanu ndikuchita ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku. Chinthu choyamba chimene mungachite ndicho kuganizira zakumverera ndi maganizo omwe mukukumana mawa / sabata / chaka, ndipo pokhapokha muthake zolinga ndikuziphwanya muzochita zing'onozing'ono. Kawirikawiri anthu ali ndi chosiyana: poyamba amalemba zolingazo, ndiyeno zikafika, amamvetsa mmene akumvera. Mwachitsanzo, adasamukira kuntchito, monga adafunira, ndipo anakhala bwana wamkulu. Koma izi zinakhala kuti sikuti ndi malipiro okhaokha, komanso kuti ndizofunika kwambiri komanso zosakhala zofunikira. Zotsatira zake ndizokhumudwitsa, kukhumudwa, kusasamala. Osati malingaliro abwino mu dziko. Koma mukhoza kuchita mosiyana! Choyamba, sankhani momwe mumamvera. Kungakhale chisangalalo, bata, kudzoza, mphamvu, kulingalira, kulenga. Mafunso otsatirawa omwe mukudzifunsayo ndi awa: "Ndizifukwa zotani zomwe zondipatsazi zidzandipatsa ine?" Ndipo "Ndizichita zotani tsopano / mawa / sabata ino / mwezi uno kuti ndikumva izi?" . Kotero iwe upanga ndondomeko ya chaka chotsatira kapena angapo, mfundo zazikulu zomwe zidzakhala maloto ndi zolinga zanu zenizeni -zo zomwe moyo ukufuna, osati malemba monga "kugula galimoto", "kukhala munthu wopambana" (mwa njira, osadziŵa chiyani kodi izo zikutanthawuza?) kapena "kutenga banja".

Chitani "Thupi ndi Thanzi Labwino"

Mungathe kukwaniritsa zambiri - apa pano tifunikira kupeza chifukwa chake mukufunikira (komanso ngati mukufuna). Mukamvetsetsa kuti mumamva bwanji ndikumva, kumadzuka pabedi, kuntchito, mu ubale ndi okondedwa anu, mudzapeza kuti mukuyesera zinthu zosiyana kwambiri ndi ntchito yabwino "ya amalume . " Ndipo njira yopita ku cholinga chanu idzakhala yosangalatsa kwa inu. Kotero inu mukhala okhutira pakufikira zolinga osati nthawi ina mtsogolo, mu tsogolo lamtsogolo, koma lero ndi tsopano. Khadi lokhumba ndibwino kuti lipangidwe kawiri pachaka, kotero kuti muli ndi mwayi wofufuzira zolemba zanu - kodi mwadzidzidzi mukusowa kusintha? Njira iyi ndi yoyenera kwa anthu ogwira ntchito ndi otanganidwa: ndi dongosolo lomveka lomwe liri ndi zolinga ndi zochita zofunika, ndipo sasintha tsiku ndi tsiku. Kupanga Mapu athunthu a zikhumbo, muyenera kuyendetsa mbali zonse zofunika pamoyo. Pakali pano, yesetsani kupeza "malingaliro anu" mmadera monga Thupi ndi Thanzi. Izi zimaphatikizapo zigawo zazing'ono: chakudya, thupi, kupumula, kusangalala, thanzi labwino, kukhudzidwa, kuyenda, machiritso. Kuchita zochitikazi, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuti mukhale nazo muzinthu izi.

1. Kuti "mugwire" mawonekedwe abwino, lembani pamapepala zonse zomwe mumayamikila moyo wanu mu Thupi ndi Thanzi. Kuonjezerapo, zidzakuthandizani kupeza zomwe mungaganizire. Ndibwino kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake mumayamikira kwambiri.
2. Gawo lachiwiri likuyang'ana zofooka : lembani zonse zomwe simukuzikonda m'dera lino. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti mukonze zinthu, muyenera kudziwa kuti ndi ndani. Muyenera kuganizira za mavuto ofunika kwambiri, koma musaiwale zazing'ono.
3. Nthawi yafika yomwe chirichonse chinayambika - kudziwika kwa malingaliro ofuna. Ganizirani ndi kulemba zonse-zonse-zomverera zonse ndi malingaliro omwe mungakonde kumva pa Thupi ndi Thanzi. Mwinamwake, mutenga mndandanda wautali. Ndipo zabwino kwambiri! Musadzidziyese nokha ndipo musaleke kuzimitsa - lembani zonse zomwe zimabwera m'maganizo mwanu osasanthula. Maganizo ayenera kuima pambali, panthawi yomwe idawuni yoyamba ndiyo moyo wanu.
4. Ndipo tsopano tikufupikitsa mndandanda wa malingaliro . Mukhoza kuchita nthawi yomweyo kapena masiku angapo. Apanso, ganizirani mawu aliwonse olembedwa, liwuzeni mokweza ndipo muwone ngati izi ndi zomwe mukufuna. Siyani mawu ngati mumamva kuti muli ndi mphamvu kwambiri mu maganizo ake: mukufuna kulira, kukwiya, kumwetulira, mumakhala ndi chimwemwe komanso chimwemwe. Awa ndiwo malingaliro obisika kwambiri.

Zachitika! Ichi chinali gawo loyamba ndi lofunika kwambiri la ntchito ndi zolinga zanu zatsopano. Ndiyeno mumangokonzanso kampasi yanu yamkati, mutenge zofanana ndi malingaliro ndi zolingazi ndikuganiza momwe mungapindulire. Ngati mutatsata Desire Card, kusintha sikudzatenga nthawi yaitali.